Topic: Ok. So I gotta ask....
msmyka's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:53 PM
flowerforyou

maryelizabeth10's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:54 PM
ill be honest i dont know.

i assume sex because most guys thats what they want from a woman but i know theres some decent guys who want more but what they want hell if i know

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:54 PM
I guess my next question would be....

If a dude tells you that he really DOES want something other than boobs n beer....

Do you REALLY believe us??? lol

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:55 PM

ill be honest i dont know.

i assume sex because most guys thats what they want from a woman but i know theres some decent guys who want more but what they want hell if i know


If you really want to know.....just read Myka's and Trouble's posts.

I couldn't explain it any better then they did. :-)

msmyka's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:55 PM

I guess my next question would be....

If a dude tells you that he really DOES want something other than boobs n beer....

Do you REALLY believe us??? lol


Hell no rofl You gotta proove it flowers

maryelizabeth10's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:55 PM

I guess my next question would be....

If a dude tells you that he really DOES want something other than boobs n beer....

Do you REALLY believe us??? lol



honestly no unless he proves it

bikerbarbie05's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:55 PM
Hello Fellas...Speaking on behalf of women everywhere...but especially for myself, I think men want what everyone wants. We all want to be loved unconditionally. We want to be respected, honored, appreciated, and comforted. In other words, we all want to know that, without a doubt, there's someone in our corner that will have our back, even when (or possibly especially when) we're wrong. We want someone who really knows who we are, with all our strengths and needs, in our humanity and with all the flaws that comes with it, and still loves us anyway. Men and women aren't that different in what we want.
Our differences are evidenced in the ways in which we go about getting what we want. But that, guys, is another post. :)

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:56 PM


I guess my next question would be....

If a dude tells you that he really DOES want something other than boobs n beer....

Do you REALLY believe us??? lol


Hell no rofl You gotta proove it flowers


Yeah..I kinda figured....lmao

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:57 PM

Hello Fellas...Speaking on behalf of women everywhere...but especially for myself, I think men want what everyone wants. We all want to be loved unconditionally. We want to be respected, honored, appreciated, and comforted. In other words, we all want to know that, without a doubt, there's someone in our corner that will have our back, even when (or possibly especially when) we're wrong. We want someone who really knows who we are, with all our strengths and needs, in our humanity and with all the flaws that comes with it, and still loves us anyway. Men and women aren't that different in what we want.
Our differences are evidenced in the ways in which we go about getting what we want. But that, guys, is another post. :)


Mary...add this post to the two mentioned above. flowerforyou

Troublemaker7's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:57 PM

I guess my next question would be....

If a dude tells you that he really DOES want something other than boobs n beer....

Do you REALLY believe us??? lol


Words are cheap!!! Too many people say that just because they know they should.

msmyka's photo
Thu 08/28/08 09:59 PM



I guess my next question would be....

If a dude tells you that he really DOES want something other than boobs n beer....

Do you REALLY believe us??? lol


Hell no rofl You gotta proove it flowers


Yeah..I kinda figured....lmao


That would be like a woman telling you shes completely sane and asking you to believe it :laughing:

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/28/08 10:03 PM
The only problem I can see with that is this...

It would seem that women ( NOT ALL...before you all start throwing stuff at me..lol ) have heard men say that stuff so many times, that it's very difficult going for any man who actually MEANS it.

Whether they want to admit it or not, a lot of women have been jaded by past experiences.

Lots of them say " I have let go of my past "...but it's not really true.

Because of all the sh*theads out there, a decent guy has to fight and claw so hard that it sometimes seems like an excersize in futility.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/28/08 10:04 PM




I guess my next question would be....

If a dude tells you that he really DOES want something other than boobs n beer....

Do you REALLY believe us??? lol


Hell no rofl You gotta proove it flowers


Yeah..I kinda figured....lmao


That would be like a woman telling you shes completely sane and asking you to believe it :laughing:


Good point. After my last ex....it'll take quite a while for ANY woman to prove that one to me....rofl

mscherbear's photo
Thu 08/28/08 10:05 PM

I guess my next question would be....

If a dude tells you that he really DOES want something other than boobs n beer....

Do you REALLY believe us??? lol


Actions speak louder than words flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/28/08 10:07 PM


I guess my next question would be....

If a dude tells you that he really DOES want something other than boobs n beer....

Do you REALLY believe us??? lol


Actions speak louder than words flowerforyou


Anything specific??

Since so many of you have said " prove it "???

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 08/28/08 10:12 PM

I guess my next question would be....

If a dude tells you that he really DOES want something other than boobs n beer....

Do you REALLY believe us??? lol


I guess I have a hard time with this question. My ex would tell me what he wanted and I would do it for him. But, then he would something else. And, this went on and on. He was one of those people who was never happy with what he had. After 10 years of that I just don't know what is true anymore. I'm tired and not making sense anymore. laugh

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/28/08 10:13 PM


I guess my next question would be....

If a dude tells you that he really DOES want something other than boobs n beer....

Do you REALLY believe us??? lol


I guess I have a hard time with this question. My ex would tell me what he wanted and I would do it for him. But, then he would something else. And, this went on and on. He was one of those people who was never happy with what he had. After 10 years of that I just don't know what is true anymore. I'm tired and not making sense anymore. laugh


That actually makes perfect sense.

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 08/28/08 10:16 PM
I wish people would just come right out and say what they want. I think the truth is though, that most people don't really know what they want.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/28/08 10:19 PM

I wish people would just come right out and say what they want. I think the truth is though, that most people don't really know what they want.


Well... I know exactly what I want. 38 years wrth of crap have shown me the path...lol

DestinysDream's photo
Thu 08/28/08 10:21 PM

I think really what a man wants is very similar to what a woman wants... maybe in a different order or at a different pace. But really, they want someone who makes their life seem better.

How? At first, you want someone to laugh with and talk to, just to feel the "connection." Then you really look for things that make it really click. The person "gets" you, you share deeper feelings, have common ideas, and feel like they contribute something positive to your life. Sex is always a part of it for everyone of course! :) And in that regard men look for someone who is compatible with their pace, likes, dislikes, etc.

Really, everyone regardless of gender, wants someone who lights up their world and sets them on fire. Men can fall just as hard as women, and I have known plenty the male romantic. flowerforyou


drinker yes she knows, great post! drinker