Topic: Time
nugglebugz's photo
Wed 10/01/08 09:05 PM
Can you guys help me out here?
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now, and he's 14 years older than I am. But is young at heart. When we first started dating, we hung out all the time. And had so much fun together. I lost my job, and he helped me out a lot. But the time we spent together slowly decreased.

A little about my boyfriend. He works like 9-5 ish. He also runs the poker in our city. 5/7 nights a week. So I rarely ever see him. He also is very popular, nicest guy ever. Very generous, and funny. He goes out the 2 nights a week that isn't poker, unless he works early in the morn. But he still goes out till like one when he works at 4 am. So yeah, when I lost my job he helped me out a lot, I did what I could do for him, and now that I'm working again I still help him out. I do the dishes, the floors, the laundry, take care of his dog, so on and so forth. He still helps me out in a finanical bind no questions asked. I never see him. He ditched out on me, on Monday and we practally have to scheduel time together! Is that normal?
We were supposed to hang out tonight, we watched the game, then take an hour nap. I'm like I'm leaving, bye. Ohh Ohhh I I I thought we were supposed to hang out? Yeah me be creeper and watch you sleep. I don't think so. So yeah
He's such a sweet guy, but I never see such guy..
Should I break it off? Any suggestions?

RKISIT's photo
Wed 10/01/08 09:07 PM
i cant answer ops over 3 paragraphs ,i totally miss read them,right now:smile:

IsaLei23's photo
Wed 10/01/08 09:10 PM
sounds to me that the honeymoon phase is over :)


..... it's probably because he's tired or probably a lot in his mind?

You're only 20, you shouldn't have to worry about serious relationship like this. Take your time and enjoy the show :)

Good luck....

itsmetina's photo
Wed 10/01/08 09:10 PM
profile says yer looking for a man to date think u've already made up yer mind:tongue: