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Topic: If there two villians on this site they
Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 09/05/08 01:10 PM Edited by Peccy on Fri 09/05/08 01:12 PM
are absence and distance. Those two do make the heart grow fonder and lonelier, but that adage forgot to remind us that it will bare our insecurities and create new, even tougher ones to overcome. And those that possess a heart that is not dedicated and true may as well not try to defeat them. They will eat your lunch! But the good news is, if you hang around and fight them long enough, they eventually buckle under the pressure of true love and let you do what you've wanted from the beginning.... just live life and plan for the future the best way you know how. And yes I am unhappy with a few males on this site who seem to think that a break up is their cue to immediately come running and take my place. I'm not even mad at those people. I just think about it and laugh. Did you actually think?

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Fri 09/05/08 01:12 PM


HasidicEnforcer Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 10235	Fri 09/05/08 01:14 PM
Are you okay, Peccy?

EarthSprite Joined Mon 04/02/07 Posts: 12114	Fri 09/05/08 01:14 PM
Hang in there Peccy...

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Fri 09/05/08 01:15 PM


Peekinin Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 4970	Fri 09/05/08 01:16 PM
"scent of ab" Peccy and Lilangel,,,I'm familiar The way I deal with it, is "in the day, head down plow forward, remember the "goal" and dream BIG" Be true to your core and focus on the "we". Peace

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 09/05/08 01:16 PM


itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 09/05/08 01:16 PM


IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Fri 09/05/08 01:19 PM
I let distance and absence win...

ahuhalicious Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 995	Fri 09/05/08 01:21 PM
mama says womens da deble

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 09/05/08 01:21 PM
Are you okay, Peccy? yeah just something that has been festering.....lol Angel and I are fine.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Fri 09/05/08 01:21 PM
mama says womens da deble

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 09/05/08 01:23 PM
mama says womens da deble ROFLMAO!

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 09/05/08 01:26 PM
mama says womens da deble but eye loaf ju longgg longgg taim

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 09/05/08 01:27 PM
wasnt me

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Fri 09/05/08 01:30 PM
Well I, for one, am not about to let those two evils get the best of me. I just spent 4 days with a super terrific guy.....who lives really far away. And I figure it this way..... Am I going to plan out my future based on these 4 days? No. But I do have a definite direction I'm leaning in. So THAT is what I will focus on. Not the goal and not the distance to the goal.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 09/05/08 01:30 PM
They know who they are..........lol

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 09/05/08 01:30 PM
It was me

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 09/05/08 01:31 PM
seriously I really think thats low even if things were not gonna to work out people need to give people time to figure that out

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 09/05/08 01:31 PM
Hey at least they waited until you broke up.... at that point all is fair.... I won't comment on how it must be nice for her to receive positive male attention.... and if you were secure in your relationship it never would bother you in the first place.