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I often don't reply back to people... I'm sorry I don't think I "owe" them anything. If they send me something funny or original then I am more likely to respond. I'm just here looking for friends anyway... I already have a bf.
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I especially like the "Hi" emails.........
ummmmmmmmmm hi back at ya????? Ummmmmmmmmmmmm Hi!!! Ok..........hi again?????? wtf is this the hi game??? |
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most think they are entitled or due a response.
I respond to those that have coherent thoughts and questions, but those that send notes which say hi (nothing else) those get deleted. Notes which request more info on me, get deleted. Make notes more conversational vs interrogational, that can help you get a response. |
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yep it's the "hi" game
or is it the "high" game |
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hI
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high?????
hi HI |
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hello
ola |
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I often don't reply back to people... I'm sorry I don't think I "owe" them anything. If they send me something funny or original then I am more likely to respond. I'm just here looking for friends anyway... I already have a bf. |
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hola!!!
are we having fun yet???  
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C'mere............
sssssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhh just say hi!!!  
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hola!!! are we having fun yet??? lilith401 bested me and i am pouting....j/k she did best me though and a good one at that too |
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from what I've seen after a few years on these sites most women receive a zillion "breaking the ice" emails every day saying "hi sexy" or something as imaginative if you wanna be noticed you have to stand out and above the crowd of salivating hormone driven males DING DING DING, WINNER WINNER.... Hey sexy, hey baby, or any variation of the sort is NOT acceptable by anyone who carries themselves with any self esteem whatso ever. "Hi" gives me NOTHING to respond to. Just because I own a telephone doesn't mean I have to answer it, just because I own a front door doesn't mean I have to open it, and simply because I have an email account, doesn't mean I have to use it.... Get over yourself, if your messages aren't being returned, the person either A. Isn't interested or B. Isn't interested or C. Isn't interested. Why would you want them to respond and waste your time? |
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Dont be shy!!!! Just say hi!!!
 
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Oh for cryin out loud.
I have sent out quite a few emails. Most of them were nothing more than an attempt to say hello. I try to make sure that I make reference to something they have said in their profile. It doesn't MATTER!!! If they don't want to respond, they aren't going to. It's that simple. Maybe they don't like the way you look. Maybe you say something about having a cat and they are allergic. It could be anything at all. It may be " rude " for them not to respond. To me, it really isn't. If there is something there that doesn't " click ", then they are in no way obliged to answer the email. I don't get many emails here from women, unless I have mailed them first, or because of the Matchmaking game. BUT, if someone does email me, I will respond to it. Even if it's just a " Hi. How are you doing? " type of thing. My reason for doing so...well...I like to give people a chance. Who knows? Maybe she just isn't good at coming up with something to say at first. Maybe she is just kinda shy. No matter what, getting irritated because someone doesn't respond is an effort in futility. If she doesn't reply, then it's blatantly obvious that she wasn't the one for you. If she saw that as well, and doesn't reply, then it's no skin off your teeth. |
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yes lily!!!!
Hi sexy baby......I love your body sexy baby......I would love for us to chat sexy baby.........
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Lily, Gamma does. Aren't you paying attention!
If you reply and waste his time, he can then blame women for wasting his time and being too nice. The Montana Syndrome, I'm calling it. And then there will be a thread about the damn nice women. Why do all the nice women waste my time? It's so rude. 
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from what I've seen after a few years on these sites most women receive a zillion "breaking the ice" emails every day saying "hi sexy" or something as imaginative if you wanna be noticed you have to stand out and above the crowd of salivating hormone driven males DING DING DING, WINNER WINNER.... Hey sexy, hey baby, or any variation of the sort is NOT acceptable by anyone who carries themselves with any self esteem whatso ever. "Hi" gives me NOTHING to respond to. Just because I own a telephone doesn't mean I have to answer it, just because I own a front door doesn't mean I have to open it, and simply because I have an email account, doesn't mean I have to use it.... Get over yourself, if your messages aren't being returned, the person either A. Isn't interested or B. Isn't interested or C. Isn't interested. Why would you want them to respond and waste your time? and that was super rude... |
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I often don't reply back to people... I'm sorry I don't think I "owe" them anything. If they send me something funny or original then I am more likely to respond. I'm just here looking for friends anyway... I already have a bf. Yes she is as a matter of fact. Maybe even sliced bread. |
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Oh for cryin out loud. I have sent out quite a few emails. Most of them were nothing more than an attempt to say hello. I try to make sure that I make reference to something they have said in their profile. It doesn't MATTER!!! If they don't want to respond, they aren't going to. It's that simple. Maybe they don't like the way you look. Maybe you say something about having a cat and they are allergic. It could be anything at all. It may be " rude " for them not to respond. To me, it really isn't. If there is something there that doesn't " click ", then they are in no way obliged to answer the email. I don't get many emails here from women, unless I have mailed them first, or because of the Matchmaking game. BUT, if someone does email me, I will respond to it. Even if it's just a " Hi. How are you doing? " type of thing. My reason for doing so...well...I like to give people a chance. Who knows? Maybe she just isn't good at coming up with something to say at first. Maybe she is just kinda shy. No matter what, getting irritated because someone doesn't respond is an effort in futility. If she doesn't reply, then it's blatantly obvious that she wasn't the one for you. If she saw that as well, and doesn't reply, then it's no skin off your teeth. Just read this. Lather, rinse, repeat. |
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Hi!!!
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