Why does he have
to be such a jerk?
Why can’t he admit
that he was wrong?
Why does he blame
me for our daughters
problems?
Why does he think
that him not being
there when she was
growing up wouldn’t
effect her?
Why did he think
that gambling, playing
volleyball and spending
time with his ex-fiancée
wouldn’t hurt her?
He was wrong, it
hurt her really bad.
Why didn’t he think
that him yelling at
me in front of
her was wrong.?
Why is it that
he still blames me
for everything?
Why can’t he be
a man and admit
that he wasn’t a
good father?
Why is it my
fault that he drove
us away?
Is it my fault
that he mentally,
verbally and emotionally
abused me for 15 yrs?
He can’t see that
he did anything wrong.
He can’t see that he
was treating her the
same way he treated me.
Why is he so blind?
Why does he continue
to blame me for everything?

I don't know why HwG. Just know that we are here for you in this.Want me
to kick him in the bahookie for you??

that would be awesome dane

Okay, I'm going to need a few things Description,no wait I'll just look
for the biggest a*s on the block,Location, and phone# just to make sure
he's there when I get there.

(((Wego))))
Sometimes Thier are no answers,,, Just
Remember you are an Incredible Women and
an Amazing Mother,,, Smile Sweetie you are
a Phonemenal Women....

Hi Here,
you are not the problem, but he let you think you are. Stop it. I know
the brain washing he did, but if he is doing this each time more, you
permited it. Stop him right now, and try to find someone that will see
what wonderful person you are.

Nowadays still have gentlemen, I can tell you. Look around.

Hope you find someone that will treat you with respect and love and can
tell you some poem such as:

Everything I ever needed
by Lew Duffey
I never knew how sad life was before you enter in.
I never knew how my heart yearned for a true love to begin.
Then one bright day I met you, dear and my Heart grew that day.
Because I knew I had found true love... a love that came to stay.

I love you, yes I love you. I love you more each day.
I want you and I need you and I will never cast your love away.
I love you, yes I love you.
You are everything I needed all my life.
I’m so happy you have come to me and have become my wife.

When I was young I thought that I needed no one else but me.
But once my eyes beheld you dear I realized what I could be.
My heart looked into a lifetime with someone like you who cared.
And now that I look back on life I am oh so glad I dared.

I love you, yes I love you. I love you more each day.
I want you and I need you and I will never cast your love away.
I love you, yes I love you. .
You have stayed through joy and strife.
Now I need to tell you Dear, I’m so happy you’re my wife

Now I look back upon my life. It was a roller coaster ride.
It was exciting and sometimes scary but through it all you were by my
side.
I now have memories of our love which I hope I never lose.
The best of all is the fact that those memories were all because of you.

I love you, yes I love you. I love you more each day.
I want you and I need you and I will never cast your love away.
I love you, yes I love you. I’m so happy you’re my wife.
You are everything I ever needed to help fulfill my life.

Although the world insists on telling you different believe me
glentlemen still exist.....

Take care and be happy.

Wego ... they say that what doesn't BREAK us, makes us STRONGER, and
my goodness you can HEAR the strength in you ... :)

Hang in there my friend , and glad to be able to call you one ... :)

TTO

We can ask why till we are blue in the face and never get the right
answer we are looking for. Why cause they don't even know why they chose
to hurt the ones that they love. They don't know how to realize it is
them to blame instead of everyone else and don't try to understand. Girl
your stronger now don't let him get too you you are away from him break
the ties and leave him in the past were he belongs.

Herewego. What is his side of the story from him; or what do U think his
side of the story is aside from blaming you for everything? Blaming U
and saying what, comparable in quantity to what u blame him 4? Sometimes
a story has two sides and sometimes three. Two wrong side and a right.
Yet U are hurting immensely. Whatever his story is, u are hurting; I
wish U hurt could go soon. I wonder if he is hurting too? If the person
in the poetry is already separated and final, to hell with what he says
about U. Move on and blank that out from U mind. Do not let that weight
impede your happiness or approach to it!

grieving.. we've been divorced for over 6 yrs, but he still tries to
ruin my life.

thank you everyone for your kind words and words of encouragement. i'm
trying to do my best and move on, but it isn't always easy.

my offer still stands. I'll give him a mega wedgie for you.
They'll have to use stitches!

dane.. i'll let you know.. thanks for being you.. you are a great guy

Thank you Wego, you're a really good person
too.

Ok sis the cauldron and I are on our way to where he is, I'll stop and
get Dane on the way for his mega wedgie.

Wego. There are question we ask sometimes that just do not have answers.
Just remember that you have a LOT of great friends here to help you and
support you when you need it the most. And if worse comes to worse I
live in a six story apartment building and I am on the top floor I can
hang him upside down by his toe nails out side my window for
yea.((((Wego))))

(Poet & Whisper)

you are wonderful friends

Wego,when feeling down,remind yourself
that your the better person.He will know when your daughter dont want to
spend time with him.Would love to be side by side with Dane there.Only
problem is vengeance only makes things worse.

wego--i'm with Dane on that idea of his--i'll come around to help Dane
kick some azz