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Topic: OK here's the deal...
Socratease's photo
Sun 09/07/08 09:56 PM
Edited by Socratease on Sun 09/07/08 09:57 PM
Hard enough to have a relationship with one lady at times without being confused,now your bringing in another...so yes my words maybe confusing but the situation is more to those involved,get the picture?....gl heh

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Sun 09/07/08 09:58 PM
You're good. ...as long as you don't do it for TOO long. :tongue:

joshyfox's photo
Mon 09/08/08 03:51 AM
Dude, the one you don't date, refer her to me! laugh

Two women... greedy jerk...grumble

No worries, let's dance! drinker

MAGIC BANANA, GO! :banana:

papersmile's photo
Mon 09/08/08 03:54 AM
Exactly as long as you are honest with both of them. But if things went so well with the first one, then why would you want to add a second one to them mix?


two's okay but if he adds in a third, i'm gonna think he's a 'man-whore' laugh

DTHRomeo's photo
Mon 09/08/08 03:56 AM

Exactly as long as you are honest with both of them. But if things went so well with the first one, then why would you want to add a second one to them mix?


two's okay but if he adds in a third, i'm gonna think he's a 'man-whore' laugh


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Mon 09/08/08 04:27 AM

Exactly as long as you are honest with both of them. But if things went so well with the first one, then why would you want to add a second one to them mix?


two's okay but if he adds in a third, i'm gonna think he's a 'man-whore' laugh
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PacificStar48's photo
Mon 09/08/08 05:24 AM

I went out with a gal on saturday night, it went well and we have made arrangment for another date. Today another girl asked me out and I said ok....Is that bad? There's nothing seriouos between the first girl and me yet...


Dating is much different from courting a woman. If it is casual, sex is not involed, no gifts or promises are being exchanged then I see no problem with dateing more than one person. Different friendships often bring different opportunities and interests into your life.

However the reality is it is a small world and both parties are quite likely to know you are dateing the other; especially since you make so much of your personal business common knowledge on an open forum. Kiss and tell even in the generic meaning of the word is bad date ettiquette and would put you at the very bottom of my priority list of who to spend time with in the future as far as anything but "friends".

Dateing is an expensive proposition especially for women who have to pay considerably more for clothing, accessories, hair care, car maintenance, and babysitters then men usually do (to mention a few) often on lower wages so you better figure out who you want to be with or you are quite likely to end up with neither investing in you.

Just because the second lady asked you does not get you off "the hotseat" because you could have politely declined her invitation until a later date and you had enough time to think things through about the first lady of interest and draw a conclusion.

I am not the jealous type and I understand that dateing is only dateing but if I found out I was repeatedly dateing a man who was not into me enough that he had to still consider other options my interest in him would decidely wain.

It is not hard to be a gentleman and protect your precious reputaion from what others feel about how you treat them. Just look in the mirror and think how would I want that person to treat me or my Mother or sister. All the permission in the world is not good enough if you it doesn't pass the smell test wihown sense of right and wrong.

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Mon 09/08/08 05:30 AM
Guy, this is so simple. Live by the Golden Rule and act accordingly as to how you would like to be treated.

K?

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Mon 09/08/08 05:44 AM
What could be bad about this situation, only thing I see as bad is your rubbing it in the faces of those of us who have no dates :smile:

Good luck to you, only thing I can say is be honest and true.

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Mon 09/08/08 06:03 AM
You are the Man!!!!!
When it rains it pours!!
Good for you Dude. I recently have had two dates with a woman, can't wait till the next one. But in the mean time there is possible activity with another woman. Until there is something special, ie more than just a friendly kiss, its all good.



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