Do you think there is ever a time when you NEED to teach a lesson the hard way? You have tried to be reasonable with a person and they do not want to listen. Do you think then is a good time to teach a lesson a hard way?

yeah call tony and sal,they'll teach people a lesson

You mean with something hard over their heads

Like a metal pipe?

They seem to be unlisted, got a number for them?

I'm confused as to why you would think you NEED TO TEACH A LESSON? did they not agree with you?

some people have alot to learn I'm one of those people

depends on the lesson

If you think your qualified to teach...then teach away...is this about maple syrup harvesting???

It is not that they are agreeing with me or not, it is the fact that when the problem has to do with the both of us they refuse to do anything about it.

Not till March.

Are you talking about an 18 year old that fought tooth and nail with hatred and failure in school to get out into the world on his own.......went out with a girl.....and now has come back and is lazy and a moocher without any contribution to family???? Should you throw him out on the street and let him learn how to be a man????? Sink or swim kinda thing????

The story is longer.....but maybe you get the drift.....

Friday night I had this kid call me 20 in a 15 minute span. He was claiming I was some person who was sleeping with his father. I know the father yes. But am not sleeping with him. I text the father to let him know what was going on, and he said that it could not be his son, I was like well this kid knows both of our names AND even said the correct name of your son. And that if it does not stop then I will call the police and put in a complaint for harassment. Oddly enough after that, the calls stopped. For that night anyways. He calls again Saturday night and again Sunday night. I wait until this morning to call thew father again, he still proclaims that it is not his son, and refuses to do anything about it. So I simply text him back (the whole time we are texting each other) saying if you do not do anything, then I am going to take it up with your wife, because I do not put up with harassment from anybody.

crappy situation but what does a lesson have to do with this?

You should stand up for yourself, defend yourself and think you went about the right way by contacting the father, now if the father doesnt wish to believe nor do anything about it, next step is the mother, then the cops.

Melissa you gave the father a chance to correct the situation he chose not to, now you have to stand up for yourself and protect yourself.

They left you no choice make to do it the hard way.

Yea, I guess you are right, it is not really a lesson.

put the number on block

The most useful lessons in life are learned the hard way, they are never forgotten.

Hi my name is Lily.... I learn everything the hard way...

can I quote you and say Lily always learns the hard way?

See that is the thing, I think they are calling from a computer because every number that they call from is a different number, and when I call them back, it is always out of service.