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Topic: Dating a married man
Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/29/08 01:52 PM

OMG! Ruth AGAIN.... it has nothing to do with you!


Then stop quoting her, and making it look like you are speaking directly to her....Geez internet forum 101

the_mind_flayer's photo
Mon 09/29/08 01:54 PM
No, the problem here is assumptions.

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 09/29/08 01:56 PM
I give up. Seriously, between your posts and your emails you are just screwing with me. Stop. I'll stay away from you and you stay away from me.

no photo
Mon 09/29/08 01:58 PM
I like bananas!:tongue:

feralcatlady's photo
Mon 09/29/08 01:58 PM
It's all in a name.....gigglesnort

Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:00 PM

No, the problem here is assumptions.


When you quote someone you are either addressing them directly or addressing what they said... You quoted her and said She's doing it.... This isn't rocket science.

Voluptuous's photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:02 PM
Bottom line is- YOU DON'T!noway

P.O.S has no business dating another woman until he is DIVORCED!:angry:

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Mon 09/29/08 02:05 PM

Bottom line is- YOU DON'T!noway

P.O.S has no business dating another woman until he is DIVORCED!:angry:


Who is P.O.S???

Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:06 PM


Bottom line is- YOU DON'T!noway

P.O.S has no business dating another woman until he is DIVORCED!:angry:


Who is P.O.S???


Piece of sh*t....

flowerforyou

I thought that might need a flower after it for some reason...


Voluptuous's photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:06 PM
Piece of Pooprofl

Voluptuous's photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:07 PM



Bottom line is- YOU DON'T!noway

P.O.S has no business dating another woman until he is DIVORCED!:angry:


Who is P.O.S???


Piece of sh*t....

flowerforyou

I thought that might need a flower after it for some reason...




Thank you Ms. Lily
flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:22 PM



Bottom line is- YOU DON'T!noway

P.O.S has no business dating another woman until he is DIVORCED!:angry:


Who is P.O.S???


Piece of sh*t....

flowerforyou

I thought that might need a flower after it for some reason...




Well......I appreciate the flower after the explaination.....made it a LITTLE more palatable....

Well....I have been in a "volunteered for" exile of limbo since I filed for "legal separation". This state's lawmakers chose to make "separation from bed and board" a full year here in Louisiana.

It seems that most ladies prefer the single studs that will "play you" for sex then dump you. Or give you a "love high" with sugar coated promises and then sit back and take you for granted. Or you have been burned in some other fashion so badly mentally....that a third degree burn couldn't compare.

This "piece of sh*t" spent the last 4 years trying desparately to make things work, all the while being snubbed at every attempt. Over the last year the love was destroyed. So THIS year is the one that means starting over in ALL aspects!!

One thing about THIS quasi-married guy.....none of you have ever seen or heard of me before OR on any OTHER dating site. Or any bars trying to hustle anyone. I've been a loyal, loving, sexually active, faithful, honest, and good providing husband for many years! And I'm curious if ANY of the ladies on here want more than that????

So I'm using this year to look....and meet people...and let people meet me....and those of you ladies who think it's wrong to even get to know someone in my situation....well then.....I wish you luck in your quest.

Sorry....off the soapbox now......

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:31 PM




Bottom line is- YOU DON'T!noway

P.O.S has no business dating another woman until he is DIVORCED!:angry:


Who is P.O.S???


Piece of sh*t....

flowerforyou

I thought that might need a flower after it for some reason...




Well......I appreciate the flower after the explaination.....made it a LITTLE more palatable....

Well....I have been in a "volunteered for" exile of limbo since I filed for "legal separation". This state's lawmakers chose to make "separation from bed and board" a full year here in Louisiana.

It seems that most ladies prefer the single studs that will "play you" for sex then dump you. Or give you a "love high" with sugar coated promises and then sit back and take you for granted. Or you have been burned in some other fashion so badly mentally....that a third degree burn couldn't compare.

This "piece of sh*t" spent the last 4 years trying desparately to make things work, all the while being snubbed at every attempt. Over the last year the love was destroyed. So THIS year is the one that means starting over in ALL aspects!!

One thing about THIS quasi-married guy.....none of you have ever seen or heard of me before OR on any OTHER dating site. Or any bars trying to hustle anyone. I've been a loyal, loving, sexually active, faithful, honest, and good providing husband for many years! And I'm curious if ANY of the ladies on here want more than that????

So I'm using this year to look....and meet people...and let people meet me....and those of you ladies who think it's wrong to even get to know someone in my situation....well then.....I wish you luck in your quest.

Sorry....off the soapbox now......


I don't think she was talking about guys in your situation. I think she was responding to the original question about married guys. I don't think there is any problem with dating in your situation. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Lily0923's photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:33 PM





Bottom line is- YOU DON'T!noway

P.O.S has no business dating another woman until he is DIVORCED!:angry:


Who is P.O.S???


Piece of sh*t....

flowerforyou

I thought that might need a flower after it for some reason...




Well......I appreciate the flower after the explaination.....made it a LITTLE more palatable....

Well....I have been in a "volunteered for" exile of limbo since I filed for "legal separation". This state's lawmakers chose to make "separation from bed and board" a full year here in Louisiana.

It seems that most ladies prefer the single studs that will "play you" for sex then dump you. Or give you a "love high" with sugar coated promises and then sit back and take you for granted. Or you have been burned in some other fashion so badly mentally....that a third degree burn couldn't compare.

This "piece of sh*t" spent the last 4 years trying desparately to make things work, all the while being snubbed at every attempt. Over the last year the love was destroyed. So THIS year is the one that means starting over in ALL aspects!!

One thing about THIS quasi-married guy.....none of you have ever seen or heard of me before OR on any OTHER dating site. Or any bars trying to hustle anyone. I've been a loyal, loving, sexually active, faithful, honest, and good providing husband for many years! And I'm curious if ANY of the ladies on here want more than that????

So I'm using this year to look....and meet people...and let people meet me....and those of you ladies who think it's wrong to even get to know someone in my situation....well then.....I wish you luck in your quest.

Sorry....off the soapbox now......


I don't think she was talking about guys in your situation. I think she was responding to the original question about married guys. I don't think there is any problem with dating in your situation. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


No there's not, I'm in the same boat right now...

I just meant that saying POS comes better with flowers for whatever reason.

Voluptuous's photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:44 PM




Bottom line is- YOU DON'T!noway

P.O.S has no business dating another woman until he is DIVORCED!:angry:


Who is P.O.S???


Piece of sh*t....

flowerforyou

I thought that might need a flower after it for some reason...




Well......I appreciate the flower after the explaination.....made it a LITTLE more palatable....

Well....I have been in a "volunteered for" exile of limbo since I filed for "legal separation". This state's lawmakers chose to make "separation from bed and board" a full year here in Louisiana.

It seems that most ladies prefer the single studs that will "play you" for sex then dump you. Or give you a "love high" with sugar coated promises and then sit back and take you for granted. Or you have been burned in some other fashion so badly mentally....that a third degree burn couldn't compare.

This "piece of sh*t" spent the last 4 years trying desparately to make things work, all the while being snubbed at every attempt. Over the last year the love was destroyed. So THIS year is the one that means starting over in ALL aspects!!

One thing about THIS quasi-married guy.....none of you have ever seen or heard of me before OR on any OTHER dating site. Or any bars trying to hustle anyone. I've been a loyal, loving, sexually active, faithful, honest, and good providing husband for many years! And I'm curious if ANY of the ladies on here want more than that????

So I'm using this year to look....and meet people...and let people meet me....and those of you ladies who think it's wrong to even get to know someone in my situation....well then.....I wish you luck in your quest.

Sorry....off the soapbox now......


My question to you would be why you feel the need to bring someone else into your world of “mess”? what
Sounds like you need some time alone to either figure yourself out or just have SOME time to appreciate all the things you can accomplish building yourself back up.think
Don't get mad with anyone other than YOURSELF for trying to keep someone that didn't want you for the past 4 years. Be mad at yourself for wasting the time. People need to learn NOT to be where they AREN'T wanted!ohwell

Women/ Men, in general, don't want "baggage".
- Whether it be emotional, mental ect...noway
A fresh start, with JUST you and me...not this other crap about "Oh, I can't tell my ex about you because I don't want to hurt her.....Oh, I don't want to get my ex angry because the divorce isn’t final...." and all the other ASSININE excuses made while trying to start a new experience with someone. spock
THIRD parties are NEVER wanted!
Studs are not wanted either. ill
...But then come the complaints that women are too "picky" slaphead
-For the Love of Grease!
Are you kidding me!>!?

You're just getting your "feet wet" with the dating world and I don't think any woman in their right mind would want to be your "experimenting pool".
You're a big boy...figure it out for yourself

***Off of my soap box***


Does any of this make sense?
I don't mean it as a personal attack. I'm sorry if I have offended you.flowers

nurjoyce's photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:45 PM
i do not date married men

enderra's photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:46 PM
insert a red hot poker in your eyes, it is alot less painful than dating and trying to trust or believe a damn word a married man says.

no photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:46 PM

No there's not, I'm in the same boat right now...

I just meant that saying POS comes better with flowers for whatever reason.


Yes......it does.....thanks...I guess I'm just a little sensitive on the subject and being called a POS without knowing details kinda got me on my soapbox........

It's hard enough to meet people without being stereotyped.....thanks ya'll.

flowers flowers flowers flowers flowers flowers flowers flowers flowers flowers

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