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Topic: Hurts so bad
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 08/17/08 09:23 PM
Have you ever been hurt so badly that you shut down and refuse to allow anyone close enough to hurt you that way again? How do you handle it now?

sara89 Joined Fri 11/30/07 Posts: 1143	Sun 08/17/08 09:24 PM
yup...just now gettin over it.

iRon Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 2786	Sun 08/17/08 09:24 PM
Welcome to my life but it has started getting better....

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Sun 08/17/08 09:24 PM


moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Sun 08/17/08 09:24 PM
By shutting down and refusing to allow anyone close enough to hurt me. It actually does work, too.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 08/17/08 09:25 PM
Yes it happened once

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 08/17/08 09:28 PM
By shutting down and refusing to allow anyone close enough to hurt me. It actually does work, too. interesting

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sun 08/17/08 09:32 PM
Yep. I just make it a lot tougher to earn my trust.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 08/17/08 11:02 PM
Have you ever been hurt so badly that you shut down and refuse to allow anyone close enough to hurt you that way again? How do you handle it now? I was hurt when I spent all that money on that stripper and then she rejected me for an old guy with more money. Now, I just can't walk back into a strip club. "Sniff-sniff" It is for the best though.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sun 08/17/08 11:52 PM
Have you ever been hurt so badly that you shut down and refuse to allow anyone close enough to hurt you that way again? How do you handle it now? yes.......I hid myself away......stayed home.....threw myself into work......stared at the wall hahaaaaaaaaaa!!!

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Sun 08/17/08 11:54 PM
i dont let them in to my heart !

catchme_ifucan Joined Fri 11/03/06 Posts: 24221	Sun 08/17/08 11:56 PM
If I could of got that bomb I made on the plane muahaha!

scotty1964 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 10197	Sun 08/17/08 11:57 PM
man.............that happened to me and ur right..noone else will ever be that way ........but cmon i kno ur jus messin with everybody

Puffins1958 Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 13637	Sun 08/17/08 11:59 PM Edited by Puffins1958 on Sun 08/17/08 11:59 PM
it's known as WALLS!!!! to stay protected.......

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Mon 08/18/08 12:00 AM
all I can say is ..YUP~

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 08/18/08 12:03 AM
Men and women....some of them...can be so damn cruel at times. And to think, when the relationship first starts, they are all nice and cuddly. But then, something happens and they turn into Satan's child.

misstreatunice Joined Tue 10/17/06 Posts: 293	Mon 08/18/08 07:00 AM
Hello there.....I just pull back for a second then go back to the game again.lol Well it's not a game I know, but I dont want to be miserable . Just being abit more mature I guess. Life goes on.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 08/18/08 08:12 AM
You end up pushing them away, when the thought of growing too attached only to lose them, becomes so overwhelming you can't think straight. How many times can someone have their life yanked out from under them before they no longer have the courage to try it again? How do you handle that? I only had to pop my dog on the nose with a finger once to teach her not to grab the snack from my hand. You might as well ask me how to get this same dog to grab a treat from my hand now.