Jim, you're so lucky your pretty....

jim,,,,buddy u did goood this time

Okay, here's a few things:

Let me start first off by saying I owe only one apology to one person here. That's Izzie...Izzie I respect you and have always thought highly of you. You dont really know the real Jim, if you had actually spoke to me a few times and encountered some conversations with me, I know this thread wouldnt have bothered you the way it did... In no way did I have intentions to personally harm anyone. If you took a personal path to my thread I am truly sorry....

Possibly I could have worded my "demand" differently. In retrospect the wording was a little degrading if you will, it was not intended that way. It was due to a recent experience that I encountered, my frustration caused the action....Does this change me? No, I am who I am and know what I want, and I know my qualities. I can honestly say I know that I am a true man. No beating around the bush, will never lie to get someone, or lied about who I am, nor act like some of the fools on this site...

There are 3 women on this site, (and yes they have commented in this thread) that know me. THey have spoken with me and we have talked. One in particular knows me. We have talked at length at times and she is an amazing woman, and I thank her for who she is. (She knows who she is ) Notice these women did not attack me, they knew right away what was going on! I mean immediatley! AND they had respect and courtesy to this issue, quite comical actually....To those people that understand where I am coming from? Much respect, your are true, genuine people, and my hand extends to you in respect...

To those that immediately jumped on the "I am so tough, will act like I am a bad azz behind the keyboard wagon? I truly laugh at you, your life is so sheltered it is time you came out of the box you live in. Seriously, my daughter would eat you for lunch. Your not intimidating, you have no cooth, and need to seriously get a life. Its no suprise to me why you are all single still, if you are all like that behind the keyboard I could only imagine how in person would be They try to be the bully that ends up getting embarrased and I totally love it

jim sweetie... i know you well enough to know that you hadnt INTENDED for this to end up the way that it has.. but the road to hell.. well we all know the rest....

this thread hit a WHOLE bad note with me.. and it quite honestly had nothing to do with the ORIGIN of this thread, but with what it turned into.. and not soley or worst by you.. as i told mutual friends last night.. my issue was not with you.. not in the least.. i know that you are on the whole a decent guy.. my issue was with what this thread turned into..
you are a good friend.. who was willing to read (or at least pretend to) my rantings on a couple occasions when i was stressed.. and i apprecieate that..

as for the thread its self.. my first couple posts in here were in no way attacking or degrading.. but as the thread progressed and the tone of the thread changed.. so did my responses here..
my leaving was because i knew hwat you were initaly trying for with this.. and i know that (despite common sence that SHOULD have told you otherwise!!) it was not what you had intended, and i didnt want to say something out of hurt or anger that i would end up regreting..

and fianly.. as for this thread..
i wash my hands of it..
i respect that you have your preferences, but am not a fan of the way that they (unintentionaly) ended up getting pounded in or rubed in to the faces of some..
no ill will or hard feelings here..
ya kno i love ya as a dear friend.. youve had my back as ive had yours in the past..

Why is that?

Lily you know I respect you immensely but this rant of your sounds like nothing but a woman who didn't get what she wanted.

I also disagree that Jim is not just a wonderful man who speaks the truth...and if people don't like it...Oh well get over your big bad ugly selves.

You attack so many men....I am wondering if their is issues that Lily needs to deal with. And I don't mean this with lack of respect Lily because you have always had that from me. I just see a very angry woman all the time and wonder wtf and why.

I don't think in all the time I have known Jim does he ever pretend to be something other then exactly who he is. Is he perfect...hell no who is......but he does not every intentially attack or hurt anyone...

And please enlighten me on any self rightious way he demands anyone to do anything......do you even know how lame that sounds.

I have never seen him to be anyone but who he is....so check yourself lily because I have seen this with you over and over.

That's why.....

ok i know i wasnt going to come back in here

but we all know how i am with trainwrecks.

jim.... sorry... i dont find you in the least attractive... and kaymo said that you need a new hair dresser.. (sorry she made me type that.. she said she can fix it for ya if ya want her to)

no offence.. just thought id toss that out there...

jim.... sorry... i dont find you in the least attractive...

I think he is butt ugly but someone has to tell him the truth....gigglesnort.

Lily you know I respect you immensely but this rant of your sounds like nothing but a woman who didn't get what she wanted.

I also disagree that Jim is not just a wonderful man who speaks the truth...and if people don't like it...Oh well get over your big bad ugly selves.

You attack so many men....I am wondering if their is issues that Lily needs to deal with. And I don't mean this with lack of respect Lily because you have always had that from me. I just see a very angry woman all the time and wonder wtf and why.

I don't think in all the time I have known Jim does he ever pretend to be something other then exactly who he is. Is he perfect...hell no who is......but he does not every intentially attack or hurt anyone...

And please enlighten me on any self rightious way he demands anyone to do anything......do you even know how lame that sounds.

I have never seen him to be anyone but who he is....so check yourself lily because I have seen this with you over and over.

No worries, an no, dont need her to fix it...

Finally! Someone who DOESNT find me attractive! YES!!! Thank you!

ditto. but i think it's great that you have that confidence about yourself.