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Topic: What I'd really like to know
Ruth34611's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:28 AM
is why people post questions or opinions and then when they don't like the responses they get mad?

frustrated

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Sat 10/25/08 10:30 AM
they are fishing for answers that reinforce what they already have decided

breathless1's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:31 AM
Or maybe it's just because...well...they do! ohwell

I never really let it bother me because quite frankly...I could give two sh*ts! :tongue:

Mayhem_J's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:31 AM
To simply stir up trouble. I wouldnt let it get to you hot stuff.

buffry's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:32 AM
Maybe you should read my reply...before you post about "people"...lol I meant nothing by the exclamation point! I just do it outta habit!!!!!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:34 AM

is why people post questions or opinions and then when they don't like the responses they get mad?

frustrated
well those are the people we should be happy about,we atleast know we can scratch them off our interested listbigsmile

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:35 AM

Maybe you should read my reply...before you post about "people"...lol I meant nothing by the exclamation point! I just do it outta habit!!!!!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh


Perhaps you shouldn't assume this thread is about you. I post in just about every thread here on a daily basis. flowerforyou

buffry's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:36 AM


Maybe you should read my reply...before you post about "people"...lol I meant nothing by the exclamation point! I just do it outta habit!!!!!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh


Perhaps you shouldn't assume this thread is about you. I post in just about every thread here on a daily basis. flowerforyou


Oh...sorry hon...I shouldn't have assumed like that!flowerforyou I hate when people are mad at me, lol!

120557's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:36 AM
Because they are not sure of themselves and need to be reassured that they are right in their thinking. Which I think is pure B.S.. If you ask someone their opinion on something, then concider wht they are telling you. They might just be correct after all.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:36 AM

they are fishing for answers that reinforce what they already have decided


I think this is the crux of the matter. They are not actually questions posed in order to elicit differing view points. I see this the most in the religion threads but more and more in the relationship advice threads.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:37 AM



Maybe you should read my reply...before you post about "people"...lol I meant nothing by the exclamation point! I just do it outta habit!!!!!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh


Perhaps you shouldn't assume this thread is about you. I post in just about every thread here on a daily basis. flowerforyou


Oh...sorry hon...I shouldn't have assumed like that!flowerforyou I hate when people are mad at me, lol!


Not mad at you at all. happy

breathless1's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:39 AM
Might I ask why it seems to bother you so much?

Just curious is all. ohwell

buffry's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:39 AM


they are fishing for answers that reinforce what they already have decided


I think this is the crux of the matter. They are not actually questions posed in order to elicit differing view points. I see this the most in the religion threads but more and more in the relationship advice threads.


I dunno...I personally post things that will provoke thought and stir up chaos. I like seeing people with their minds in a whirl thinking up a storm. Not that I want to upset people, but I loooove a good debate, ya know?

MsCarmen's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:40 AM
I totally agree with Quiet on this one.


And I gotta say, after reading further down, I am now laughing my a$$ off!!!! Some peoplenoway noway noway

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Sat 10/25/08 10:40 AM

To simply stir up trouble. I wouldnt let it get to you hot stuff.
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mcattygarnett's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:41 AM

they are fishing for answers that reinforce what they already have decided

so very truebigsmile

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:42 AM

I dunno...I personally post things that will provoke thought and stir up chaos. I like seeing people with their minds in a whirl thinking up a storm. Not that I want to upset people, but I loooove a good debate, ya know?


You could be right about this. I don't like to debate at all. I like to hear everyone's view points and then just think about it all, coming to my own conclusions. There's nothing wrong with debating....mabye it's just me.

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Sat 10/25/08 10:44 AM
but then in the political threads, it seems there are a few people who spend all there time surfing the crazy right/left wing hate sates and think they have to wallpaper mingle with all the hate articles.

I like to talk about stuff and it's impossible with them

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:46 AM

but then in the political threads, it seems there are a few people who spend all there time surfing the crazy right/left wing hate sates and think they have to wallpaper mingle with all the hate articles.

I like to talk about stuff and it's impossible with them
totally agree thats why i dont even go there or religion anymore.

breathless1's photo
Sat 10/25/08 10:47 AM


I dunno...I personally post things that will provoke thought and stir up chaos. I like seeing people with their minds in a whirl thinking up a storm. Not that I want to upset people, but I loooove a good debate, ya know?


You could be right about this. I don't like to debate at all. I like to hear everyone's view points and then just think about it all, coming to my own conclusions. There's nothing wrong with debating....mabye it's just me.


Why don't you like to debate? Do you view it as confrontational? Are you perhaps the one who gets all flustered and pis*sy because folks may oppose your viewpoints?

I'm not being confrontational here at all, and not even solicitating a debate. flowerforyou

Just asking again...why does this seem to bother you so much? So much so to post a topic about it?

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