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I told a man (the one that wanted to give me a ring after not even a week) today that he was way too quick with things. He said he still wants to see me alot but the ball is in my court. I really don't want to call him again but do you think that is rude of me??
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Not if you were honest with him, some people take things way too fast. I agree with you that a week after talking is way too fast.
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it's not rude, truthful
you do not want to lead him |
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If you don't want to call him anymore then don't do it.
You need to make you happy. If he moves as fast as you say then I'm pretty sure that he's the very jealous type. Take care of yourself first. Good Luck 
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It may not be fair, but after past experience, a guy rushing that fast trips my warning bells.
Do what feels right to you. Trust your instinct. |
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if that was me i would want you to be truthful with me so i knew how you felt about me
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I told a man (the one that wanted to give me a ring after not even a week) today that he was way too quick with things. He said he still wants to see me alot but the ball is in my court. I really don't want to call him again but do you think that is rude of me?? If he is telling you that seeing him again is going to be based on whether or not you accept the ring...the answer should be obvious. |
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One Word....
RUN!!!!..... 
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I told a man (the one that wanted to give me a ring after not even a week) today that he was way too quick with things. He said he still wants to see me alot but the ball is in my court. I really don't want to call him again but do you think that is rude of me?? If he is telling you that seeing him again is going to be based on whether or not you accept the ring...the answer should be obvious. I made it clear that it was way too soon to accept a ring but he still wants to see me and I really don't but I dont want to be rude. 
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No, not rude at all. Disengage.
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A week is too quick & you said you don't want to call him back, so don't...and why worry about that being rude....that is the usual around online dating sites even after a few weeks....
i can give you many stories of rude people.....'pretenders' I like to call them....but when it comes down to it, people have double-sided value systems....one for everyone else & one for themselves.... |
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You are under no obligation to call or date anyone you don't want to.
it's your life. The guy is clearly a creepy loser and I would run as fast as possible from him. |
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Thanks y'all....I just put my running shoes on. lol
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Definitely agree with the running thing, but I did have a question.
Would it be a bad idea to tell him why you are running? I don't mean calling if you can do email or something. I know he'll get the idea eventually, but without a "Dear John" he may rationalize it away some other way. And if he tries contacting again after that, ignore it, you've said your piece. Or just leave it as is, with him waiting for you to contact him. I don't know. |
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I told a man (the one that wanted to give me a ring after not even a week) today that he was way too quick with things. He said he still wants to see me alot but the ball is in my court. I really don't want to call him again but do you think that is rude of me?? If he is telling you that seeing him again is going to be based on whether or not you accept the ring...the answer should be obvious. I made it clear that it was way too soon to accept a ring but he still wants to see me and I really don't but I dont want to be rude. Then don't be rude There are ways to talk to people. The next time he calls, talk to him like a friends and explain to him that your not interested. I don't mean come out and say. I don't want to talk to you any more. The thing i don't like about alot of people. they are rude and don't realized sometimes what they may of said. So when it happens to me. I let them down easy,but if there pushy. then you get a little stronger on them. |
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Marry him. Please.
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^^^ I agree
 .. there's a lot of threads about one ring and one man ... geesh 
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Definitely agree with the running thing, but I did have a question. Would it be a bad idea to tell him why you are running? I don't mean calling if you can do email or something. I know he'll get the idea eventually, but without a "Dear John" he may rationalize it away some other way. And if he tries contacting again after that, ignore it, you've said your piece. Or just leave it as is, with him waiting for you to contact him. I don't know. Good question. I would feel bad not telling him why and just having him figure it out on his own so I will be letting him know that I'm not sticking around is because it's just way to fast for my likings.
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I told a man (the one that wanted to give me a ring after not even a week) today that he was way too quick with things. He said he still wants to see me alot but the ball is in my court. I really don't want to call him again but do you think that is rude of me?? If he is telling you that seeing him again is going to be based on whether or not you accept the ring...the answer should be obvious. I made it clear that it was way too soon to accept a ring but he still wants to see me and I really don't but I dont want to be rude. Then don't be rude There are ways to talk to people. The next time he calls, talk to him like a friends and explain to him that your not interested. I don't mean come out and say. I don't want to talk to you any more. The thing i don't like about alot of people. they are rude and don't realized sometimes what they may of said. So when it happens to me. I let them down easy,but if there pushy. then you get a little stronger on them. You are right.
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Marry him. Please. Not gonna happen. 
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