Ok I've been reading many of the profiles
? WHAT IS A NICE GUY ?

I'd really like some women who are on about finding this to tell me what is a nice guy.

Please help I'm dumb founded for sure!

This is the best advice I can give you, disregard others ideas/preconceived notions on what a good guy is... be yourself, treat others with respect, have fun, meet other members, join the forums and have a blast.

they want a nice guy so they can cheat or get him p*ssywhipped then leave him, thats what all the nice guys on here have been b!tching about

Not this again!

goof what up yo

Nice Guy = Figment of a male’s imagination

Great advice!

Nice guy = figment of females imagination

Kickin it doggie style my friend.

Nice girl= Guys version of dramaless, hottie with brains that can also enjoy putt putt golf, water ballooning, cow tipping, mud wrestling, strip clubs.....I don't think this is asking much.

Nice guy = honest, sincere, not a cheater, says what he means and means what he says, respectable, only into you, not you and 5+ others online. (my definition)

Scarlett's Two-Fold Rule of Enlightenment which can also be applied to niceness

("Nice" is kinda the same sort of syndrome as "enlightened", to wit--)

If someone tells you that he's nice, then he's not.

AND:

Someone who tells you that he's nice is doing so as a means of emotional leverage toward some ulterior (that is, unexpressed) goal.

A truly kind, considerate, and nonviolent/enlightened nature does not have to advertise, and in fact will not advertise.

Some real-life examples of what I'm talking about:

*** A guy who approached me online with his initial description of himself being that people tell him that he's "too nice". I'm like, "Um, ok whatever," and I'm not interested in talking to him (because of the emotional leverage thing) but I was a bit bored so I strung him along. It turned out that he was looking for a local lady who would torture and demean him. He started sending me some "c0ck torture" pics of himself that were really yuccky, so I finally blocked him.

*** A former neighbor of mine was well-off (he had a great-paying job at which he did next to nothing and also had an inheritance) used to hit on me all the time, even though I obviously lived with my boyfriend and we obviously were crazy about each other. (Actually I think that he was more interested in my boyfriend, but that's not essential to our story.) This guy would make these fantastic displays of generosity towards me and my bf and he was always buttering me up with compliments. When that didn't get him any closer to My Pants Land, he got angry. The angrier he got, the more he would repeat the phrase: "But: I'M A NICE GUY!!" and then he would go on with some sort of tale about how he had befriended some lowlife. Meanwhile he did the shabbiest things to his so-called "friends" behind their backs that I have ever seen. He narked on his best friend who had used his house a couple of times to cheat on his wife; he would procure bags of pot for a lady at his work and take these enormous pinches out of the bag, amounting to almost 1/3 of the bag, and say in a contemptuous tone: "She's so stupid she doesn't know what an ounce is!" I mean, don't get me started telling stories about this guy; I could go on about him all day! Me and my boyfriend actually developed sort of a comedy routine around this guy, in fact; when one of us was relating some tale of shabby behavior, deceit, or dishonesty to the other, at the worst point in the story it was customary to break off, wave one's hands in the air, and say in a loud, belligerant voice: "But: I'M A NICE GUY!!"

***I've had the "pleasure" of being acquainted with several guys at various times (a couple of these were bar acquaintances and one I met online) who would attempt to garner my sympathy by bending my ear with a story about how they had been "way too nice" to a former girlfriend, with the result being that the dirty hoebag trampled on their heart, dragged them into debt, cheated on them, and left them for the proverbial and glamorous "bad boy". In my younger days, when I was less wise and more adventuresome, I would listen to stories like this with some degree of patience, as I would be eager to show these gentlemen that not all females are like that. Ultimately, after a short time (and usually a few drinks), the "nice guy" would start looking at me with a certain glint in his eye that was anything but nice. At that point he'd start to say something like: "That's why you're talking to me, isn't it? Because you're a dirty s1ut that wants to cheat on her boyfriend, AREN'T YOU???" What is a good answer to a question like that? (That's a serious inquiry, by the way.) At this point (being a total unsympathetic a$$hole, I guess) I would excuse myself from further conversation, at which point Mr. Nice Guy would fly into an intemperate rage. In the cases where I ran into Mr. Nice Guy at a bar, a string of virulent insults would follow me out the door.

NOTE: That's why I like the internet so much, btw; if someone starts acting like that or sending you penis pictures, you can just block him.

Anyway, if you keep the above two-fold rule firmly in mind, you may thereby be able to avoid Mr. Nice Guy, or at least keep him firmly in his place if he's someone you can't avoid spending time around, like a coworker or something.

I hope this was helpful. yours in Chaos, Scarlett

Can't help you. I'm an A$$hole

Nice guy on this site?

When said by a dude, it means a sac-less, doormat, no self-esteem, pushover wussy. With seething anger and resentment poured over a sense of entitlement.

When said by a woman, means a guy who does what he says he is going to do and not only knows the meaning of the word empathy but applies it in life.

Can you tell us how you really feel?

Oh and I forgot whiny....

WHAAAAAAAAAA

Good one Lilith too funny but true


jtip ya need some tissues ohhhhh wait now you said ya was and azzhole and they don't have feelings so give my tissues back

Yes, it is sad. Whining is the number one ingredient.... I can't believe I forgot it....

Well you forgot that it is always about them the ohh me ohh my syndrome. No matter what the subject is they turn it back to all about them.