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Topic: Serious people only please..
redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Thu 09/04/08 06:02 PM Edited by redhead44613 on Thu 09/04/08 06:04 PM
Ok I know I wine a lot but I really need help right now. I can't get over my ex(mike) we broke up 3months ago, we were together for 3months. I just can't do it, I don't know whats wrong with me, I usually get over guys pretty fast but he has a hold on me, he was my everything, my heart an soul. I thought he was the one for me. I can't get him out of my mind..the way he smelled, the smile, the eyes..everything! nothing I do helps. I have been crying myself to sleep for nights an I'm sick of it, I just wanna forget him! I have gone to friends,I have tired everything.. someone please help me, I'm slowly falling a part inside. Should I go see a doctor about it?

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Thu 09/04/08 06:04 PM
IS it a hopeless realtionship? If you say yes to this, you have to start the healing process. You need to be around family and friends..doing activities ...anything to occupy your mind. If it is not hopeless...call him and tell him you miss him.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Thu 09/04/08 06:06 PM
IS it a hopeless realtionship? If you say yes to this, you have to start the healing process. You need to be around family and friends..doing activities ...anything to occupy your mind. If it is not hopeless...call him and tell him you miss him. Thats the thing...I dont know if it is or not

Pete026 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 14799	Thu 09/04/08 06:08 PM
Aw wish I could help I will say though, doctors are awfully quick to dole out drugs. Yes, they can sometimes work, they can mess you up even worse. Sometimes feeling nothing at all is worse than feeling like $hit. I speak from experience. Here's hoping things improve soon

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 09/04/08 06:10 PM
If it might not be hopeless, then try again!!

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Thu 09/04/08 06:11 PM
after 3 months you should be over his smelled, smile and eyes since you was with him for only 3 months you sure you just dont miss being with someone?

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Thu 09/04/08 06:12 PM
I agree with Angel and Pats........if you aren't sure, call him and talk to him. Don't whine or beg, just tell him you keep thinking about him - can you try again. If he says no, you need to accept it and like Angel said, begin the healing process. We all know it's not easy, but it IS possible.

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Thu 09/04/08 06:12 PM
I will say though, doctors are awfully quick to dole out drugs and thats why i love doctors...lol

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Thu 09/04/08 06:13 PM
after 3 months you should be over his smelled, smile and eyes since you was with him for only 3 months you sure you just dont miss being with someone? its him.. I know it is. Im not over him an dont think I can

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Thu 09/04/08 06:21 PM
IS it a hopeless realtionship? If you say yes to this, you have to start the healing process. You need to be around family and friends..doing activities ...anything to occupy your mind. If it is not hopeless...call him and tell him you miss him. I have to agree with Angel on this

NURSE2000 Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 606	Thu 09/04/08 07:21 PM
after 3 months you should be over his smelled, smile and eyes since you was with him for only 3 months you sure you just dont miss being with someone? Sometimes what you miss might be the companionship you only dated him for 3 months? why did you break up? if you cared so much about him? or did he break up with you?

NURSE2000 Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 606	Thu 09/04/08 07:23 PM
after 3 months you should be over his smelled, smile and eyes since you was with him for only 3 months you sure you just dont miss being with someone? Sometimes what you miss might be the companionship you only dated him for 3 months? why did you break up? if you cared so much about him? or did he break up with you? In experience If I do the breaking up it feels better than if I am the one being dumped that feels bad.. Maybe you should talk and see what happens..

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Thu 09/04/08 07:26 PM
counseling is very good!! - there are books also... hit the library!! here is another starting point http://www.wikihow.com/Let-Go-of-a-Failed-Relationship

Donnar Joined Mon 09/17/07 Posts: 874	Thu 09/04/08 09:40 PM
I'm 55. I've been through this 11 or 12 times. Time takes care of it. Maybe it will work out for you. Try not to ache all your life as I have done. Good luck.

TwilightsTwin Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 11054	Thu 09/04/08 09:54 PM
Ok I know I wine a lot but I really need help right now. I can't get over my ex(mike) we broke up 3months ago, we were together for 3months. I just can't do it, I don't know whats wrong with me, I usually get over guys pretty fast but he has a hold on me, he was my everything, my heart an soul. I thought he was the one for me. I can't get him out of my mind..the way he smelled, the smile, the eyes..everything! nothing I do helps. I have been crying myself to sleep for nights an I'm sick of it, I just wanna forget him! I have gone to friends,I have tired everything.. someone please help me, I'm slowly falling a part inside. Should I go see a doctor about it? These intense emotions need out. I feel your pain, I've been there. Do you write? Sing? Paint? Some of my proudest artwork/music/ and poems have come from nights crying myself to sleep and bad break ups. Take advantage of it, and harness that energy. You'll be ok girl...time heals all wounds.

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Thu 09/04/08 09:57 PM
Ok I know I wine a lot but I really need help right now. I can't get over my ex(mike) we broke up 3months ago, we were together for 3months. I just can't do it, I don't know whats wrong with me, I usually get over guys pretty fast but he has a hold on me, he was my everything, my heart an soul. I thought he was the one for me. I can't get him out of my mind..the way he smelled, the smile, the eyes..everything! nothing I do helps. I have been crying myself to sleep for nights an I'm sick of it, I just wanna forget him! I have gone to friends,I have tired everything.. someone please help me, I'm slowly falling a part inside. Should I go see a doctor about it? i think i can make ya forget him, im jk hun huggzz

nvrsaynvr Joined Tue 06/12/07 Posts: 5283	Thu 09/04/08 09:59 PM
If you aren't sure it is over...call him If he says forget it...then open yourself to new life adventures. I don't mean to make light of how you feel....try to stay busy and get out meet new people.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 09/04/08 10:06 PM
Its harder to forget about someone when your thinking about tham all the time

DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 09/04/08 10:08 PM
time heals all wounds

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 09/05/08 01:44 AM
Ok I know I wine a lot but I really need help right now. I can't get over my ex(mike) we broke up 3months ago, we were together for 3months. I just can't do it, I don't know whats wrong with me, I usually get over guys pretty fast but he has a hold on me, he was my everything, my heart an soul. I thought he was the one for me. I can't get him out of my mind..the way he smelled, the smile, the eyes..everything! nothing I do helps. I have been crying myself to sleep for nights an I'm sick of it, I just wanna forget him! I have gone to friends,I have tired everything.. someone please help me, I'm slowly falling a part inside. Should I go see a doctor about it? Ok.......you thought he was your heart and soul???? If he was all that then why did you guys break up????