If your boyfriend went from hanging out with you every day to not even calling for 6 days at a time, shows up for a couple of days with excuses and apologies, then disappears again and didn't show up for your last date would you dump him?

awww mirror.. you need a new bf!!!!

Sounds like something else is going on

Absolutely! To the CURB!!

I liked you much better before romance novel writing aliens took over your brain.

yep... to the curb he must go

Shutting down communication, distancing himself, less excited about spending time with you....

"There are signs everywhere!"

Yes, I would be done. He obviously is....

Ditto.

Get back to Original.

Humm depends what I un-covered in the detective work as I checked out what was going on and where he was going.

I'm one that before I jump to conclusion I do believe in gathering the evidence ya know I must see it with my own two eyes first.

Excuses only last for so long, I'd like to think I catch on pretty quickly. Liars are no bueno so I would have to give him the boot.

WOW sounds SO much like my last relationship.

He moved away for a job. Not that much further away only about and hpur or so. But we still tried to keep things going. But he NEVER called, never answered my calls or texts. He would come down on the weekends and call me the day before to let me know. And then just come up with an excuse he was busy with work. But who the hell works 24 hours a day 5 days a week? Eventually coming down once a week turned into every other week. Which meant I would only hear from him every two weeks. Started to feel like he was only using me for a place to stay while he visited with his friends. Sure he would take me a long, but not something I wanted to do when I did not get to see him all that much. Eventually he would come over to just leep on the couch, and use the excuse he did not like my bed. One day he was rude to me while we were out, and I just walked away from him, and we never spoke again.