"Take me now, ohhh yess, just like that".

"Take it you biotch."

That is perfectly okay with me.

If you get really mad and we are all dressed and stuff, as long as you do not say anything you don't mean or cuss at me I'm good. You cannot take it back. Say what you mean, when you mean it, and how you mean it. Or shuddup and walk away. Or, if it's that kind of a situation, disrobe wildly and say, "Take it you biotch" and move straight to the make-up portion of the event.

Going a little off topic here, but you said something so completely true that I wanted to note it.

You have to set those expectations (on everything) early on in the relationship. Don't spend 10 years 'letting it slide'. Been there done that. Which is why I don't blame my ex for the failure of our marriage. She didn't change the rules. I did. I wouldn't accept certain things any more. And that's not really fair after 17 years of marriage.

Ahh, the wisdom of age and experience.

Is it getting hot in here? Or is it just me?

Don't tell me I'm the first person to think of yelling in the throes of passion? I am not the only pervert here....

Just the best looking one.

No. I think it's totally ok along those lines.

Ahh, the beholder. That brings up a good point. What is yelling to one person might not be to another. That is a tough call, too.

I agree 100%, if it's not acceptable, then you don't let them get away with it.

If someone is yelling it's because they don't think they have your attention. They are angry. If you feel they are going too far with it, the best way to combat it, is to NOT give in to their emotional manipulation. That's all yelling really is, emotional manipulation.

Usually when someone WANTS me to feed their emotions (ie they yell and I get submissive) it makes me do the exact oposite.

I've been involved with the two ends of the spectrum. I had a bf who loved to yell and to combat that I didn't yell. I didn't respond to him at all. My exhusband never yelled (or only a handful of times in 15 years) It just wasn't in his nature to do so.

I'm from a very loud family, we raise voices alot, it's not done in anger...MOSTLY. We are very expressive with our feelings.

I think there is a happy medium to it.

Totally agree with this also. I'm not a yeller per say (except in the afor mentioned situations ) but I have been told I am yelling...

For me, if there is no name calling, it's not really yelling. It's raising your voice.

I LOVE a screamer!!!!

Lets me know I might be doing something right!!!

If I get yelled at convo is over.If its on the phone you gonna hear a dial tone

Lol... personally I think verbal feedback is good, no matter the volume or content!

Most times, yes. But then there is the dreaded,"Is it in yet?" for men and the "Did you orgasm?" for women. I mean... really. That can easily result in some yelling on my part.

No I have a firm rule when I am in the throes of passion he had better be making enough noise to convince me he is enjoying it half as much as me or party time is over.

Now directly on topic, do I think it is okay no but realistically it happens. I am one of the most nonconfrontational people I know of. But I have been known to yell outside of Sex. I don't make a habit of it nor would I put up with someone that was a yeller for long. Just not my style.

Here are some times I can think of that it is okay to yell at your partner. Across the parking lot or at a ball game.
Not okay sitting across the dinner table, quiet moments, when they can't find the mate to one of their socks.
Just to name a few