I had a woman I met on line hang the phone up on me because I had
mentioned a female friend of mine [just friend as I made it clear] who
is a cancer patient had good new from a checkup. Previously I had told
this woman that I had been very much in love with a woman a few years
ago. She asked my why I wished to tell her that.

I ahve no problem with women telling me a bit about men in their past.
why do women get so uptight about something so meaningless. Do thye
think that at 58 I would ahve never cared for a woman before? Do women
want to be with men who dont cre about women??

Just be yourself, talk about what you want, that is how your life is.
Trying to satisfy someone else never works, if you aren't you.

not all girls are like that.
she's just the jealous type.

Well past relantionships will come up in a conversation sooner or later
that is part of our past. As long as they are not talking they are still
in love with them or dishing the hell out of them see no reason why it
would hurt. Some still talk to ones they dated just as friends only that
is life deal with it or move on. Now the only time I have a problem with
it is don't dare to mention and old flame while your in the bed together
hellllllllllllo complete turn off quick. lmao. Besides that if they get
that jealous it is time to move on when you are just talking and you
bring up a friend and what is going on either male or female we all have
friends. No one should try to chose the other ones friends and cut them
off from the world.

its not about the PAST its about the FUTURE .

i dont mind hearing it but if it drags on too long it gets old

Good point Buttons....
But there definately is a line croosed that shows when a person is
insecure (because they can't stand to hear about other people) and when
another person hasn't gotten over something from the past (Because they
keep talking about their Ex).

You'll have to answer the question for yourself bfriends4now, but if
chics keep hanging up on you: then it might be you

i had a woman say to me " i'd like to see some pic's of you old girl
friend's so i brought her some and she yelled " i don't look like any of
them !!!!!! lol it's true

I agree with you sluggo I think it is ok to talk about it as long as
it's not the only thing they talk about It gives you insite on what the
person might be like But if you can't talk to someone without them
getting mad then move on It's a sign that they need to deal with there
own problems

I agree w/ Sluggo and Shadow, it can definately give you insite as to
the type of person they are (how they reacted to certain situations w/
the ex), if they are over the other person or not, and what kind of
personal issues they may have that they need to get over (or you don't
want to deal with - temper, co-dependancy, etc).

well i can take 5 straight min of it but after that it seems to make my
eyes roll in the back of my head and also geesh i dont wanna
hear about it everyday for 5 min either

LOL Buttons!!!! you go girl!!!