to not speak what can or could be considerded as offensive, is for self to live in a trashcan......

to suppose what harm one's words COULD do, is as to live without air.....

the natural response of any is all that any has, and how is there respect for others as adults, if there is guessing in advance, based on self ideas of wished treatment of self, of what all words will produce, and as such, words come to be garnered, without even cognitive knowing, to only support and purpose good treatment of self, and furthering of inert agenda for finding love, but believing words COULD POSSIBLY PRODUCE BAD, WHEN THERE IS JUST AS MUCH POSSIBILITY OF THEM CREATING THE OPPOSITE, and actually more possibilitity of making good, is to live in inpertetual misery, of hiding true self, and causing all amoungst oneself to do the same....

how does a true friend long for bridled tongues from others, as this has no alternative but to leave the true heart, which is both black and white, as evil and good, hidden, and then wondering why what one thought was reality, fall into bits and pieces of broken hearts....

to think of words as biased, as good and bad, leaves the heart of any as starved and dying....

to take the bit out of the mouth, that constantly tell the worst of what words can do, is as prying one away from a bottle of saftey....

do not dire circumstances of two almomst drowning in a raft together bring TRUE BONDING AND CEMENTING TOGETHER?

are words as any different.....

to judge a nieghbor, seems more to decide for them what words will be recieved as good or as bad, and that "negative" emotions can not spur good, when if fact, "negative" has MUCH MORE POTENTIAL TO CREATE GOOD THAN SO CALLED "POSITIVE" ONES ALONE, AS PERCIEVED "POSITIVE" SOUGHT MOST.....

THIS IS LIKE A BATTERY WITH NO NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE CHARGE, SO IT IS A DEAD BATTERY, HAVING NO ABILITY TO SPARK LIFE INTO ANYTHING ELSE, AND SELF AS A DEAD BATTERY, CANNOT BE HOOKED UP WITH OTHER BATTERIES TO CREATE GREATER CHARGE OF LIFE.......

total unbalance in belief, seperating words into piles of good and bad, which lead to unbalance in sight, leading to half sight, which make for unbalance in words, and hence only good words wished to be spoken.....

what can all good words accoomplish?????

nothing permenant, as it is built on only half!

the brain actually only digest what it think is GOOD, so the more bad believed to exist, the LEAST UNDERSTANDING POSSIBLE.......

if it is only good words that accomplish good, then why is there another "bad" half of all words in the english language?

thinking that only "good" can make good, keep good from actually being able to be created......

is not salt and sugar both needed for any good cake?

then just the same, all words telling of all of oneself embraced, and all words of others embraced, is the only damn thing that lead to balance is all and balance in all perspective lead to all peace, as what else steal peace but the thinking that what is happening is bad, and peace by embracing all is good no matter the storm, and this can never come from partial accpeted, which is to seek good alone......

to seek nothing but to speak all and follow the body's every impulse as sent for a good reason, allow all greatness to build that rush thru the front door as many waters, like a flood that nothing can contain.......

hate the bad words that come from the mouth, stay the same, as babies trying to make good with only half the ingredients available, to make a lopsided perpetual flat cake, that has no RISE in it, or no life in it.....

leaving out the bad, is to create nothing but more weakness, or strength of character, as no whole picture without failure ever come before courage to speak all words, whether for good, for bad, or for worse, but then if they hurt self, or are deemed might take from one what is wished for??????????????????????

is not everything created by mortal man from the thoughts of mankind, and are not thoughts words, and to only consider some as good, create a relationship or house with half a foundation, that is sure to crumble, when the storms of adversity blow......

not saying all words actually wished to be said, steals one's own wishes from themself, even before they are ever had...............

but then who can do such before the day it is seen that wishing to be coddled, treated with kit gloves by all others, is an illusion of getting what one wants, and is actually stealing all the greatest desires away from the heart, not allowing them to be created without manipulation and willed self effort, and create without this, means THEY NEVER GO AWAY OR FAIL....

speak all the heart and mind, and all the cards will look like they are falling out of order to the ground, but will settle in perfectness no contrived planned words can create.......

there is no love known in the "confort" house of only speaking to satisfy self definitions of what is good for self, so the path of wishing to be lifted up, praised and understood by others, is littered with the dead and dying, strangers with amensia, dazed and confused looking for the door out, but the no pain that come from embracing all words once or ever hated as good, lead to the door into the inner chambers of wisdom, which lead to perpetual bliss, that make any dead heart rise to life of love, and lead to the endless pool of life that see good in all the eyes behold..........

peace

As gut wrenching as it can feel to have another speak ALL that they see (both "good" and "bad"), there is equal joy in acceptance of whole truth and trust. All belief that one is greater or lesser than the other (comparison) melts away.

Cruel to be kind, in the right measure
Cruel to be kind, it's a very good sign
Cruel to be kind, means that I love you
Baby, you gotta be cruel to be kind

are not all words totally heard as true the only way to see the whole picture of reality....

I think I see what you're saying. Something like "every viewpoint is just as valid as every other viewpoint". I don't necessarily disagree with that. I just don't understand how it can help me improve my condition, or accomplish my goals, in life.

This is where I begin to feel "goals" eluding me.

indeed so true.......

depends on the goal........

You know what?

It's true.

if you believe in eternal torment, then you are no different than your're screwed up god(the people after your money)

Perhaps you meant to respond to another post?

what you sayin man....can you elabortate...