Not sure if this is urban legend or actually happened.

I heard about a couple who were divorcing because they'd both met someone else on-line and were carrying on cyber romances. The funny part was that they'd fallen for each other.

I did meet a man for a drink one day. He had not posted a picture. He did send one when I requested it. We went out but I ended the evening quickly. I felt he was evasive and I had the nagging feeling I'd sen him somewhere before. My suspicions were confirmed when I met he and his wife less than a week later at a church sponsored event in a neighboring town.

I change my picture based on my mood. I have pictures that really are me on my profile.

Lynann: For a small fee, I can shoot the P***k.

Thanks for the offer Sir! I would have thanked you by mail but your inbox is blocked.

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The sweat on his palm when we were introduced made me feel sure he was scared as hell.

I told his wife, with him standing between us, he looked very familiar and that the minute I remembered from where I would be sure to tell her.

I hope he has a couple sleepless nights.

Blocked?? Oh crap !! I honestly didn't know that. What the f*** did I do? No wonder, that answered some ?s. I am sooo sorry. Thank You !! Where do I send your flowers?

To me....I love flowers and haven't had any in some time.

Lynann why didn't you just go ahead and say you had seen him in a coffee shop?

We are all here paying lip service to being honest about who and what we are. Where do we/you draw the line?

Because his intent in contacting me (we'd been exchanging e-mails for some time) was clearly to embark on an extramarital affair. He deserved to squirm and worry a little bit.

There are people with open relationships and I have no issues with that. I do have issues with someone who was clearly attempting to deceive me and his wife.

It's not my job to call him to account or intrude into his marriage or cover his ass however if those few uncomfortable moments made him reexamine his behavior it's all good.

Mafomagic your mail is filtered by the age of the sender if I recall correctly.

Flowers would be lovely but a cold beer and a chat might be better haha

It makes me wonder if there is a profile with no pic. Are they really unattractive? If so, there is always someone out there for everyone. Do they not have the ability to post a pic? They should find one if they are really serious. Are they married? That would be my number one choice! It's really hard to trust even the ones with pictures. Wouldn't it be funny if both parties with no pictures were married to each other in the real world and "hooked up" online? I would say justice would be served!!

It's hard to say. They may be married men because they may not have pictures of themselves only. Most of the pics they possess are with family members. I'm married and it is hard for me to post a picture of myself. At the same time, it is an easy fix if you own a cell phone.

But, you have to ask yourself, didn't I sign up for this to explore, for whatever a person's needs are. To many inhibitions and thoughts interfere often when it comes to inter-relationships. Let's find out what's out there first, and see what we can find out. Whether a person has a pic posted or not is irrelevant. We can come up with so many theories, but we would really not know the person until we communicated.

The Analyst