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I thought this was funny and felt I have to share with someone.

Okay I'm a single male never married and mingling. So I'm searching for a special lady and did a search on this site.

Now this is the point of my email. You can also do this yourself.

I did a search for ladies 30 to 44, to keep my options open ...right. And was pleased to find 25 pages ... even someone like myself could / maybe / might find someone. But then I noticed everyone was with child or separated etc. Smart me decided to do a search no children ... and was SHOCKED to see only 7 people... I hope you are laughing toooo, because I almost fell off my chair.. 7 ...seven....ladies...are you kidding me. ... lol ...anyway I'm embarrassed.

Women, Want kids, Don't have kids....wow


have a good day



Sorry...but I had to do it again ...wow

added note: results were based on a 100mile postalcode/zip code

Maybe I missed your point or something like that, but I didn't catch the humor. Most women (and men) in the age range you are looking at are going to have a child/children, because they've already done the marriage thing and had a family but are now divorced. It's pretty normal to me.

nothin but a bunch of old farts with kids here...

i agree

Hmmm a 40 year old man who wants a woman in his age range that doesn't have/want children.... Good luck to ya...

Who you calling an old fart?

callin myself one,not you, you are young and cute

I had 5 kids by the time I was 28. All of my friends were having kids at the same time. It just sounds normal to me.

Thank you sweety And you're not bad looking yourself!

And you are only 3 years ahead of me, so I guess I don't have to much farther to go til I'm in your league.

Humm yeah I would think that is pretty normally for most in that age range already have kids. But.. now look a little higher and you will find the ones their kids are grown and moved out humm at least they are not living at home if your looking for one that has no kids at home

your way outa my league,way to hot

Awww thank you You just made my night!

Why are you embarrassed?

I agree that it seems common sense that a good percentage will have kids. We don't have cooties, just kids!!!

sweet dreams

I'm almost 30 with no kids. Most of my friends are the same. There are a few who are just starting now to have kids.

I'm 46 now and have 3 grandkids already.

I think we missed the point. My post and comment were NOT to scorn the facts ... but to highlight a point and yes I understand society and the majority of being middle aged (young) to be "pretty normal", however I might not have been clear or explained enough.

Sure a lot of what was commented or replied to my post is understandable and a fact, I did not post to suggest anyone has to defend the facts or what is common, or even suggest "cooties" as was claimed by someone. I do Love you all !!!!

Look "hooray" for anyone that is blessed, anyone that has the gift of children. Do I need to say how lucky you are... Yes you are.

The repeated mentions of at our young ages of 40ish ... everyone and the world has started; married, children, grandchildren, or ended marriage (separated/divorced) is understandable and a reality.

I hope I don't have to justify or defend what I hope to find here on this site.

The Point was;
We are all here on the site (Dating Sites) for the same reasons - we are all looking for someone .... who we are looking for and traits depends on the person.

My main point or question was about my looking for that someone; What does an ugly middle age man have to do to find-(key word here) a simple genuine woman in a big city ???.

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Sorry, but I think we have now made this post into a JOKE ... and we lost a sincere point and question.

we have clowns making jokes about movies ... I and truly don't want to waste my time entertaining someone that does not have anything really to add but prefer or feel the need to add a joke because may not have anything constructive to add.


I Believe this post should be closed.

Don't sweat it bro...my lil sis didn't have her first spawn till she was 36.

I still haven't had one. (I am a guy so don't hit on me)

I see it from a different perspective...when I went to my 20th High school reunion and was surrounded by a crap load of people with thier 2.5 f%ck trophies running around like a bunch of Hellion Banshees...I made the comment..."Glad none of this brood is coming home with me"....

Everyone in earshot was telling me..."You are soooo lucky", "God, I wish I was you", "Can I come home with you tonight?"

I love kids. do not misunderstand me...I just prefer to hand them back to thier sperm/egg donors when I am done playing with them.

I'm surprised you found that "many," actually.

Finding a childfree woman 30-44 on a dating site is a little bit like finding a big screen TV in the Jurassic. Pretty much doesn't happen.

You want to see some REALLY low numbers? Try and find someone who doesn't drink!

Then you'll see what I'm up against!

seriously?????
I thought the 40 year old virgin, was a movie???