Jim-bo...we may not always see eye to eye..but you've got guts to post this personal situation on here...especially in light of the judgmental vultures that are already pecking at the carcass...

I say unless youre living it, keep your opinions to yourself (I dont recall Jim asking for "advice") and reserve your judgments..and to you Jim...hey..maybe in the long run you can write a book, get a movie deal (sounds like a great chick flick in the making) and everyone can live happily ever after.

You know what you God does not want us to judge. Go read your bible. The only one that can judge is God. You are treading on thin ice with the big guy so look up your info before opening your a$$ in the future.

Pi$$ in a cup:) advanced DNA

Thanks, and yes I agree. This is a very sensitive topic with me, especially in regards to child. Even if she is almost 18. I have to consider my daughter who is me at the age of 8, this will effect many. Not just a 17 y/o inquiring.

You as well know that I truly dont care about negative people who want to judge. I will still sleep at night and yet will voice my opinion as well. Those people that want to judge me on someting like this have no clue at all. Their life is minimal and requires drama....

I am thinking I should write a book!

I am judging no one the bible says JUDGE ALL THINGS THAT'S it, I judge not people, just common sense solutions. I BET YOU DONT HAVE THE BALLS TO SEE ME IN PERSON AND THREATEN ME ABOUT the Big Guy! WHO IS THAT? maybe it is the one who brings on the Lightening! You watch that and I will watch the THIN ice you are judging jims X and now me just a man talking **** against women...Jim if u read this, I am not judging you Focus on the kid and it will be all good 4 her:)

Jim we are all here for you no matter what support you need. Think positive and all will work itself out. Just remember what I said in my email. Good luck.

I will...and thank you

This is going to be my last response to you. I was part of the church and all I saw was hypocrits. I have been judged since leaving and I see by their actions who their real God is. As far as you I have no problems seeing you eye to eye and letting you know how I disagree with your views. However I do agree with you about focusing on the kids.

Nuff Said

I see I am not judging you I hope that the child whether she is really yours or not doesnt bear the burden of all the legal wrangling that paternity disputes etc surely bring my point is, that you and her mom can choose to be discrete and have the tests done and the child does not need to be involved at all. YOU DO NOT NEED A LAWYER! The shame I spoke of earlier was about the child, not you or her mom. That she was told to EMAIL her dad hit me like Stevie Ray said "that's a cold shot babe"

Not shame on his part, especially since he didn't
know anything about the child.

That is all I wanted to say this is about a kid who is at a very vulnerable stage and she was brave enough 2 email a stranger to her in an attempt to find her dad even if she was told wrong she is blameless in God's eyes The shame I wrote about is that she was told to email her dad! That should not be! There are scores of people on this planet that are Not Hypocrites! SOME ARE SPIRITS OF FIRE, THE DOERS OF GODS WORD

Sorry buddy, but God doesn't talk through you. That's you're own concept of right and wrong making judgement calls. Get off you're high horse.

watching a little too much daytime TV talk shows, dont ya think???

Test first, then start with hello

Shocking......

but you know what causes them, right???

Congratulations

wow, someone wasn't breast fed enough when they were younger

PLEASE, do me a favor and her,,,,TRY TO LPVE HER,,,even if its just a search and wrong person,,ok
My step-daughter tried to reach her real dad at 13 and was told HE had another family now and she wasn't part of it, by his THEN wife..she attempted suicide....many years of therapy later,she took him to court for back child support and he took a shotgun to his head,,,,just to miss THAT up and LIVE for another 38 hours and have his wife then blame HER for him doing this..

Give her LOVE and TIME to hear her heart and for you BOTH to know each other, it will all be fine and YOUR a LUCKY MAN!
Congratulations...DAd....Goodluck.

Or they still have the nipple in the mouth....oops did I say that outloud?

Well, as long as it is GOD telling you to make the judgements than that is okay.

I concur