me and my girlfriend broke up awhile ago, still kills me inside, don't think it'll ever stop either, just out of the blue i said "I want you to be sure about us, i couldn't be with somebody who wasn't sure" and we broke up liek aan hour later because she said "she wasn't sure"


it has been almost 2 months already, and I've never ever felt this bad about a girl :(

I know it sounds very cliché. But you will feel better, it just takes time.

sounds like she may have wanted out anyway and you just gave her an easy out. Good luck and best wishes though.

That's like pouring cold water on a hot tamale, and saying "If you feel a cooling sensation, then we aren't meant to be."

If my (next) lady says to me, "I want you to be sure about us; I couldn't be with somebody who wasn't sure."
I would take the hint that SHE IS NOT SURE about us...and is telling me loud and clear that we are on shaky ground.

Rephrase it. "I am totally sure about us! Are you?" sounds much different than "If you're not totally sure about us, I can't be with you."

Better luck next time.

same boat as you. i still fu(king dream about her and it ruins my days sometimes. i just stay as busy as i possibly can and mentally kick myself n the ass when i start getting down about her. i hate thinking about her with someone else so u un facebooked her and everything. i wouldnt worry about what to do now, but worry about what you will say to her when she comes around again. girls have a funny tendancy to jump back into the picture when they feel that you are over them and ready to move onto another person. i feel you man.

"I want you to be sure about us, i couldn't be with somebody who wasn't sure"


You live and Learn.

Next time don't try to pin an answer down like that... just enjoy the moment. ****smack you on the head****

You'll what!!!! 21 years old!!!!
You're not looking for forever.
You wouldn't know it, if it hits you on the head.

Guarantee, Once you get your emotions together again, you will find another more qualify girl... and you will find out she is not the one either. Look for family values, her parents relationship to her and to each other.

Other tips...
You qualify the girl, not them.
Stop "limiting" beliefs... there are not only one out there, there are many.
Get your confidence higher than before.


"She isn't Sure" is an ok answer.
If you are 21 and I am assuming she is 21 or younger... Why the hell do you think she knows what she wants. I don't think anyone at 21 knows what they want. She is being honest.

Maybe, she would be sure, if you show some winning values like a real Goal in life and Passion for something. These are simple things. I am not talking about having a great job, or looks or money or status. You want a girl with high caliber and value, than become a superior man. Ok.. I know you are hurt and discontent feeling of lost and missing in your heart. Great, use that as your drive to become a better man, in which you choose if she qualifies to be in your life. Discontentment creates change. The only way not to feel like this again is to become a man woman sought after. Good luck.. you have your whole life ahead of you and stop feeling sorry for yourself.

" Next time don't try to pin an answer down like that... just enjoy the moment. ****smack you on the head**** "

concur...don't say such things "out of the blue" unless you are fully prepared to accept the consequences..doesn't look like you were prepared...sucks to be you..

Roco

That's OK...Women get easier ...I mean it gets easier as you get older....

Just remember that she is just as smelly, hairy and unsure of her self as you are and that she has the same smelly body functions that you do and that she bleeds five days a month.

Close your eyes and think of what a dead fish smells like …take your time now….smell it yet???

Now think of her…they call that FREE ASSOCIATION.

Now do this every time you think of her. And soon you will not want her anymore.

See she aint so special after all is she???

She was gonna break up with you anyways.

agree

HAHA!!! That's Funny as Hell.