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Topic: Backing Off
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Sat 10/18/08 10:29 AM

So...
There have been a few dates a few kisses, and then nothing... Why do guys back off when there is obvious chemistry?
Why not just take it to the next level?
Especially when the girl is ready and willing to do so?
And has made it obvious she wants to?

Any answers?


No answer -- I don't do that, and it doesn't make any sense to me.

Unless the guy is just truly disinterested -- in which case he should have made this clear much sooner....


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Sat 10/18/08 10:29 AM


Maybe he just realized that he is a woman stuck in a man's body who is a lesbian, but secretly likes men.


ouch, that made my head hurt


It was meant to, lol.

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Sat 10/18/08 10:29 AM





smokin nosmokin


Etrain!!!!!!
You can't just put that!!!!!!
Give me something more than that! Ha ha ha

see etrain, she agreed with my yes answer so it must be right


scared your pics freaks me out dude... seriously scared

i know, i get a lot of e-mails saying the same thing...lol


seriously creeeeepy dude... no lie... ha ha its like i dont want to look at it but cant stop because it is looking at me type of thing... weird blah

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Sat 10/18/08 10:31 AM
If he's too "scared" to get close to you, he has no business dating in the first place. I'll never understand the man (or woman, for those men who will take offense to this, LOL) who actively dates, but when it seems like she might be into him, and he might be into her, he/she runs for the hills.

That's middle school behavior. Personally, I think it's better to be alone than always playing games- especially when it's impossible to win.

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Sat 10/18/08 10:32 AM






smokin nosmokin


Etrain!!!!!!
You can't just put that!!!!!!
Give me something more than that! Ha ha ha

see etrain, she agreed with my yes answer so it must be right


scared your pics freaks me out dude... seriously scared

i know, i get a lot of e-mails saying the same thing...lol


seriously creeeeepy dude... no lie... ha ha its like i dont want to look at it but cant stop because it is looking at me type of thing... weird blah

got to love thoughs puppy dog eyes...lol

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Sat 10/18/08 10:33 AM
smokin It is the mucus that binds ussmokin

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Sat 10/18/08 10:33 AM



er next level doesn't mean sex -- want to make that clear


Well then, what is the next level?

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Sat 10/18/08 10:38 AM




er next level doesn't mean sex -- want to make that clear


Well then, what is the next level?


ok him and i been THERE and now are taking a lot of steps back to get to know each other and see whats going on... things having been awesome and going good... just a little too slow for me... not used to a shy guy and being the aggressive one on all aspects... ha ha

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Sat 10/18/08 10:39 AM
We're chickhenchit unless the next level is working on a car together

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