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Topic: Backing Off
SimplyElla's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:17 AM
Edited by SimplyElla on Sat 10/18/08 10:33 AM
So...
There have been a few dates a few kisses, and then nothing... Why do guys back off when there is obvious chemistry?
Why not just take it to the next level?
Especially when the girl is ready and willing to do so?
And has made it obvious she wants to?

Any answers?



er next level doesn't mean sex -- want to make that clear


little more the say ----
he is telling people we are dating introduces me as his girl and yadda yadda.. everything is honky dory but when its one on one he clams up and gets distance between us... then when we are in a big group again it takes him time to come around again

maraskia74's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:19 AM
no clue maybe moving too fast

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:19 AM
Frightened.

cottonelle's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:19 AM
yes

no photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:20 AM
Same thing happens to me...at least you are getting dates...

no photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:20 AM
they are skeered

MsCarmen's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:20 AM
Hey, if subtle hints don't work, just attack them! It's always worked for me!bigsmile laugh laugh laugh

Etrain's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:21 AM
smokin nosmokin

SimplyElla's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:21 AM

Hey, if subtle hints don't work, just attack them! It's always worked for me!bigsmile laugh laugh laugh


:laughing: I am about to be at that point! Ha ha ha

no photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:22 AM
Tell him what you want.

SimplyElla's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:23 AM

smokin nosmokin


Etrain!!!!!!
You can't just put that!!!!!!
Give me something more than that! Ha ha ha

cottonelle's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:24 AM


smokin nosmokin


Etrain!!!!!!
You can't just put that!!!!!!
Give me something more than that! Ha ha ha

see etrain, she agreed with my yes answer so it must be right

no photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:25 AM
Because he's weak. Been there, done that. I hate games, and it sounds like he's playing them with you. Good luck if you decide to stay...flowerforyou

Etrain's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:25 AM


smokin nosmokin


Etrain!!!!!!
You can't just put that!!!!!!
Give me something more than that! Ha ha ha

smokin Just grab em in the biscuitssmokin

SimplyElla's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:26 AM



smokin nosmokin


Etrain!!!!!!
You can't just put that!!!!!!
Give me something more than that! Ha ha ha

see etrain, she agreed with my yes answer so it must be right


scared your pics freaks me out dude... seriously scared

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:26 AM
I can't get a date these days due to some women playing games ohwell F*ck em

no photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:26 AM
Maybe he just realized that he is a woman stuck in a man's body who is a lesbian, but secretly likes men.

SimplyElla's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:27 AM

Because he's weak. Been there, done that. I hate games, and it sounds like he's playing them with you. Good luck if you decide to stay...flowerforyou



Is he weak or is he respectfully shy and moving slower?

cottonelle's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:28 AM




smokin nosmokin


Etrain!!!!!!
You can't just put that!!!!!!
Give me something more than that! Ha ha ha

see etrain, she agreed with my yes answer so it must be right


scared your pics freaks me out dude... seriously scared

i know, i get a lot of e-mails saying the same thing...lol

Wynni's photo
Sat 10/18/08 10:29 AM

Maybe he just realized that he is a woman stuck in a man's body who is a lesbian, but secretly likes men.


ouch, that made my head hurt

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