Okay, I know everyone loves to get compliments, right?

So what do you MOST want to be complimented for? And why, if you want to share that with us.

A. Your looks
B. Your mind
C. Your actions

An example of A is "You have a nice smile." or "That's a GREAT shirt!"

An example of B is "I like the way you think." or "You're pretty clever!"

An example of C is "Wow! You wrote that?" or "I didn't know you could paint!"

My Hygiene , Just the other day I had a lady friend of mine say "WOW You finally took a shower"

I think I will take B.

I rarely get compliments on how I look, so those really make my day. Just yesterday, someone asked me if I "work out".

No, I simply work hard at my job...but thanks for noticing! Since they're so rare, they mean more to me than the other two choices.

C.

A doesn't bother me to much because I'm confident (not conceited) about how I look. I think I'm beautiful, and to me, that's all that matters.

I do get compliments as far as B goes, but that's only because I like to take the time to listen, and by doing that, I'm able to give better answers, or better solutions.

So I guess I'd like to get more compliments on C. Even though I know that I am a really good Mom, and I'm a hard worker, it would still be nice to be acknowledged for it. It's not something I hear that often.

I get a lot of C, no A and ...ummm I forgot...what was the other one?

It doesn't matter. But, if someone is going to compliment me, I want it to be sincere no matter what it's about.

I didn't notice.....a poll.

you're pretty cool MBD...

Honestly, I really couldn't care less one way or the other about compliments. I'm just me, this is who I am, and this is what I do. Take it or leave it, it makes no difference to me. If I have something to say, I just say it, and I usually don't mince words. I have often been accused of being overly opinionated (and some other stronger names than that), and that may be true to some extent, but at least I have no fear in standing up for something. I'm about as anti-"politically correct" as a person can get.

Got A?....check.
Got B?....check.
Got C?....check.
Still alone?....check.
Got D?....need D.

Honestly I do what ever I do or say but do not expect anything back.

But if I was to choose one it would be C for the actions or things that I do or say that others appreciate.

my "ideas"

Compliment? Is that when they point and laugh?

It depends on who it's coming from and the situation. I don't want to be in the middle of passionate love making and have him say, "you are so smart and funny."

But it's true.

I hate compliments about my appearance! My mind is ever soo much more important. Looks fade and I'd rather be appreciated for something that will stick til the end of time!

I don't care about them. I know who and what I am and that is all that matters to me.