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Topic: Writing e-mails SUX!!!
jim1957's photo
Tue 09/02/08 11:33 PM
I agree with you and the people that have replied to this question have given some good advise. I keep hoping that the one out of 10 I get a response from will be "that reply"...

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Tue 09/02/08 11:34 PM

I CAN'T BE ALONE IN THIS!

Any of you guys hate writing e-mails to people on this site knowing 9 of 10 wont be replied to?

Me personally i write e-mails all day to different companies seeing if they want to buy what im selling. 8 of 10 never get back to me.... Seriously annoying

as for this site... if you write a long email and dont get a reply its annoying cuz you spent time trying to be clever only to find your anything but lol

so you switch to short e-mails and that dosent work, they think your boring lol

ahhhhh the pitfalls i tell ya!




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U onna the wrong Site Bro.... Not happ'nin here..noway

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 09/02/08 11:35 PM

I agree with you and the people that have replied to this question have given some good advise. I keep hoping that the one out of 10 I get a response from will be "that reply"...


Well...one way of helping that along is to post here a bit more often.

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Tue 09/02/08 11:47 PM


I agree with you and the people that have replied to this question have given some good advise. I keep hoping that the one out of 10 I get a response from will be "that reply"...


Well...one way of helping that along is to post here a bit more often.


i think we should have a sponsor program. like i tell you about some girl i think is hot and then you e-mail her to vouch for me then she e-mails me and we can all live happily ever after lol

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 09/02/08 11:48 PM



I agree with you and the people that have replied to this question have given some good advise. I keep hoping that the one out of 10 I get a response from will be "that reply"...


Well...one way of helping that along is to post here a bit more often.


i think we should have a sponsor program. like i tell you about some girl i think is hot and then you e-mail her to vouch for me then she e-mails me and we can all live happily ever after lol


LOL.. I would NEVER find anyone to sponsor ME though.....lmao

Besides....the women here don't want " games " and that 5th Grade stuff....lol

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Tue 09/02/08 11:54 PM




I agree with you and the people that have replied to this question have given some good advise. I keep hoping that the one out of 10 I get a response from will be "that reply"...


Well...one way of helping that along is to post here a bit more often.


i think we should have a sponsor program. like i tell you about some girl i think is hot and then you e-mail her to vouch for me then she e-mails me and we can all live happily ever after lol


LOL.. I would NEVER find anyone to sponsor ME though.....lmao

Besides....the women here don't want " games " and that 5th Grade stuff....lol



thats not true Nick Cannon Asked out Mariah Carey out with a note he passed to her.

cosmotopper69's photo
Wed 09/03/08 12:22 AM
Edited by cosmotopper69 on Wed 09/03/08 12:27 AM

I CAN'T BE ALONE IN THIS!

Any of you guys hate writing e-mails to people on this site knowing 9 of 10 wont be replied to?

Me personally i write e-mails all day to different companies seeing if they want to buy what im selling. 8 of 10 never get back to me.... Seriously annoying

as for this site... if you write a long email and dont get a reply its annoying cuz you spent time trying to be clever only to find your anything but lol

so you switch to short e-mails and that dosent work, they think your boring lol

ahhhhh the pitfalls i tell ya!








Charls, if your getting 10% that is great!!!


I'm lucky if I get 1 in 100,but then again if you think you can do better then you best Nut's Up and Start with your Face to face...

You can do NO WORSE through Direct Aproach and you will get much further in person than you ever will on the internet...

This is where you Mind can shine, this is where you are seen for your intellect and how you respond to conflict...

If you are a Writer, THEN WRITE and be discovered for who and what YOU ARE, not your age, or Looks...

Good Luck, my Friend...

Wonderbread's photo
Wed 09/03/08 12:29 AM
Writing Eulogies sucks even more.
Especially when you don't know the person.

cosmotopper69's photo
Wed 09/03/08 12:55 AM

Writing Eulogies sucks even more.
Especially when you don't know the person.






Then STOP writing Eulogies, & try to remember that Curiosity Got The Gal...


Keep is SHORT, ( Hi ),( Hello ),( How are you ? ) give nothing, untill you GET SOMETHING...


As long as they wonder, they will pursue you, but if you give them everything, they have NO FURTHER Intrest in YOU...

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 09/03/08 07:58 AM


I CAN BE ALONE IN THIS!

Any of you guys hate writing e-mails to people on this site knowing 9 of 10 wont be replied to?

Me personally i write e-mails all day to different companies seeing if they want to buy what im selling. 8 of 10 never get back to me.... Seriously annoying

as for this site... if you write a long email and dont get a reply its annoying cuz you spent time trying to be clever only to find your anything but lol

so you switch to short e-mails and that dosent work, they think your boring lol

ahhhhh the pitfalls i tell ya!


Well...I have actually had pretty good luck in emailing women here.

Mainly because I actually read their profile...and just start off by saying something about what they put there.

I never say the words " I am interested " in my first emails.

One of the best friends I made here ( who has since deactivated because of real life problems ) said something about Seinfeld in her profile and said she was looking for someone who could talk about nothing. I just emailed her and said I could do that with the best of them, and we wound up be really good friends.



Ya know it is funny if more went along this line most likely they would get their e-mails answered. For even in e-mails others want to know your sincere in what you say and not the same one or two lines that seem to be standard with most.

Reading ones profile and really remembering something they said in it will catch their attention faster then:

Hey how are ya want to chat?

Those get old to standard make and effort if you expect a response. JMObigsmile

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Wed 09/03/08 08:31 AM


Don't ever write long emails, they seem canned and people usually talk too much about themselves in them and it leaves no room for questions.... ask questions about the lady, and if she is interested she will in return ask about you.... If she's not, she will either ignore you, or give short one or two word answeres...then you haven't wasted time and energy on someone who is not interested...

I was posting in a thread one day about astrology and a man asked me about it (it's one of my passions in life) we still talk to this day...That was 4 months ago, because of distance only I haven't married him.....



ask what kind of questions?

and really distance is the reason you havent married him? i can give you the number to a local Uhaul.


Questions about themselves. Questions about their profile. Questions about their interests. There are so many things people could ask about.

s1owhand's photo
Wed 09/03/08 08:33 AM
i don't write emails to them if they aren't going to reply!
if they won't reply i just don't write them in the first place!

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 09/03/08 08:56 AM

i don't write emails to them if they aren't going to reply!
if they won't reply i just don't write them in the first place!



Shshshsh and your not looking either remember shshss turn over now and kiss the wifey good morningsmooched :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Lily0923's photo
Wed 09/03/08 09:33 AM




I agree with you and the people that have replied to this question have given some good advise. I keep hoping that the one out of 10 I get a response from will be "that reply"...


Well...one way of helping that along is to post here a bit more often.


i think we should have a sponsor program. like i tell you about some girl i think is hot and then you e-mail her to vouch for me then she e-mails me and we can all live happily ever after lol


LOL.. I would NEVER find anyone to sponsor ME though.....lmao

Besides....the women here don't want " games " and that 5th Grade stuff....lol


I'll sponsor you, you're a sweetheart...

and do you think we don't "compare" notes on the guys? There's a whole underground you have no idea about...oops

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Wed 09/03/08 10:30 AM


Writing Eulogies sucks even more.
Especially when you don't know the person.






Then STOP writing Eulogies, & try to remember that Curiosity Got The Gal...


Keep is SHORT, ( Hi ),( Hello ),( How are you ? ) give nothing, untill you GET SOMETHING...


As long as they wonder, they will pursue you, but if you give them everything, they have NO FURTHER Intrest in YOU...


You don't have to write long emails, but put a little more thought into it other than "hi" or "how are you?"

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Wed 09/03/08 11:49 AM

I CAN'T BE ALONE IN THIS!

Any of you guys hate writing e-mails to people on this site knowing 9 of 10 wont be replied to?

Me personally i write e-mails all day to different companies seeing if they want to buy what im selling. 8 of 10 never get back to me.... Seriously annoying

as for this site... if you write a long email and dont get a reply its annoying cuz you spent time trying to be clever only to find your anything but lol

so you switch to short e-mails and that dosent work, they think your boring lol

ahhhhh the pitfalls i tell ya!


I learned my lesson after about my first month here -- and I NEVER send a first e-mail anymore. No point.

After I had been here awhile, I started getting lots of e-mails, and that continues to this day. People see something I wrote in the forums, or something I wrote in my profile, and they just naturally either have to congratulate me for being brilliant and saying all the things that no one else will say, or tell me what a complete idiot I am. Works for me either way.

But I will never send out a first e-mail again.


Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:51 AM
is what it is,

usernamefayou's photo
Wed 09/03/08 12:44 PM
Internet dating is useless, much like a rat in a tampon factory. That's my wisdom of the day.

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