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Topic: Am I too sensitive
Italy0219's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:01 PM
I just came from a football game with my daughter, and my boyfriend. They were both joking with me cause I dont' know alot about football but am trying to learn, and have been for awile.. well my "boyfriend" was mouthing off and was joking with this lady who was sitting close to us, he said "she (meaning me) doesn't know anything about football, then he added, actually she doesn't know anything about anything." I immediately lost it..told him the relationship was over and that was that....when we came home from the game, I sent him on his way...and I meant it...am I being too harsh? or should I let it go? I think it was callous and inconsiderate and shows what he is made of...need you know your opinions...pls.

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:02 PM
Hmmm

Italy0219's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:03 PM

Hmmm


is that a yes or a no..???

madamx7316's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:04 PM
i think it was the wrong thing to say, defiantely. not sure that i would have went that far as you did, but i certainly would have told him how it made me feel and not tolerate it!!! a bit uncalled for and disrespectful for anyone to do that to someone they care about.

moonlight_ride62's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:05 PM

I just came from a football game with my daughter, and my boyfriend. They were both joking with me cause I dont' know alot about football but am trying to learn, and have been for awile.. well my "boyfriend" was mouthing off and was joking with this lady who was sitting close to us, he said "she (meaning me) doesn't know anything about football, then he added, actually she doesn't know anything about anything." I immediately lost it..told him the relationship was over and that was that....when we came home from the game, I sent him on his way...and I meant it...am I being too harsh? or should I let it go? I think it was callous and inconsiderate and shows what he is made of...need you know your opinions...pls.

you did the right thing...he was disrespecting you to a stranger...screw him you are better off without him

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:05 PM
Is this that same rich guy that loved you to the end but you didnt find him attractive, yet still wanted to be with him because he was "very well off"?

adirtygirl's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:06 PM

I just came from a football game with my daughter, and my boyfriend. They were both joking with me cause I dont' know alot about football but am trying to learn, and have been for awile.. well my "boyfriend" was mouthing off and was joking with this lady who was sitting close to us, he said "she (meaning me) doesn't know anything about football, then he added, actually she doesn't know anything about anything." I immediately lost it..told him the relationship was over and that was that....when we came home from the game, I sent him on his way...and I meant it...am I being too harsh? or should I let it go? I think it was callous and inconsiderate and shows what he is made of...need you know your opinions...pls.


well do you want someone telling you negative things and especially in front of your daughter??? what kind of role model is that and what kind of example is he setting by doing this...Yes maybe you over-reacted but you have to think what is in the best interest for you and your daughter

buttons's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:06 PM
i say no what an asshole.... at least u tried to learn

buttons's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:07 PM
wow that went through im surprised
bigsmile laugh laugh

RKISIT's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:07 PM
Edited by RKISIT on Fri 09/19/08 08:07 PM
you should of had make up sex first then made your choice.:smile:

adirtygirl's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:07 PM

you should of had make up sex first then made your choice.



U suck!!!!!:wink:

Italy0219's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:07 PM

Is this that same rich guy that loved you to the end but you didnt find him attractive, yet still wanted to be with him because he was "very well off"?


Actually Mayhem, we were getting along fine..I actually do like him..alot..but now, not so sure...you know relationships are hard at first..and I can not say I don't like him, I really do...and it has nothing to do with his money..he was funny and fun to be with...but as you can see. he goes over the top...

moonlight_ride62's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:08 PM

Is this that same rich guy that loved you to the end but you didnt find him attractive, yet still wanted to be with him because he was "very well off"?

being disrespectful has its price...a good thousand should make things better.....ahhhh NOT

no photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:08 PM
i think the comment about the football was o.k but the other comment was nothing less than mean and rude ..how you handle it is up to you ....i think tho sometimes we react on the spur of the moment and we get mad rather than convey how much our feelings are hurt instead ..i think that would make for a better foundation to arelationship...jmo..we're all guilty of this at one time or another ..

no photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:09 PM
yea it b hard when your main squeeze be dissin' on ya...:laughing:

Italy0219's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:09 PM


you should of had make up sex first then made your choice.



U suck!!!!!:wink:



Thanks, after that comment who the hell wants to have sex at all, I prolly can't do that right either,,FU

RKISIT's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:09 PM


you should of had make up sex first then made your choice.



U suck!!!!!:wink:
aw you are a great friendblushing

adirtygirl's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:11 PM



you should of had make up sex first then made your choice.



U suck!!!!!:wink:
aw you are a great friendblushing
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thank you you are too...

RKISIT's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:11 PM
Edited by RKISIT on Fri 09/19/08 08:11 PM



you should of had make up sex first then made your choice.



U suck!!!!!:wink:



Thanks, after that comment who the hell wants to have sex at all, I prolly can't do that right either,,FU
what college is that FU and what does college have to do with this.:smile:

Italy0219's photo
Fri 09/19/08 08:11 PM

i think the comment about the football was o.k but the other comment was nothing less than mean and rude ..how you handle it is up to you ....i think tho sometimes we react on the spur of the moment and we get mad rather than convey how much our feelings are hurt instead ..i think that would make for a better foundation to arelationship...jmo..we're all guilty of this at one time or another ..


Yep, I didn't mind the football stuff, but the other, no way..and he loves my cooking and alot of stuff we do together..sex was great too!!! we both agreed!!

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