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| Topic: Dating 101: The Truth About Why Men Cheat-Revised | |
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I honestly don't see men as very monogamous creatures to begin with. Sex is important and variety is about every man's dream. Many get married in part to keep the theory of a steady sex life and then sleep with others to get the variety. There are many other things that might prompt a man to not be monogamous, but I've got to say that it most often boils down to expanding sexual gratification. The trend of swinging enables both the husband and the wife to both "cheat". It isn't for every couple, but for some it is edifying. Bullcrap. |
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People who cheat have integrity issues.....and relationship issues.... and got caught 
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I honestly don't see men as very monogamous creatures to begin with. Sex is important and variety is about every man's dream. Many get married in part to keep the theory of a steady sex life and then sleep with others to get the variety. There are many other things that might prompt a man to not be monogamous, but I've got to say that it most often boils down to expanding sexual gratification. The trend of swinging enables both the husband and the wife to both "cheat". It isn't for every couple, but for some it is edifying. Bullcrap. Go ahead and ignore the truth then. I guarantee that if there was an environment where a man could absolutely do as he pleased concerning relationships, one that completely catered to his decisions and aspirations, not very many would be in a relationship with just one woman. |
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I honestly don't see men as very monogamous creatures to begin with. Sex is important and variety is about every man's dream. Many get married in part to keep the theory of a steady sex life and then sleep with others to get the variety. There are many other things that might prompt a man to not be monogamous, but I've got to say that it most often boils down to expanding sexual gratification. The trend of swinging enables both the husband and the wife to both "cheat". It isn't for every couple, but for some it is edifying. Bullcrap. Go ahead and ignore the truth then. I guarantee that if there was an environment where a man could absolutely do as he pleased concerning relationships, one that completely catered to his decisions and aspirations, not very many would be in a relationship with just one woman. Humm so now is it that its society fault now and they have a noose around there neck telling them to be in a relationship with only one woman. No one makes them agree to that the choice is theirs. And they say women change their minds all the time. shshhs All I can say those are the ones that need to stay single. |
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People who cheat have integrity issues.....and relationship issues.... and got caught
Funny....hope you weren't referring to me, as i've never cheated in a relationship.... |
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I honestly don't see men as very monogamous creatures to begin with. Sex is important and variety is about every man's dream. Many get married in part to keep the theory of a steady sex life and then sleep with others to get the variety. There are many other things that might prompt a man to not be monogamous, but I've got to say that it most often boils down to expanding sexual gratification. The trend of swinging enables both the husband and the wife to both "cheat". It isn't for every couple, but for some it is edifying. Bullcrap. Go ahead and ignore the truth then. I guarantee that if there was an environment where a man could absolutely do as he pleased concerning relationships, one that completely catered to his decisions and aspirations, not very many would be in a relationship with just one woman. Humm so now is it that its society fault now and they have a noose around there neck telling them to be in a relationship with only one woman. No one makes them agree to that the choice is theirs. And they say women change their minds all the time. shshhs All I can say those are the ones that need to stay single. Society doesn't really exist so blaming that is rather silly. They simply make choices that might best enable them to succeed at what they want/need. It isn't right to say that a person SHOULD stay single. There is many times benefit from staying that close with a person. |
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People who cheat have integrity issues.....and relationship issues.... and got caught
Funny....hope you weren't referring to me, as i've never cheated in a relationship.... wasnt referring to anyone in particular and neither have I ever |
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no doubt.Cheating is not right. But your partner ignoring you or not letting you know you are appreciated gets very old very fast and a man WILL go to who appreciates him and what he does-PERIOD!This isn't right as well for her to ignore her man.He's not just there to give a woman a free ride in life or to do everything financially and otherwise while she runs up bills you can't pay and leaves or cheats which is one of the two cases if not both.Guys are noticing the trends of ladies behavior and we will strike first now a days......we already know whats up and whats good in these days.Games were ok until we decided to play them back. So what!! Is it that hard to open your mouth and tell your S/O "This relationship sucks and it's either got to change or it's over!"???? That's what I did, and gave him almost a year to change, he didn't I left, now 4 years later he's still acting a fool because he didn't get his way. Although there is "blame" on both sides, the person who cheats is weak, and has self esteem issues. If they were secure in themselves they would do the right thing, instead they are weak willed and weak minded and take the easy way out to satisfy themselves and not the person who has put up with their crap for years. My mama always said "You always respect the person who washes your underware" |
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I honestly don't see men as very monogamous creatures to begin with. Sex is important and variety is about every man's dream. Many get married in part to keep the theory of a steady sex life and then sleep with others to get the variety. There are many other things that might prompt a man to not be monogamous, but I've got to say that it most often boils down to expanding sexual gratification. The trend of swinging enables both the husband and the wife to both "cheat". It isn't for every couple, but for some it is edifying. Bullcrap. Go ahead and ignore the truth then. I guarantee that if there was an environment where a man could absolutely do as he pleased concerning relationships, one that completely catered to his decisions and aspirations, not very many would be in a relationship with just one woman. Humm so now is it that its society fault now and they have a noose around there neck telling them to be in a relationship with only one woman. No one makes them agree to that the choice is theirs. And they say women change their minds all the time. shshhs All I can say those are the ones that need to stay single. Society doesn't really exist so blaming that is rather silly. They simply make choices that might best enable them to succeed at what they want/need. It isn't right to say that a person SHOULD stay single. There is many times benefit from staying that close with a person. Please refer to this users previous posts, it is futile to argue with him, he has no sense of reason. HE IS ALWAYS RIGHT.... and bad at it may I add. |
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I was drinking a sip of soda when I read, "society doesn't really exist"...
I definitely aspirated. |
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I honestly don't see men as very monogamous creatures to begin with. Sex is important and variety is about every man's dream. Many get married in part to keep the theory of a steady sex life and then sleep with others to get the variety. There are many other things that might prompt a man to not be monogamous, but I've got to say that it most often boils down to expanding sexual gratification. The trend of swinging enables both the husband and the wife to both "cheat". It isn't for every couple, but for some it is edifying. Bullcrap. Go ahead and ignore the truth then. I guarantee that if there was an environment where a man could absolutely do as he pleased concerning relationships, one that completely catered to his decisions and aspirations, not very many would be in a relationship with just one woman. Humm so now is it that its society fault now and they have a noose around there neck telling them to be in a relationship with only one woman. No one makes them agree to that the choice is theirs. And they say women change their minds all the time. shshhs All I can say those are the ones that need to stay single. Society doesn't really exist so blaming that is rather silly. They simply make choices that might best enable them to succeed at what they want/need. It isn't right to say that a person SHOULD stay single. There is many times benefit from staying that close with a person. Please refer to this users previous posts, it is futile to argue with him, he has no sense of reason. HE IS ALWAYS RIGHT.... and bad at it may I add. You need to point toward yourself with these comments--enough said. |
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I was drinking a sip of soda when I read, "society doesn't really exist"... I definitely aspirated. What's wrong with that - bill collectors dont exist either
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Fran did you choke with the 'nuff said?
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I got his back Lilith, he just didnt include the disclaimer that he meant in his world - society didnt exist.
ok ok heading back to my room now as for the fishy kisser... should I contribute 
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I got his back Lilith, he just didnt include the disclaimer that he meant in his world - society didnt exist. ok ok heading back to my room now as for the fishy kisser... should I contribute
In popcorn, oh yes. |
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I was drinking a sip of soda when I read, "society doesn't really exist"... I definitely aspirated. Culture exists, but a true society? No way. There are not common interests, there are not common ends, there is constant competition with each other--what we have is pretty close to chaos. |
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Fran did you choke with the 'nuff said?
I did cuz there wasn't enough said..... I don't understand how he can compair him to me, but then in reality I don't want to know.... It's a scary place and I'm still in my jammies. |
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I have a BA in Sociology...
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I was drinking a sip of soda when I read, "society doesn't really exist"... I definitely aspirated. Culture exists, but a true society? No way. There are not common interests, there are not common ends, there is constant competition with each other--what we have is pretty close to chaos. see what I mean? |
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Fran did you choke with the 'nuff said?
I did cuz there wasn't enough said..... I don't understand how he can compair him to me, but then in reality I don't want to know.... It's a scary place and I'm still in my jammies. No one compares to you - Sade {envy Lily - she's in jammies I'm in work gear}  life is not fair 
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