No worries, sh*t I'm the queen of being off topic... Look did it again...

I am good, so do I get a spanking for being off topic

Yes, come hither....

sweeeeeeeeet

well if people dont like u for being blunt and honest like then they arent worth much.... and if they have to argue who you are i guess its cause they dont have much going on in their life... everyone is different and even people are different at different times in their life so if they dont like it or have to ridicule its cause they may be jealous... or dont know how to be normal lmao!!! cause no one is perfect and what the hell is that anyway? be who u wanna be when you wanna be... and dont let no one cut u for that!!!!

These are really good friends, they weren't argueing they were "helping" I just laughed and when I got in my last jab, that ended the "help session" They are really good people... the guy has helped me move, the woman has babysat for me... like the kind of friends you can tell "shut the f up" in one breath and "i love you man" in the next... Their intent was not malitious in any way...

Actually I share your pain Lils...People are always telling me change this change that don't feel this don't think that......




It amazes me sometimes how I made it thru life for 44 years in my hopeless "brokenness" state.....


Can I borrow your spork or someone just shoot me please.....

ummmmmmmmmmm....WTF????

Confused E????

yes...where are all the posts???

Umm..I saw 3 pages of them.

Did some disappear??

yup...at least a page

I guess that's what I get for not getting home till 11pm....lmao

I miss all the good stuff.

*sigh*

Yes, you say. I DO know what my problem is .. all the well-intentioned friends who have not a clue as to how content I am with my OWN life ..




((( Lily )))

Hi. My name is Goof...and I am a Nympho!

"The Wealth Of Being Single"


It's been noted that though time heals all wounds, love creates many of those wounds in the first place. Some of us handle love like that better than others. There are three distinct kinds of single people:

-Single not by choice, but rather by lack of social function, lack of interaction, isolationism, and a complete lack of interpersonal skills. In some ways, this can be argued that it IS their choice. Those people that argue that are called....

-Single by choice. They "don't want to be tied down", they're "keeping their options open", they "don't want to rush into anything", they "want to enjoy the freedom of individual choice", and they "decide who, when, where, why, and how, all on their own". Many of us fall into this (rather broad) category of being single.

-Single, and will never go back to a committed relationship again. AKA, the "militant single". Firmly believes that there's no one out there for him/her, or believes they don't NEED anybody else. Being part of a committed relationship isn't necessary to prove they belong in society, in their minds.

While there's certain flexibility among all three groups, they all share many characteristics. Chief among them is the finite ability to achieve a molded, patterned, day-to-day operations of functioning. There is no wrong or right label easily applied to any one single (pardon the pun) human being. Committed relationships are the bastion of those ready and able and wanting to release to a situation like that. Single relationships (somewhat of an oxymoron) are often times more complex in their basic structure.

The world is changing and has been for decades now. The socially accepted standard of husband and wife from the 20's, 30's, 40's, 50's, has changed to a more socially aware experimentation of the 60's,70's, and 80's. In recent decades, the divorce rate being nearly 50% has helped blur the lines between socially accepted dating, and primordial single living. This trend looks to continue for the foreseeable future.

While no longer the "black mark" it once was, being single after - say, age 30 - still has it's detractors. For someone to dress it up as saying "I'm concerned about you.", does a great disservice to those of us who are single, and content to be single for right now. Well-intentioned though it may be, over time the best course of reason eventually cannot stand in the way from one simple fact for those that are lucky/blessed to NOT be single this "late" in life: Us single people never have to share the remote control.

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Lily my love, you know how i feel about you and youre right youre NOT broken....

Much love hun...i heart ya !!!