buy a vibrator, name it Mike and call it a day.....

Dr. Phil

Awe sweety, you shouldn't worry about it, it's just a learning experience. You will teach your kids the best way. I'm confident that you will.

YOU AINT AT ALL FUNNY !!!
SHE IS HAVING A SERIOUS PROBLEM AND YOU ARE JUST AS PATHEDIC AS THE AZZWHOLES WHO DO THIS TO WOMEN!
GEEE..... HAVE A BIT OF KINDNESS FOR HER!

CUMBURPINGUTTERFREAKNASTYPEICEOFCRAPNODONGSH!THEAD!!!!!!

Its like peccy said hun... maybe call him and have a chat... maybe he was just scared to commit.
If ya need to talk ... email me and i will give ya mu number or you gimme yours and I WILL CALL YOU to try and just be your friend to hear you out!

It takes time, Sweetie...that's the nasty truth. You are mourning - just as if you'd been forced to face the death of someone. Allow yourself time to grieve this & learn from it.

The good part? No one is dead in this case. Also, no one knows what the future holds for you. The 2 of you may very well find your way back to one another. You can't orchestrate that...you can't make him return to a relationship with you, but you can let him know you are open to it.

But don't live your life based on what someone else may do...all any of us can do is live our lives based on what we, ourselves, do.

You haven't answered the one common question we've been asking. WHY did you break up? and WHO broke it off?

If there's a chance for reconnecting try .. if it was a healthy relationship.

Being funny is nice. But, when someone specifically asks for serious replies and is obviously hurting, we should be respectful.

Totally agree

Honey, you have too much time on your hands, if I remember correctly you aren't working, waiting to go to Jobcorp... You need to go out and be active... get a job or volunteer at the hospital until you leave.... too much time on your hands will make you dwell in places you shouldn't dwell.

Heartbreak sucks...I know I've been there, but if you allow it to consume you...You aren't doing anything for yourself, and if you don't treat you well no one else will either.

We talked about it an we agreed to break up, there were many reasons why we did break. He was to busy to have a relationship, working 2 jobs one being 2nd head chef that took up a lot of his time. An working for his dad. At the end we would fight because we didn't see each other, other fights were because of me...in someways I wont open up an let him in but that's because of my past an just couldn't let him in.He was willing to help me get over the past so I could open to him more. Sorry it took me so long to write back, just needed to try to stop thinking about it. I don't have his number anymore I got rid of it as soon as we broke up. I did write him an email asking him to talk to me an give me the closure I need to get over him. I just hope he reads it an does that for me. He is a very sweet guy. But thank you to everyone who has given me kind words. If anyone wants more details an thinks they can help in anyway just drop me an email.

I just put an app. in at my dads work. They need some temp help so I will more inlikely get that job, so that will help. I do go out with friends when they are not busy. I try to keep my mind busy. Thank you

I had a conversation with my friend a week or so ago about heartbreak and breakups...we both agree even when you are at your lowest point, you call your girls and you put on that makeup over top of the swollen eyes and you go out, you take lots of pictures of you having a great time (even if you have to fake it) and you post them on facebook for the ex to see.....

thats a good idea

Don't ever be the heartbroken girl, be the girl who didn't need him anyways...that gets way more attention than the heartbroken girl gets. The girl who didn't need him anyways gets way more attention from other more suitable suitors... The heartbroken girl gets passed by in the crowd...

Don't be the forgotten girl, be the girl they never forget.

You're spunky, you have it in you...

You're only 20 years old!!!!
Plenty of fishes out there and you've got plenty of time.
He is not the only one.
Now, you know NOT to get a guy so into his work.
One more point for this experience and there are plenty more.
Life is not EASY, if it is easy than it wouldn't be worth it.
Because of this experience, you will choose better the next time. and maybe another after that...
Water is more satisfying when you are thirsty.
Food taste better when you are hungry.
The Man you pick will be more rewarding after you have rejected a few candidates.



Did you have sex with him?

If you did than there is a emotional connection bond created from the sex. This would be one of the reasons why not to have sex before marriage. Remember your Heart will betray you. You guys made a logical thinking decision to breakup... not out of anger or hate (emotions). It is for the best.

Also, Supply and Demand... now that you can't have something (limited Supply), you want it even more (High Demand)... even if it is not right for you. You don't need that Giraffe Print Handbag, but it is the last one on sale at 50% off... most woman will buy it.

Takes her by the shoulders and looks deep into her eyes



"GET OVER IT"

SNAP OUT OF IT



HIS LOSS



GET ON WITH LIFE



LIFE IS TO SHORT TO LET ANYONE SUCK THE LIFE OUTTA YA.

I think that's funny.
It replace an old habit with a new one.

you posted on mine, so i suppose i will post on yours. what i found to be helpful in getting over someone is to first off, stay really really busy. When i get all down and stuff, i exercise and run and clean stuff and ride my bike. its kinda like a replacement. when i get down i mentally kick myself in the ass. travel. get out of your comfort zone and scare yourself a little.

i know nothing is as simple as that, but if i can get over the love of the last four years of my life i think you can get over this guy.

i feel ya. sometimes i wanna just