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 He's a little too attached to you or maybe just cares a little too much. I don't know.. but we have always been friends only  Maybe he just cares about you (as a friend) That i know he does but dang... why does he get so offensive if i don't let him know i'm going out or whatnot... Sounds kinda brotherly I don't have a brother so I can not relate, but maybe... |
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some guys are just unexplainable... No. Some guys have control issues. |
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Edited by
Texanese
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Mon 08/18/08 11:49 PM
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He's a little too attached to you or maybe just cares a little too much. I don't know.. but we have always been friends only Maybe he just cares about you (as a friend) That i know he does but dang... why does he get so offensive if i don't let him know i'm going out or whatnot... Sounds kinda brotherly Sounds to me kind of like the dog in the manger thing... he doesn't want you, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either. Or, he may have someone else he's interested in, but he's thinking it may not work out and he wants to keep you on the line just in case. I |
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Now why is it: he gets mad when i don't call him regularly but yet he hardly ever picks up the phone; he doesn't want to go hang out, but gets upset if i do and don't let him know; he always assumes that I'm dating someone if I go out... We're only friends and have been for 11 years; he states he has no interest in me on a level moreso than friendship; i have no interest in him moreso than friendship; but yet he gives me the 3rd degree... I just don't get it... 
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Lay down the law to him. Sounds like he thinks he owns you which he does not! Also sounds like only his feelings matter, yours do not! Another no-no on his part! A very controlling type of person. You are the one who has to tell him like it will be since he only wants to think what he thinks is how it will be. we've had many conversations on this topic, he just gets upset and doesn't talk to me for a couple of days.. he started this crap about 2 months ago... it's not always been like this, that's one thing that has got me ALL confused. Well Button, it seems to me that you have 2 choises here. One, you can stay quiet and put up with his controlling behavior and his only my attitude matters, or two, you can flat out tell him either he straightens up or you are history as far as friendships go. Afterall, it is better to come from a broken friendship than be in one! Good luck to you Button! |
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sounds like he really wants a relationship with you but he's not being honest with you or himself.
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