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chatted with a lovely gal, and things went very well. i have bin very stressed of late, and had bin drinkin, not that i do this eveyday. we had sorta mentioned meetin at a local pub, but job called for longer shift. i forgot to call her , even then i didnt have her cell number with me.when i got home ,this is when i realized that i had forgot when i checked messages.!!!!! i know i will take alotta heat from the gals on here but man i feel so ****ty, but she is gonna let it slide and gimme a chance to make it up. i guess what im tryin to say is would you gals gimme another shot or shoot me.!!!  I can usually tell when people are genuine or when they are full of BS. I'm almost positive you are genuine here, she will hopefully be able to tell the same... I give second chances when they are deserved, not when they are expected.  
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Don't sweat it. You will be fine. Women are attracted to a Man with Purpose and Passion and Goals. And that she is not your main goal in life. But are limited on patiences if you do this constantly. One or Two (Two is stretching it) miss dates are like telling her you are in short supply. Therefore she will perceive a High Demand for you. If you have too much time on your hand and you have so much time to call her... you will lose the girl as coming on a Needy and Goal-less in life. Too Much Supply, Low Demand. I have seen women fight over the last purse at a dept. store. 
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See I can have rational thought processes sometimes...
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 You FORGOT about another human being! How important could she possibly  be to you if you FORGOT about her completely? People forget about other people everyday Hearts get broken everyday too We make mistakes , it is HUMAN Are you kidding? "people forget about other people everyday?" ...since when? I'm not sure how it works for you BUT people of genuine "importance" are NEVER forgotten. No they weren't kidding people do forget, people get caught up and involved THAT IS LIFE... That is the life of people/professionals, etc. Does that make others less important? Well, were I married and forgetting about my husband I'd say um yeah I'm a jerk.. But people I don't know, a first meeting? Pretty easy to forget when I get caught up in work... Hell, I forget to pay bills, get gas, pick up dry cleaning... You'll say "not human, so what! or you're forgetful" neither would be accurate. I have a stressful job with a lot of responsibilities and I put most of my energy into that job b/c it's my career and someone that is a "first time meeting" might get forgotten if I get busy at work.. Forgetting doesn't make people less important unless they are supposed to be THAT important i.e. children, family, spouses... And (((Sea))) you sounded sincere, she's a good woman to understand that, if she didn't then she wouldn't be worth the time of the apology... |
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thnx peeps n peepettes, you all mean so much to me even when we beg to differ.!!! cheers and im gonna hit my basket very tired. !!!!
 
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You FORGOT about another human being! How important could she possibly be to you if you FORGOT about her completely? People forget about other people everyday Hearts get broken everyday too We make mistakes , it is HUMAN Are you kidding? "people forget about other people everyday?" ...since when? I'm not sure how it works for you BUT people of genuine "importance" are NEVER forgotten. No they weren't kidding people do forget, people get caught up and involved THAT IS LIFE... That is the life of people/professionals, etc. Does that make others less important? Well, were I married and forgetting about my husband I'd say um yeah I'm a jerk.. But people I don't know, a first meeting? Pretty easy to forget when I get caught up in work... Hell, I forget to pay bills, get gas, pick up dry cleaning... You'll say "not human, so what! or you're forgetful" neither would be accurate. I have a stressful job with a lot of responsibilities and I put most of my energy into that job b/c it's my career and someone that is a "first time meeting" might get forgotten if I get busy at work.. Forgetting doesn't make people less important unless they are supposed to be THAT important i.e. children, family, spouses... And (((Sea))) you sounded sincere, she's a good woman to understand that, if she didn't then she wouldn't be worth the time of the apology... OK... Have you ever forgotten a date?  I get that people get involved with their job and life (majority of the reason why people are single) BUT to "forget" about a first meeting?!?! That's the WHOLE excitement of it all. While at work- you’re looking forward to meeting this new and exciting individual; this person that has “awakened” your senses. The "niceness of the newness"- as I like to call it.  If you actually FORGOT about meeting the person that captured your "interest" in the first place, you've got no business dating. Seems to me that they are pretty set being alone and living their "busy and involved" lives. Who's to say you don’t have more dates set up all over your home town- Ya just forgot about them too...  The fact you would categorize Bills and people together is disturbing.  Yes, there IS a difference. I believe he should get another chance -Just try being a bit more considerate next time. JMO  |
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I think that people shouldn't be SO critical...
If you're talking to someone for a while and then forget about them, then YES you have a point.. If you talk to them a time or two and forget, I don't think it's horrible or unforgiving... And YES, I've done it... I don't think it's DISTURBING that I linked those things together in forgetting... I NEVER said "I think of dates like I do paying my bills or picking up my dry cleaning".. I said "I get caught up in my work and forget things... Some people just get very busy and regardless of how busy see my first paragraph.. Unless someone has NOTHING else to do but wait to go on a date, I'd say it's normal to get busy and forget... Not ALL people normal but it can happen... |
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I think that people shouldn't be SO critical... If you're talking to someone for a while and then forget about them, then YES you have a point.. If you talk to them a time or two and forget, I don't think it's horrible or unforgiving... And YES, I've done it... I don't think it's DISTURBING that I linked those things together in forgetting... I NEVER said "I think of dates like I do paying my bills or picking up my dry cleaning".. I said "I get caught up in my work and forget things... Some people just get very busy and regardless of how busy see my first paragraph.. Unless someone has NOTHING else to do but wait to go on a date, I'd say it's normal to get busy and forget... Not ALL people normal but it can happen... Maybe you two should get together, then you can both forget you have a date with each other!! The perfect date!! |
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I think that people shouldn't be SO critical... If you're talking to someone for a while and then forget about them, then YES you have a point.. If you talk to them a time or two and forget, I don't think it's horrible or unforgiving... And YES, I've done it... I don't think it's DISTURBING that I linked those things together in forgetting... I NEVER said "I think of dates like I do paying my bills or picking up my dry cleaning".. I said "I get caught up in my work and forget things... Some people just get very busy and regardless of how busy see my first paragraph.. Unless someone has NOTHING else to do but wait to go on a date, I'd say it's normal to get busy and forget... Not ALL people normal but it can happen... Maybe you two should get together, then you can both forget you have a date with each other!! The perfect date!!   |
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I think that people shouldn't be SO critical... If you're talking to someone for a while and then forget about them, then YES you have a point.. If you talk to them a time or two and forget, I don't think it's horrible or unforgiving... And YES, I've done it... I don't think it's DISTURBING that I linked those things together in forgetting... I NEVER said "I think of dates like I do paying my bills or picking up my dry cleaning".. I said "I get caught up in my work and forget things... Some people just get very busy and regardless of how busy see my first paragraph.. Unless someone has NOTHING else to do but wait to go on a date, I'd say it's normal to get busy and forget... Not ALL people normal but it can happen... Maybe you two should get together, then you can both forget you have a date with each other!! The perfect date!! |
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thank you for the unwarranted advice, if we wanted to date rather than be friends we would... I don't think we asked for your opinion on WHO we should date though....
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Open thread!
He is entitled to his opinion/comments just like you were. |
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ive done it... well i remembered i had a date.. i just forgot what day i was in.. it was friday.. i thought it was wed...
he called that night when i got home.. i explained the mixup.. we went out the next night instead.. a good friend to this day people get buzy.. stuff happens... good luck sea!
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thank you for the unwarranted advice, if we wanted to date rather than be friends we would... I don't think we asked for your opinion on WHO we should date though.... |
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Open thread! He is entitled to his opinion/comments just like you were. It was OFF topic... I stayed on topic as you did.. Just b/c you and I don't agree on this or about forgetting people does not mean this topic turned into who we should date... |
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Totally ON topic!
You forgot a date - he forgot a date... He is entitled to put the two together by any means neccessary. 
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thank you for the unwarranted advice, if we wanted to date rather than be friends we would... I don't think we asked for your opinion on WHO we should date though.... they just said that they were in a buzy time in thier lives, and got mixed up in it.. im thinkin they felt horrible for doing it and made up for it... point is... we are HUMAN... and humans make mistakes... jmo |
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thank you for the unwarranted advice, if we wanted to date rather than be friends we would... I don't think we asked for your opinion on WHO we should date though.... I think it would suck and you have a point.. That is what you could have said rather than he and I should date... See I leave my meetings at "we'll talk and confirm" so I assumed that is what he did as well.. I don't know many people that have never met and just say "meet you at so and so on Tuesday" and then not confirm it that day... And NO Voluptuous is WAS NOT on topic b/c we've done the same thing he didn't ask "should I date someone that has as well"... |
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Totally ON topic! You forgot a date - he forgot a date... He is entitled to put the two together by any means neccessary. i dont mean any offence.. but if he is offended by what she said.. he can stand up for himself.. just a thought |
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thank you for the unwarranted advice, if we wanted to date rather than be friends we would... I don't think we asked for your opinion on WHO we should date though.... they just said that they were in a buzy time in thier lives, and got mixed up in it.. im thinkin they felt horrible for doing it and made up for it... point is... we are HUMAN... and humans make mistakes... jmo |
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