Topic: what makes your profile stand out on Mingle
lilith401's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:02 AM
S1owhand, I think the I'll do ya thread should be resurrected.... there is a former BoM poster who came here recently, but before she did, she and I starting writing them privately on e-mails, and she let me do a thread here.

Credit SilverJoy for that thread....I'm so glad you liked it as much as I did.

s1owhand's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:09 AM
i always secretly had a thing for you lilith 'cause you believe in unicorns...

flowerforyou

smitten

but i'm afraid i just can't capitalize properly...
it is a "character flaw" fortunately it is not
so apparent because of the other stuff...

:tongue:

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:11 AM
You thought it was a secret? rofl rofl rofl

You crack me up, honey. Lemme go find that do ya thread...

s1owhand's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:16 AM

You thought it was a secret? rofl rofl rofl

You crack me up, honey. Lemme go find that do ya thread...


125373 :heart:

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:16 AM
Photo's are critical. Lot of time they are so unflattering. Some would actually be good if they were photo shopped for annoying backgrounds growing out of the top of your head or ear. The ones that look really sad are the ones that are half cropped and obviously cut out the Ex. Use the photo just crop it some more and enlarge it in the center of the frame.

Being a little specific about interests. Duh everybody likes music and sports ect to some degree.

And the ones that feel like they just have to say that their kids are there first interest. Well duh of course they are. A reference to age frame would be useful but I don't know that is even necessary. If you don't sell me on you first it doesn't matter if you have kids.


I am a creative person myself but I always feel a little overwhelmed if someone posts original work on and introduction profile. I feel like I have to comment on it and that would put me in an awkward position. Sounds like you are fishing for a compliment. The forums seem like a great place to share that. Or subsequent personal emails.

People who start listing people they don't want to hear from that are already covered in match preferences or site guidelines. Come on someone sends you something offensive don't whine report them the first time. You don't have to be nice to jerks and insult people who aren't.

TheShadow's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:16 AM
To me at times it's not so much the profile on what i read, it's when i send an email about it and the responce i get on the comments of it that i made that stick out for me. Alot of people will go off what other profile are like and when i start to chat with them. I realize that there no where near what they put themselves out to be. Then you find some like i did the other day and how they expressed themselves on life and what they'er looking for, the realness that was shared for what i seen for being a proflie. This person is how they put themselves out to be and i can actually have a conversation. Not the do ya party,music,etc etc boring type of conversation i get most of the time.

izzie's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:17 AM
but lil...unicorns ARE REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:23 AM
Yes, you and I know what that means though...

no photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:50 AM
My smile makes my profile stand out. bigsmile

beachbum069's photo
Tue 09/23/08 10:03 AM
My dog is cute and cuddly.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 09/23/08 10:20 AM
What makes my profile stand out??

Not much. But everyone seems to love the Bondage Bear!!! LOL

no photo
Tue 09/23/08 11:00 AM
I have no idea.....noway

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 09/23/08 11:01 AM
:smile: In empty spaces I twist and talk, and come down with the roar of thunder:smile:


SkaryKoolAide's photo
Tue 09/23/08 11:28 AM

Is there something that makes certain profiles stand out more than others or is it just me? what makes them pop up on the main page? and what not and how do they determine that? Besides all of those questions....what have you all noticed that makes profiles stand out? frustrated

Warning: this thread and it's comments listed within may cause some people to lose control of their baldders.Thanks.Bring your own TP.....Portapotties are in the back.......ALLLLL the way in the back.bigsmile

-Thanks management


the thing that stands out about my profile is that.....it's mineflowerforyou

izzie's photo
Tue 09/23/08 11:51 AM
but UNICORNS ARE REAL!!!!!!!!
frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

no photo
Tue 09/23/08 12:01 PM

Oh,to answer the question about my profile some like my feet lmao
so then my question a while a back is yes then laugh :tongue:

carolanne58's photo
Tue 09/23/08 03:34 PM


Oh,to answer the question about my profile some like my feet lmao
so then my question a while a back is yes then laugh :tongue:


Your such a flirt wink, wink ,big smile

dawnyhi's photo
Tue 09/23/08 03:48 PM
my profile rawks

IamMewhoRU's photo
Wed 09/24/08 08:13 AM
shades :thumbsup: waving

Jess642's photo
Wed 09/24/08 02:28 PM
Nothing, I hope....noway noway

I am hoping ABSOLUTELY NOTHING makes my profile stand out....


I much prefer it that way..bigsmile