i have a theory.

all the nice guys ive met have been nice for a few months then turned into an a**hole

so if your a nice guy and you stay a nice guy permentantly wohoo!

if you dont then your just one of the fake "nice" guys.

You have to watch out for guys wearing "the cloak."

You can still be a nice Guy without being a Door Mat.
First thing is to have a life, so the Woman wont be the main focu. The main thing is to be your own Man, and be able to stand on your own two feet. Have a direction in life that will attract the type of Woman you want to be with. Be able to cut the cord, and add a new woman within a few hours, if things start going sour. Learn what woman want, as far as how they want to be treated. The ones that dont appreciate it, Dont waste your time, move on.

has this question been asked this way? why when i go out, i see tons of gorgeous, seemingly amicable women but the guys they are with are total goobers. i mean just absolute goobers. why?

it's ok to be nice, but if there is no excitment. You'll be dropped in a heart beat.

This week....

Gee, you're the one who told the girl last night who was 4 months pregnant that it was her fault for having sex....

SO I'll assume you are asking for other guys and not yourself...Cuz baby, you ain't nice.

Seriously???

Geez... Why???

Okay everyone here is my plan. We tell all the nice guys that they've won a free cruise. We gather them all together and send them out on a three hour tour. We will not tell them the boat is the S.S. Minnow. You know the rest of the story

Please sink that dam boat would ya?

No it would be better if they were forever stranded on a deserted island. This way they could spend the rest of their lives listening to each other whine.

Okay, I will just think that eventually it will self destruct!

One ship, really? I could fill that up with people I know alone....

All too often we hear self-professed "Nice Guys" complaining about why they can't get a date, and whining that women just want to date jerks, etc. etc. The truth of the matter is that there are genuinely caring, compassionate, decent, fun guys out there who have NO TROUBLE meeting people, getting dates, and having relationships.

Unfortunately, many of the guys who DO have trouble, insist that women don't want them because they are "too Nice". These people who call themselves "Nice Guys" can't see that THEIR OWN behavior is the problem. That behavior either drives women away or attracts the WORST kind of predator - one who is manipulative and self-serving. Whether it is targeting women who are troubled to begin with, setting themselves up to be taken advantage of, or acting in a manipulative, patronizing or obsequious fashion, these guys sabotage themselves and often blame "all women" for their misfortunes.

And I'm f*cking tired of hearing them whine..... Shut the f*ck up and grow at least one ball would ya?

Hey nobody said they need to be comfortable. They can be stacked ten to a bed... It will help them get to know each other better for the time they are going to spend on the island

I didn't mince my words.... I meant I could fill up one whole ship....

It dont matter if you put them in dingy's. Get them the hell outta here...I am sick and tired of these whiny azz crybabies. Suck it up and be a man...

who says women don't like nice guys?? i like em...but all i seem to attract is jerks!

I like nice guys!! I just wish to find a nice guy that likes me!!

Noooooooooo! Please I can't take it again! Where's my rope?