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Topic: why do girls always think your a player
MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 09/25/08 06:21 PM
wow sorry to be blunt but i didnt realize this had any thing to do with guitar hero or rock band however thank you for your advice to those who gave it So sorry...really....that was indeed very rude. I guess I just agree with what everyone else was saying...just let her know by the things that you say and do that you are serious...her apprehension probably has nothing to do with you but has everything to do with past experience...I wish you the best of luck

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 09/25/08 06:21 PM
wow sorry to be blunt but i didnt realize this had any thing to do with guitar hero or rock band however thank you for your advice to those who gave it You're welcome.

JoLynn Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 516	Thu 09/25/08 06:24 PM
im sorry i dont have estrogen few i just perved you and nice,but you live so far what a shocker and your involved another shocker awww...u r sweet...i've perved u ;-) and i think he's moving to FL...that's why my profile says "heartbreaking"...lovely

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 09/25/08 06:30 PM
im sorry i dont have estrogen few i just perved you and nice,but you live so far what a shocker and your involved another shocker awww...u r sweet...i've perved u ;-) and i think he's moving to FL...that's why my profile says "heartbreaking"...lovely well you can move here with him then dump him for me jk

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Thu 09/25/08 06:38 PM
back on topic RKISIT, this thread is not about your lack of estrogen...lol

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Thu 09/25/08 06:56 PM
I have this girl im after she is absolutely amazing and beautiful evidently i say all the right things and am what she wants. However she thinks i might just have a lot of game how do you prove that your absolutely for real? I know all my friends truly know that i am how do i show her i am? I wish you lots of luck on this pursuit but it might be wise to step back and see if you have gotten yourself smitten over a "prove you love me" emotionally insecure vampire or not. Not buying every smooth compliment you pour on her is just useing common sense but if you start feeling like you are jumping through hoops to prove things you might want to slow down and give this relationship some time before you are up to your ears. Look at her track record does she have a trail of frusterated nice guys who could never do enough after one member of the toad prince association? Warry is one thing but wounded gets really hard to live with after the new wears off. Best of luck for a positive outcome.

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Thu 09/25/08 07:02 PM
Just tell her like it is, Don't hate the Player, hate the game! That'll fix it.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 09/25/08 07:12 PM
I always assume I am dealing with a genuine until proven otherwise. It doesn't usually take me very long to see the truth. Usually.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Thu 09/25/08 07:28 PM
if there is one thing i learned from my daughter is that life is too short i live life one day at a time 110 percent any less than what is life itself but a blur i know most people dont live this way and im a different breed of person i live life to the fullest otherwise you may regret the time you have on this earth "Somebody should tell us, right at the start of our lives, that we are dying. Then we might live life to the limit, every minute of every day. Do it, I say! Whatever you want to do, do it now! There are only so many tomorrows." Pope Paul VI ....CARPE DIEM ^^ Best quote on my profile

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Thu 09/25/08 07:33 PM
Don't try to say all the right things or try to do all the right things. Be yourself. One of things that women fear is if it seems too good to be true than it really isn't. Just be yourself!

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Thu 09/25/08 08:08 PM Edited by Thomas27 on Thu 09/25/08 08:08 PM
Player rule #2 - Hit it and quit it So I heard anyway.

SVImager Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 579	Thu 09/25/08 10:56 PM Edited by SVImager on Thu 09/25/08 10:56 PM
Well, are you a Player? If you are than you would've known the standard response. How did you meet her? How many girls have you dated in a month? Player rule #3: When accused of being a Player, Laugh and say "Me!!???!! a Player.. haha... no way... You really think I am that good-looking." Or... alternative line: "Me!!???!! a Player.. haha... Are you trying to get me in bed with you? I am sorry. I am gay."