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Topic: is there such thing as...
Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 09/30/08 11:20 AM Edited by Jill298 on Tue 09/30/08 11:24 AM
u could say that just don't be available at all times. Don't be at someone's beck and call. And never... ever let them push you around and tell you what to do or wear. Things like that. For example... you're dating someone and she only calls you at 2am when the bars close. To the curb she must go. If you feel you are changing to many things for her... like where you shop, your haircut, things like that... she's trying to "fix" you and make you her puppet. Again, to the curb she must go. The goal is to date someone that does as much for you as you do for them. Not to one sided. Hope that helped.

mmmike Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 556	Tue 09/30/08 11:23 AM
Be yourself someone will like you that way

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 09/30/08 11:30 AM
yeah. i appreciate it. i guess there is such a thing as too nice.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 09/30/08 11:33 AM
There are door mats and then there are nice guys....dont confuse the 2!!!

lilbug Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 14791	Tue 09/30/08 11:39 AM
...being too nice? I was recently told that i was too nice to girls and should be a bit more of a a$shole. help me out here. I don't think you have to resort to being an azz-hole, just don't be a doormat.

OneMoreTimeAround Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 3649	Tue 09/30/08 11:55 AM
all i can say is dont be an a$$hole on here ,BBBBBelieve me leaves some burns on the a$$ doesn't it? even if you weren't intentionally being an a$$.

sweetfoxdevil Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 34	Tue 09/30/08 01:51 PM
be yourself. please.

Roco Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 1165	Tue 09/30/08 03:04 PM
Be yourself someone will like you that way right on man...just keep on being the porpoise that you are.. Roco

Roco Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 1165	Tue 09/30/08 03:06 PM
There are door mats and then there are nice guys....dont confuse the 2!!! ...please enlighten us...how do you discern... Roco

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 09/30/08 07:04 PM
im no doormat. well, maybe a little. but id rather please people than be all like, pleasure me you slave to my weiner!

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Tue 09/30/08 07:11 PM
...being too nice? I was recently told that i was too nice to girls and should be a bit more of a a$shole. help me out here. Be a nice Guy, but dont give too much more than you get. When you think someone is taking advantage, stop them in their tracks, and then go back to being a nice guy. Be a Gentlemen, just dont be a Sucker

TwilightsTwin Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 11054	Tue 09/30/08 07:18 PM
...being too nice? I was recently told that i was too nice to girls and should be a bit more of a a$shole. help me out here. My advice: Be yourself. Positivity attracts positive people. Negativity draws negative people..."misery loves company". Ball is in your court what you are seeking AND whom finds you.

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Tue 09/30/08 07:20 PM
I LOVE IT!!!

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Tue 09/30/08 07:21 PM
My advice: Be yourself. Positivity attracts positive people. Negativity draws negative people..."misery loves company". Ball is in your court what you are seeking AND whom finds you. how you doiinnnggg ?!

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Tue 09/30/08 07:22 PM
I happen to like nice, I have to say that my ex boyfriend was very nice, we just had other issues.

TwilightsTwin Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 11054	Tue 09/30/08 07:24 PM
My advice: Be yourself. Positivity attracts positive people. Negativity draws negative people..."misery loves company". Ball is in your court what you are seeking AND whom finds you. how you doiinnnggg ?! Good good, overworked-underpaid How've YOU been???

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 09/30/08 07:43 PM
whoooooooa... twilights gorgeous...

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Tue 09/30/08 08:32 PM
whoooooooa... twilights gorgeous... Yes she is. She's also young and taken....lmao

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 09/30/08 09:10 PM
window shopping

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 09/30/08 09:12 PM
...being too nice? I was recently told that i was too nice to girls and should be a bit more of a a$shole. help me out here. You should be more violent