i do it all the time

i'd go on his messenger and chat with one of our mutual guy friends and deliberatly put in some flirtatious language like "sweety" and "honey" lol but they would most likely figure it out... no idea how

I would just add that it is very sad that people who cheat hurt others so deeply and many times it is not just one other person but entire families and many other compleatly innocent people. I have seen businesses and churches and entire communities torn apart.

I think anyone who has been cheated on has every right to be angry, hurt, resentful or any other feeling they might have. Broken trust is hard to restore. And I think it does leave lasting scars. I can tell you that I have even seen elderly people on their death bed suffering from being betrayed by a parent or a lover.

I would truely hope as we lead our lives we don't contribute to other's people's heartaches. Covering for a cheat betrays the families and often times they do find out that not only their partners cheated but their trusted family and friends didn't bother to protect them either. It amazes me the number of people who actually help. It truely compounds the betrayal. It is so unfair when the children are forced into the lie. They loose all the way around.

If you trust them, why would you need to?

Why not just ask?

because people who are prone to cover the truth are also prone to lie. weird.

Only if my spider sense told me to.

Probably shouldn't have dated them then...if you have to look at someone's personal things because *you* think they are cheating, the problem may lie in *you* more than them.

In a hot minute. My ex-SIL got into her second hubby's computer and found he was running a child porn business out of their home, while she was at work. She had suspected him of cheating, but not with children!

I missed the part where we started talking about me. thanks for the update.

Didn't say your name, did I? *you* General, you, me, anyone...now if I said Daydreamer, then I would be talking about you and not *you*.

you quoted me!

LMAO Thanks guys for the laugh

Even when someone quotes a post someone makes, that doesn't necessarily mean that they are referring directly to the person who posted what they are quoting.

Wait...I think I may have just managed to completely confuse myself.

You made the comment that brought up my post, go ahead and think I was talking about you...I could care less.