This sometimes seems SO true....lol

HER DIARY:
Tonight, I thought my husband was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment on it.

Conversation wasn’t flowing, so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed, but he didn’t say much. I asked him what was wrong. He said, ‘Nothing.’ I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said he wasn’t upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to worry about it. On the way home, I told him that I loved him. He smiled slightly, and kept driving. I can’t explain his behavior. I don’t know why he didn’t say, ‘I love you, too.’ When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there quietly, and watched TV. He continued to seem distant and absent.

Finally, with silence all around us, I decided to go to bed. About 15 minutes later, he came to bed. To my surprise, he responded to my caress, and we made love. But I still felt that he was distracted, and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep - I cried. I don’t know what to do. I’m almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster.



HIS DIARY:
Harley wouldn’t start today, but at least I got laid.

I'll admit that I'm one of those women who would over analyze a situation like that.

OMG how true that is

Boy am I glad to see the two posts after E's.

I thought I was gonna have to start ducking flying debris once the ladies got a gander at that one...LMAO

No worries. We all know that women are much more verbal and enjoy articulating their concerns. Men are simply not that way. In many respects, it makes perfect sense from a biological standpoint.

Well.I have tried articulating my " concerns " to a couple of my ex's.

There is absolutely NO payoff for doing that. Except maybe for the cold shoulder. Which in the case of my last ex, wasn't such a bad thing cuz I really wanted her to shut up anyway.

That was too funny!

Well I'm not going to ask you what went down on an open forum of course. As a general rule, women are the speakers in a relationship. Not always, but under normal circumstances. I myself am a little more quiet but thats a personality type I would imagine and less to do with gender.

I'll put it this way....

When I decided to speak up....she REALLY didn't want to hear it.

Well that would have been based more on her personality and less about gender.

LOL. One of the members on my website posted that in our " Clean Humor " section and I just HAD to post it here....lmao

The thing we don't get is why can't he just say he's upset cause the Harley wouldn't start? Especially when most men are fully well aware of our need to diagnose every frown and silence. I believe this is called torture!

Because I bet you $20 that if he told her it was because his bike wouldn't start she would not believe him and then claim he is keeping her "in the dark" or something along those lines.

Like women over analyzing things isn't torture for US???? lol

* GASP * I just GENERALIZED!!!

I am SO gonna get lynched now.

* runs for cover *

Men tend to be "fixers". That means if you unload a bunch of personal issues on them, they tend to view this as us wanting them to somehow "fix the problem."

Women simply love to talk things though at times. It helps us unwind and get it out of our systems. That’s what we often do with girlfriends is shoot the ****. There is no expectation that the girlfriend will correct the problem in some capacity. It’s merely being able to talk it through.

That’s one of those differences that sometimes can cause arguments.

True enough. But when any woman I have gone out with for any length of time actually WANTS my opinion on something..I have to read their mind to know when that is.

Im not really sure what the problem is there and it may be the particular women you gravitate to. Its also difficult to hear one person's side of it and not know the others. I have to be fair in that respect of course. Im sure if I asked any of your past girlfriends about these problems, I would get an ear full.