Topic: Toxic.......................
Tanzkity's photo
Wed 08/20/08 08:14 PM
have you been in a toxic relationship or friendship............and what made it toxic?

Cinderella75's photo
Wed 08/20/08 08:16 PM
Well a mental abusive one ..my first bf was a total D!ck!! Thank God I realized that one real quick, and literaly kicked him to the curb.
Left his a$$ and joined the military.

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 08/20/08 08:17 PM
The rat poison she swallowed....

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Wed 08/20/08 08:18 PM
my marriage

my ex husband made it toxic

JoLynn's photo
Wed 08/20/08 08:18 PM
yes...toxic marriage...and also had a toxic friendship. marriage was abusive, emotionally/verbally and physically on occasion. friendship was very draining...a friend that was taking lots of medication, threatening suicide all of the time, would end up missing...her family and I had to speak with police a number of times...once I even had to take her into my custody.

chickayoshi's photo
Wed 08/20/08 08:19 PM
When my first ex came to church drunk and my dad was teaching a class there.

No1sLove's photo
Wed 08/20/08 08:22 PM
I was in a toxic friendship once. I was her shoulder, her punching bag (not literally), her designated driver, her 3am contact to rant at when she was drunk, her drive across town whenever she needed anything, loan her my car to wreck, bail bondsman. Then the second week.... noway

awolf1010's photo
Wed 08/20/08 08:24 PM
I wish her well!!!!!

Tanzkity's photo
Wed 08/20/08 08:25 PM
I had a toxic marriage but I got rid of that..............but what really hurts is that I had to end a friendship of 20 years because i found out my friend was not my friend but my competitor...........she completely thought our friendship was based on competition and it really sucked when i admitted it to myself............

awolf1010's photo
Wed 08/20/08 08:26 PM

I had a toxic marriage but I got rid of that..............but what really hurts is that I had to end a friendship of 20 years because i found out my friend was not my friend but my competitor...........she completely thought our friendship was based on competition and it really sucked when i admitted it to myself............
actually sounds like you won....congrats!!!

Tanzkity's photo
Wed 08/20/08 08:29 PM
Edited by Tanzkity on Wed 08/20/08 08:31 PM


I had a toxic marriage but I got rid of that..............but what really hurts is that I had to end a friendship of 20 years because i found out my friend was not my friend but my competitor...........she completely thought our friendship was based on competition and it really sucked when i admitted it to myself............
actually sounds like you won....congrats!!!


I won I guess but I lost a sister that I thought I had...........its sad that the people we always think represent us and love us are the ones when given the opportunity they will stab in your back.........At least we all kicked the toxicity out the curb.............where they belong.......

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Wed 08/20/08 08:29 PM
Like with most toxic things, it will kill you

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Wed 08/20/08 09:35 PM
slaphead

YourLove1's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:40 PM
id have to say all my relationships were good or i would'nt have been in them in the first place

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Wed 08/20/08 09:41 PM
yes and I dont wish to elaborate!!! The past is the past and Ive learned from it...flowerforyou

domination's photo
Wed 08/20/08 10:30 PM
Too much Rumpleminz drinker Woooohooooooo smokin

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Thu 08/21/08 10:15 AM

Like with most toxic things, it will kill you


or make you stronger and wiser, if you survive it....

VladTheInhailer's photo
Thu 08/21/08 10:24 AM
thats the story of my life...its either really bad or some one goes away...kill or be killed any more...people dont know how to interact responsibly any more

Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 08/21/08 10:26 AM
Brittany spears is pretty Toxic,

laugh :wink:

Troublemaker7's photo
Thu 08/21/08 11:51 AM
I have been in a toxic relationship, and I didn't even realize it until it was over. I was constantly giving, she was constantly taking, and there was so much drama. Now that I've got the real thing I can hardly believe I put up with anything else.