Topic: why are people so afraid
galendgirl's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:18 PM
Everybody's lonely sometime, but mostly I'm okay with my own company... am not opposed to other company or relationships. I'm just not going to wallow in misery when I am by myself because life is too precious to waste!

ABS929cbrrr's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:20 PM
i'll admit i am lonely only in the area of having someone special. besides that i have plenty of things to keep myself busy and not having a lonely feeling...how every going to bed each night with out a lady beside ya can get very lonely...ill admitt that.

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:23 PM
I never get lonely. I got the voices in my head to keep me company.:tongue: laugh laugh laugh

ABS929cbrrr's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:23 PM
Edited by ABS929cbrrr on Sun 10/19/08 06:24 PM
haha...i got plenty of those.

FETTS61's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:24 PM

Emptiness is loneliness, and
loneliness is cleanliness
And cleanliness is godliness, and
god is empty just like me

no photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:25 PM
I'd rather be alone and lonely--that makes sense
than to feel lonely with someone--that just sucks!!

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:29 PM
I'm not afraid.. I am alone but not lonely... To be lonely would say that I'm not satisfied with myself and that I should settle to not be lonely... I have moments where I feel a little lonely, like always being the 3rd or 5th wheel when we go to dinner or Valentine's day, birthday, etc. But I have great family and friends so even though I don't have anyone, I'm not lonely...

celtic_kitten's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:33 PM

I'd rather be alone and lonely--that makes sense
than to feel lonely with someone--that just sucks!!


I agree - feeling totally lonely when you know there is always someone there is one of the worst things

mssilverfox's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:36 PM
Edited by mssilverfox on Sun 10/19/08 06:36 PM
I'm the first to admit that I get lonely alot, but I do keep busy.. I travel a lot too, most times alone but I don't mind...can do what I want, when I want...nights are the hardest...was married most of my adult life..just take it one day at a time...:smile:

no photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:38 PM
A time for everything in life.

Right now its for being alone and getting comfortable with it.

Do I miss being in the house with the family?
Yep.

Am I miserable living alone?
Nope.

Am I doing things with other people?
Yes I am.

brenlee1965's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:46 PM

most days I can deal with it
and feel pretty good,
but once in awhile
like today, it really hurts inside.


We all have times like this. And it's NORMAL. Tomorrow is another day and maybe not so emotionally painful for you.

flowers

coco56's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:50 PM
feel alone today but most days i dont

ledi180's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:51 PM
Yeah, I'll admit it, I'm lonely most times. I've got my kiddo to keep me busy and thank heavens for that, but make no mistake, I'm lonely. I try not to concentrate on it or I'd be quite a mess. flowerforyou

no photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:54 PM
distraction keeps the lonlies away, but they still remain usually. ohwell

Lily0923's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:54 PM

Women,

can't live with em ,

can't live without em,


laugh laugh laugh laugh :wink: flowerforyou

Luv u ladies


pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork




and don't touch his freaking phone.explode explode explode explode explode

Lily0923's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:54 PM
Edited by Lily0923 on Sun 10/19/08 06:55 PM
Damn Mingle gremlins.....

Lily0923's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:54 PM
Edited by Lily0923 on Sun 10/19/08 06:55 PM
Stop feeding them after midnight huh?

scottious's photo
Sun 10/19/08 07:42 PM

to admit that they're lonely.
like it's some kind of fault,
or a sickness or something.

"Oh, I'm alone, but not lonely"
yeah, right.

I'm lonely as hell, and I'm not
afraid to admit it.

so com'on fess up.


You're brave. Nobody wants to admit a weakness but I suspect everybody gets lonely. I know I am.

Cursed's photo
Sun 10/19/08 10:49 PM
<<<Lonely Kinda weird after being with someone for so long. Makes it hard to sleep at night. Even my poor cat is depressed a bit. She took his playmate!
Ya we're both lonely.

no photo
Sun 10/19/08 10:54 PM
I don't like people, so I'm not lonely for them.