What does a man have to do or say to show you that hes not the typical man? I mean im a very intelligent person who gets along with every1 and barely ever doesn't know what to say in a situation but even i have trouble staying in relationships cause who ever im with cheats on me and gives me the same excuses..."its not like you'v never done it" (which i haven't by the way not 1nc ever) or " look your just to good to be true so i cheated on you before you had a chance to do it to me". How do i break this cycle how do i keep myself interested in finding love when the more i look all i find is pain?

upgrade the women you date

You show a person who you are by actions and deeds. It is important to learn the history of those you date, as there is the cheater creedo... But be careful you are not passive or staid in your relationships. That can be dangerous.

cheater credo......is that written by joey grecco?

"Once a cheater always a cheater". While this is NOT exactly true, you can replace it with either of the two following Dr. Philisms:
1. You teach people how to treat you.
2. The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior.

just chain them up, give them a demonic look and say ,"you aint goin to cheat on me,im making sure of that"!

i always believe that "people treat you how you allow them"

same thing i guess

as previously stated: people treat us as we allow them to.

tru but now i dont even think i still believe in love the way i used to because f this that is my problem.

If you think love no longer exists then you will never find it.

Attitude... attitude. Those 12 steppers have it right, Fake it til you make it. One day at a time....

Maybe if you are a better person than the one you're with, it puts too much pressure on them to live that life ?

You got to get past past relationships first,Beleive there is true love for you.And don't settle for less.And bye all means don't ever give up!!
J/M/O.
Good luck to you!!!!!!!!