See people! now that waht i'm talking about. living a little

Your right about sitting here and not giving it your fullest............i just had to make a choice in the past week to let someone go forever because of distance and I found out that I couldnt.............i might never have this chance again and I have never met a man who makes me feel the way he makes me feel...........so I made the choice to keep the man and move to another state............i couldnt let love pass me by especially when its the most amazing man I have ever met............so people go the extra mile and take the chance you might be surprised and even happy.....

oh YEAH! Now THAT'S it!! BEST of everything!

They maybe reading, but listening is most likely a different story... So many will bump there head on the wall and saying why me. When the offer is there and that pass it up because there afraid to experience life.

Right on

Thank you auburngirl.............let me tell you sometimes you have to go with what you feel inside.............

TY

<--About to experience life to the fullest! And flying a long way to do it! Happy now Michael?

Tanzkity That is exactly what I've been doing for a few months now. Thank you for that.

I like to whine. If I wasn't whining about that I'd have to find something else to whine about. Which reminds me. Where's that bottle? Need a little wine with my whine. (sorry, that was bad)

Ruth, I have some. Will White Zin do?

Absolutely! come on over and we can wine and whine!

Do you want a little cheese with that whine?

Ohhhhhhhh Baby Boy we do need to hook you up for sure your having way to much time to think of all this who is whining who want step forward and take that chance at life or love or just talking to someone one.

Shssh been there done that so now what is your point. I kinda like just posting on the forums and see what kind of trouble I can get into.

Yeah I'm here for the friendships I have made. But now if something else came along then so be it. Too many work way to hard trying to find someone and they end up with the wrong one.

Honestly love is something that should come naturally not forced. To many want love so bad they will fall for the first one that pays attention to them. Sad thing is at times it is not the attention they actually seek. For at times the one paying attention to another has a purpose behind their motives and it only has to do with satisfying a need. And another takes it as more to it and then ends up hurt and depressed.

But really everyone needs to deal with past relationship before moving on to the next one. I have heard it and witness it many times some say they are past it but still harbor such hate for the ex. Until one can deal with the emotions that come over so strong each time you talk about the ex then your not past them yet.

Yeah have been there done that took me along time before I could actually sit and think of my ex and remain calm. To this day I do wish my ex the best in life just because we did not make it does not make him all bad. He has a lot of good to him too. We just did not have it together anymore.

But as far as finding someone it will happen when it is the right time. Could be right at your back door and you have not realized it yet.

For those that say there is no one out there for them I promise you no one wants to here one that puts themselves down all the time. Or one that always brings attention to themselves about how bad life is and nothing good happens to them. Those that talk negative all the time will get nothing but negative back. Others don't like to hear all about your problems the whole time they talk to someone. We all have problems and regardless what problems one has someone has them worse.

Okay off my soap box

Whats my point

I know there are people tht have that chance, so i'm saying why pass it up? yeah like alot of us, i do have alot of time and thinking can get me into trouble at times and your right. We all have problems but it don't mean to stop living because of one issue. What i'm going through right now, i don't need to bring anyone into it. I mean , why would i? what would that do any good for me or the other. But for those that have that chance to travel and meet new frind. Why not? I wish i could do that more often. I would have a blast meeting some of you.

i met my love on this site and i was in georgia and he was in utah and i moved to start my life with him and it's one of the best things i could've done...now in 3 weeks i'll share his last name...you just have to be willing to step out of your safe zone and give something new a chance

Ohh Mike I know you must take care of what is going on in your life before bringing someone else in. That is only common curtsy to another. For you must get your own life in order first. Besides right now the most important one in your life is your baby he is number one and should come first no matter what.

As far as those that say it can't be done how do they know unless they try?

The one word my kids learned real quick not to say to mom was I CAN'T!!! I can not stand that saying for one that has never tried does not know that.

But then I can not down someone that does not want to get involved within a LDR. It is not easy by any means it takes a lot of communication and understanding from both sides for it to work out. And yes they must be in agreement to travel to meet the other one. If it works out then the next time the other one should make the trip. One must consider the cost in the long run too not all can afford to buy a ticket or drive across country to meet someone.

So therefore they prefer to meet those that live within a certain distance instead. There is nothing wrong with that we all have our preference of what we want and what we can deal with.

Some are not cut out to try the LDR and don't want to see someone only for a little while every few months. They want more of the hands on within driving distance under and hour.

I know that there are not alot of people that are cut out for a LDR. All i'm saying. Go have some fun to the people that limit themselves. if you have the means to do so and been wanting to do it. Then do it. what wrong with enjoying life. You know i always listen to what you might have to say and i take it to heart. there are not many i can say that to

Aww but that is because I do listen to what you have to say as well. I respect and admire you for the person you are. You are not closed minded and are willing to talk to anyone about things and you do try to see there point as well. You do not lash back if I say the sky is purple for to me it may be instead you are one that tries to understand what makes others click.

You enjoy talking to others and you do understand we all see things in life different. But your willing to see it their way too just to see their point of view. And you know that no matter what in life some must agree to disagree at times.


But I do understand what your saying to others if you want to meet someone then make it happen. Anything in life that one wants is possible and can be worked out if they really want to.

Never make excuses and not do what your heart desires. We only live once in life don't let doubt keep you from doing things or meeting others that you desire to.