Topic: Is it ever okay?
Dan99's photo
Thu 10/09/08 12:20 AM
YES I FKN CAN, NOW HOW DO YOU DO BOLD AGAIN?! lol

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Thu 10/09/08 12:26 AM
IM NOT FUKCING TELLING YOU!!!explode rant laugh laugh laugh

Dan99's photo
Thu 10/09/08 12:28 AM
I DONT FKN NEED YOU

nurjoyce's photo
Thu 10/09/08 12:28 AM
if i am crossing the street and about to get hit by a car....yelling "watch out" or "stop" is appropriate, but otherise no

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Thu 10/09/08 12:31 AM

I DONT FKN NEED YOU
YES YOU FUKCING DO!!!rant explode laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Dan99's photo
Thu 10/09/08 12:35 AM
LIKE A HOLE IN MY ARSE!

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Thu 10/09/08 12:42 AM

LIKE A HOLE IN MY ARSE!
IM MAKING YOU EAT PLASTIC CHEESE~~~rant explode mad laugh

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Thu 10/09/08 01:19 AM
oHHHHHHHHHHHH DAN IS GETTING HIT IN THE HEAD WITH HIS GF'S PURSE RIGHT NOW!!!!


explode laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

scoundrel's photo
Thu 10/09/08 02:12 AM
Yes. When I'm half asleep and passion goes into full auto-pilot/mindless rampage...and I think that I'm dreaming.
noway bigsmile
Yeah. She can yell...quite well. laugh

post_coitum's photo
Thu 10/09/08 08:54 AM

spock Is it ever okay for your Significant Other to yell at you?huh If it is ,when is it?huh


Yes, I believe there is. You're not going to come across it in the first stages of your relationship, but people get angry and sometimes they yell. It's just a part of being human. Sometimes people do stupid things, and in return get yelled at. Now, there is a point in which a deserved tongue-lashing turns into verbal abuse. If it becomes an everyday occurance, you need to re-evaluate why you are with this person.

Mentork's photo
Thu 10/09/08 09:11 AM
spock Is it ever okay for your Significant Other to yell at you?


No

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Thu 10/09/08 09:13 AM

spock Is it ever okay for your Significant Other to yell at you?huh If it is ,when is it?huh


If we have small parts in an off-Broadway play and it's in the script.


Pink_lady's photo
Thu 10/09/08 09:27 AM
Edited by Pink_lady on Thu 10/09/08 09:28 AM
Its not ok to yell at ur partner....HOWEVER...it would be unrealistic to think it would never happen, because we r only human and we all have emotions.

Emotional = reactive....its not a deliberate action, and we cant guarantee that we r always gonna be able to control ourselves when emotional, but rather at least aim to not do it.

snarkytwain's photo
Thu 10/09/08 09:32 AM
It can most definitely be OK to fight, yes. My boyfriend and I fought a total of 4 times before we even began dating. laugh But hey, we got those issues taken care of right off the bat! Yelling is a part of that, because we’re all human and emotional, and some emotions are neither happy nor easily controllable. And relationships? Are some of the very most emotionally charged situations a human being can be in. So unless you’re Suzy Happypants and Johnny Joyous, you’re going to fight. Expecting not to fight is an automatic death sentence to any relationship. “Oh no! Billy yelled at me! It’s OVER!” is neither realistic nor mature. Bad things happen. Yelling happens. Fights happen. That is when you find out not just the mettle of your relationship, but the mettle within yourself.

pyrochik's photo
Fri 10/10/08 04:08 AM
Fire. Spiders. Thru the bathroom door. When inebriated & about to fall off the porch (happened anyway, I have pics). When he put transmission fluid in my oil. When I found out 1. he had a gf & 2. she was pregnant. NEVER is a very strong word; while it may not be "okay" to yell, sometimes it is justified. And extremely satisfying.

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Fri 10/10/08 04:14 AM
If it takes yelling to get their attention, yes, I'll yell. If it takes yelling to let them know I'm serious...yep I'll yell again. But yelling just to be mean, no.

awolf1010's photo
Fri 10/10/08 04:15 AM
sure.....if the circumstance is there!!


No1sLove's photo
Fri 10/10/08 08:31 AM
I NEVER YELL!! :tongue:

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Fri 10/10/08 08:32 AM
At a rock n roll concert it is not only appropriate but necessary to yell at people, if you want them to hear you...

Lily0923's photo
Fri 10/10/08 08:40 AM
My best friend (a guy) was dating this very timid girl, he is NOT timid in the slightest, they got into a fight one night and she left his house. He called me the next day to ask, "I yelled at her, and her response was to leave my house, is that weird?" I said "not for her"

His last gf was a fighter, they would fight, make up and go back to normal, that was NORMAL for them.

He said to me about the new girl "She just doesn't have any passion"

If you are constantly yelling, no that's uncalled for, but once in awhile if you can do it without name calling, I don't see an issue with it.

There's a tone in every relationship that is set early on. If you don't like yelling, you "train" the other person to not do it. It's really that simple.