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Topic: Speaking of the truth........
Ruth34611's photo
Sat 08/23/08 02:59 PM
I have noticed that some people will use "just being honest" as an excuse to say very hurtful things to other people. I have noticed it a lot here.

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Sat 08/23/08 03:00 PM
Honestly, yes.

merlin2525's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:00 PM
I think you're HOTTflowerforyou

"Just being honest"

mixie629's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:02 PM
I have (had) a friend who totally SHREDDED me in the name of honesty. I mean, she called me every name in the book and said it was because I needed to hear it.


She kept going until I blocked her. Weird.

Jill298's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:03 PM
well maybe they're just honestly hurtful people

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:03 PM
flowerforyou I am living in denial.flowerforyou


Peccy's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:03 PM
And I care because......you just bein honest?

Jess642's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:03 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Sat 08/23/08 03:05 PM
Hmmmm........so what, play 'nice'????


Yuk!


There is a way to speak one's truth without INTENTIONALLY causing harm...

What the receiver does with it, is none of my business... I am not the keeper/protector of other's fragile egos...

bigsmile

BobbyJ's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:03 PM
Just being honest, that is true.

itry's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:04 PM
Honestly how they feel...not necessarily stating the truth:wink:

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Sat 08/23/08 03:05 PM

flowerforyou I am living in denial.flowerforyou




you are a furry monkey- honestly

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Sat 08/23/08 03:05 PM

I think you're HOTTflowerforyou

"Just being honest"


I like that kind of honesty:smile:

Peccy's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:06 PM

Hmmmm........so what, play 'nice'????


Yuk!


There is a way to speak one's truth without INTENTIONALLY causing harm...

What the reciever does with it, is none of my business... I am not the keeper/protector of other's fragile egos...

bigsmile
No that is MY job.............or it was until the budget cuts........grumble

Jess642's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:07 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Sat 08/23/08 03:08 PM
laugh laugh laugh


To be brutally honest, Peccy....?


You be the keeper of fragile egos??? Willingly?


Foool!!!


Did you have to do a PHD in juggling, to get the job?


Bwah hahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!devil devil

:wink: laugh


Lakeman's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:09 PM

Hmmmm........so what, play 'nice'????


Yuk!


There is a way to speak one's truth without INTENTIONALLY causing harm...

What the receiver does with it, is none of my business... I am not the keeper/protector of other's fragile egos...

bigsmile

JESSS!! Nice to see ya again!!!
Just being HONEST!!!

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:09 PM

Hmmmm........so what, play 'nice'????


Yuk!


There is a way to speak one's truth without INTENTIONALLY causing harm...

What the receiver does with it, is none of my business... I am not the keeper/protector of other's fragile egos...

bigsmile


I rest my case.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:10 PM

I think you're HOTTflowerforyou

"Just being honest"


Honestly, you know I think you're pretty damn hot yourself. flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

feistybaby's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:10 PM
People being honest about how they feel often rub people the wrong way. Especially if it flies in the face of something they are looking for justification or validation for. I have seen some be intentionally hurtful. I have seen many be catty and think they are sly and getting away with something. But most are just stating thier own opinions. And mean no harm at all. And this is of course my own version of being honest.....:wink:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:10 PM


flowerforyou I am living in denial.flowerforyou




you are a furry monkey- honestly
bigsmile And I am always right.bigsmile Except when I'm left, or bluffing.bigsmile


Tanzkity's photo
Sat 08/23/08 03:12 PM
Its people who have no class and they are miserable in real life and they get off on making others feel small to boost up their self-esteem...............its a sleazy way to deal with reality..........

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