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Topic: judge not
lavos28 Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 1196	Fri 10/10/08 12:59 PM
judge judy is cool too

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Fri 10/10/08 12:59 PM
Judge Reinhold was good in Fast Times at Ridgemont High

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Fri 10/10/08 01:00 PM
let people be themselves and then decide is what works for me

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Fri 10/10/08 01:01 PM
Why then do you see in all the threads "I don't judge others" Where are those people? Anybody that uses the filters on their emails are judging everyone. Just an example. Would this be a correct assumption???

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 10/10/08 01:08 PM
why should i waste my time judging people? ill leave that to all the a**holes on here I hope you were being sarcastic.... well there are a few on here im not saying everyone sorry that came out wrong You made a judgement call you called them assholes.

dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Fri 10/10/08 01:33 PM
Because you can learn from people and you don't know what it is like to be them unless you can walk in thier shoes.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Fri 10/10/08 01:35 PM
I want to hear from everyone who says they don't judge and I want to know why you don't judge others.... I'm not going to judge you for your non-judgement. I just want to know why you don't... Everybody judges in one way or another, some just judge to a lesser degree. I don't tend to until I get to know someone, mainly because I don't like to make assumptions.

jimmy99005 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 5815	Fri 10/10/08 01:36 PM
We're judging a swimsuit contest?

KarlaMay Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 122	Fri 10/10/08 01:39 PM
I have a bad habit of judging people, but am always hopeful they'll prove me wrong.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 10/10/08 01:40 PM
i'm the judge,jury and executioner

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Fri 10/10/08 01:43 PM
I just Evaluate them Is that the same thing

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Fri 10/10/08 01:45 PM
When people say they don't judge, what they really mean is that usually they're willing to let people live their lives how they see fit as long as it's not causing any harm. I might say I don't judge people that smoke, even though I don't want to date a smoker. Obviously I made a judgement, but I didn't force that judgement on them. What's funny is that many people that say they don't judge really believe they don't.

jimmy99005 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 5815	Fri 10/10/08 01:46 PM
I want to hear from everyone who says they don't judge and I want to know why you don't judge others.... I'm not going to judge you for your non-judgement. I just want to know why you don't... How often do you judge someone souly off they're looks?

KarlaMay Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 122	Fri 10/10/08 01:51 PM
When people say they don't judge, what they really mean is that usually they're willing to let people live their lives how they see fit as long as it's not causing any harm. I might say I don't judge people that smoke, even though I don't want to date a smoker. Obviously I made a judgement, but I didn't force that judgement on them. What's funny is that many people that say they don't judge really believe they don't. I agree with you. We all form opinions about others. Even if we don't vocalize them, they are still judgments all the same.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 10/10/08 01:51 PM
ok ok someone come clean - how am I judged????

KarlaMay Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 122	Fri 10/10/08 01:57 PM
I want to hear from everyone who says they don't judge and I want to know why you don't judge others.... I'm not going to judge you for your non-judgement. I just want to know why you don't... How often do you judge someone souly off they're looks? Aren't we all here to be judged in a way? Putting a pic up = judge me Who wants to talk to me = judge me Who wants to date me = judge me

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Fri 10/10/08 01:59 PM
Everyone is so different from the next that it would be impossible not to have your own personal take on something. You may not voice it, but the way our minds are built we all have our own eyes and lives. peace, michael

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Fri 10/10/08 02:00 PM
Aren't we all here to be judged in a way? Putting a pic up = judge me Who wants to talk to me = judge me Who wants to date me = judge me Good point!! Boy! Am I in trouble!!!!

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Fri 10/10/08 02:01 PM
Everyone is so different from the next that it would be impossible not to have your own personal take on something. You may not voice it, but the way our minds are built we all have our own eyes and lives. peace, michael Thank you, Michael! And great to see you here!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Fri 10/10/08 02:03 PM
Is it called judgement, or perception? An example.... when someone promotes themselves to be a certain way... when they mislead.... and it is discovered, that this person is NOT remotely who they say they are.... Is it judgement by the other party to notice the discrepancies... or is it simply awareness? To show the discrepancies, and to ask for clarification, is not judgement... it's just calling it for what it is.... bull sh*te!!!!