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Some of the younger members might not be able to fathom this yet, but what is your greatest fear of growing older?
I don't want to become dependent in any shape, form or fashion. |
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Honestly?
I would not like to die too young and miss experiencing the joy of participating in the development of my kids careers and families. Other than that, I am prepared to encounter whatever illness or decline will be my fortune knowing that, in the end, we all fade and the exact nature of our particular illnesses and deaths is completely meaningless. Of course, if I could choose, I'd go quickly and quietly in my sleep with no long drawn out burdensome dependence on others - but wouldn't we all... |
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What you both said. If I ever get dependant on anybody,I wanna go quick
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Some of the younger members might not be able to fathom this yet, but what is your greatest fear of growing older? I don't want to become dependent in any shape, form or fashion. Losing my mind, I could cope with not being able to get around ( I think) |
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do not want to ever forget who i am
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dying before i can reap the benefits of my old age pension and social security.
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Having to wear depends
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Having to wear depends That's the fun part of growing old, no need to go to the loo during the game |
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I can relate to all of ya. But i guess i can cope with whatever comes along, after all what choice do we have. I talked with a fellow the other day that is 93. Of course he looks like crap but his mind is sharper than mine and he still gets along great. I can't imagine what he's seen in his years and I really like chatting with him.
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I agree with Grammy, I don't want to forget who I am. I don't want Alzheimer's. My husband's grandfather will be 102 in a couple of weeks and is still going strong! I want to be like him.
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Having to wear depends That's the fun part of growing old, no need to go to the loo during the game and everyone will understand that "wadded" up underwear you're wearing, it's full!!! |
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I can't stand the thoughts of not being able to provide my own way, for my children to one day maybe have to become MY "parent", not being able to keep up the pace! I'd rather "check out" first.
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Having to wear depends That's the fun part of growing old, no need to go to the loo during the game and everyone will understand that "wadded" up underwear you're wearing, it's full!!! Not to mention keeping me warm |
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Do not ever want to be dependent on my kids..Also, after watching my husband and his mom go thru Alzheimers ( she is still living at age 99) hope I just go quickly...
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getting too sick to be independent.
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Having to wear depends |
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Having to wear depends And what is wrong with incontinent pants ? ( depends) I wear them all the while................Practicing for when the time comes |
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the only fear , for me, is NOT growing old
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actually i am not convinced that there is an end, but fear of the unknown is always doing pushups ...
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Not being able to take care of myself, do what I want & enjoy life.
Ever get to bad off, there will be a huge accident. |
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