Topic: Discouraged Already
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Tue 08/19/08 07:08 PM
I've just signed up in here today. I was feeling okay about it, but tonight I got rather discouraged. I received some mail on here, but most of it was in the perv realm. I'd really like to chat with someone on the IM here, only one other guy I chatted with didn't even want to know me, just wanted to meet me for sex. I'm hoping that there are some real people on here who like the same things I do, getting to know someone is key for me. Have things changed soooo much since I last dated?

sara89's photo
Tue 08/19/08 07:09 PM
dont im, use the forums. theres amaing people here. flowers

stardust50's photo
Tue 08/19/08 07:10 PM
Welcome to the world of dating. I just wish someone would email me even if it is just for sex.

I would love to have the option to just say NO.

Hang in there. There are many wonderful people here on this site you will find one.



boneyjoe's photo
Tue 08/19/08 07:12 PM
how long has it ben sence you dated

Crockett's photo
Tue 08/19/08 07:12 PM
Don't give up Plum......there are many good people here!happy

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Tue 08/19/08 07:13 PM
Edited by writer_gurl on Tue 08/19/08 07:14 PM
I got the same thing when I joined...if people want to talk sex and you don't block them or ignore them...Works for me
Hope ur stay here will be betterflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/19/08 07:14 PM
:smile: I'm not indecisive. :smile: Am I indecisive?:smile:

boneyjoe's photo
Tue 08/19/08 07:15 PM
goood luck,,,you gonna need it

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Tue 08/19/08 07:15 PM
I joined for the dating prospects but I have stayed for the friends and forums. Hope you enjoy it here. flowerforyou

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Tue 08/19/08 07:16 PM
Hi everyone, wow, thanks. You are great people to take the time to write such nice things. It's been 22 yrs since I last dated or looked around.

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Tue 08/19/08 07:16 PM
I'm just here to talk in the forums now, I gave up on meeting someone from here.

ernest33's photo
Tue 08/19/08 07:16 PM
this is the first time I've tried this and I've had some mail but not a lot. I'm not very computer literate here but I'm learning:)

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Tue 08/19/08 07:17 PM
I think some people behave badly because it is the internet.
Give it some time and block buttholes as you go. There are some WONDERFUL men on here, as friends and more.
And, some men won't bother to read your profile and they just hit on everyone, so don't take it personally. They just figure SOMEONE will accept the garbage. But, do include on your profile what you will not tolerate with bad behaviours in case they DO read it.

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Tue 08/19/08 07:18 PM

Hi everyone, wow, thanks. You are great people to take the time to write such nice things. It's been 22 yrs since I last dated or looked around.



That is a long time and here I was stressing because it has been 10 years for me. Window shop first he is out there just be selective. You can do it and never give up hope.

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Tue 08/19/08 07:21 PM

Hi everyone, wow, thanks. You are great people to take the time to write such nice things. It's been 22 yrs since I last dated or looked around.


its an amaing site that way.:heart:

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Tue 08/19/08 08:03 PM

dont im, use the forums. theres amaing people here. flowers



yep we be the bomb diggity :banana:

as to the OP .. for goodness sake, a little impatient are we? First day jitters
???? LOL

Relax. Take a chill pill. It's the internet. Keep it in perspective and enjoy the friendships you make ..

IMHO

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Tue 08/19/08 08:04 PM
im just here to kick it ,drinker

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Tue 08/19/08 08:05 PM
dont use the im until you get to know people..use the forums there is alot of really cool people here.

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Tue 08/19/08 08:14 PM
the forums are very cool - and you get seen...so, it all works out. Like, um, being at the bar w/ a group of friends...