Topic: rich junkie types
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Sat 08/16/08 09:26 AM
This makes me truly sad for youfrown Not sympathetic..and in no way am I condoning your lifestyle...but there is so much in the way you speak that is poetic and it makes me sad...because you are an intelligent woman and the answer is right in front of you.....but to be honest...if he's so far gone that he doesnt even "see" you anymore...its time to walk...even if it is the most painful thing you ever do in your life....even if your love for him exceeds any and all things.....your love for yourself...should be much greater....and the material things mean nothing....flowerforyou

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Sat 08/16/08 09:42 AM

This makes me truly sad for youfrown Not sympathetic..and in no way am I condoning your lifestyle...but there is so much in the way you speak that is poetic and it makes me sad...because you are an intelligent woman and the answer is right in front of you.....but to be honest...if he's so far gone that he doesnt even "see" you anymore...its time to walk...even if it is the most painful thing you ever do in your life....even if your love for him exceeds any and all things.....your love for yourself...should be much greater....and the material things mean nothing....flowerforyou


a greed. material is not ALL THAT

hugs for you too angelface but perhaps acceptance and happy peaceful homes are

how do we make those for girls decided they're not objets d'art. sounds like material provides the options on lifestyle is the issue or non-issue.

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Sat 08/16/08 09:48 AM


This makes me truly sad for youfrown Not sympathetic..and in no way am I condoning your lifestyle...but there is so much in the way you speak that is poetic and it makes me sad...because you are an intelligent woman and the answer is right in front of you.....but to be honest...if he's so far gone that he doesnt even "see" you anymore...its time to walk...even if it is the most painful thing you ever do in your life....even if your love for him exceeds any and all things.....your love for yourself...should be much greater....and the material things mean nothing....flowerforyou


a greed. material is not ALL THAT

hugs for you too angelface but perhaps acceptance and happy peaceful homes are

how do we make those for girls decided they're not objets d'art. sounds like material provides the options on lifestyle is the issue or non-issue.


Thanksflowerforyou ...I also think there is a lot of love involved as well...they have a history and part of her feels that need to stand beside him...although I think she will find herself standing behind him....and even if screaming his name...he may never turn and look at her..

We as women feel that need to nurture...and men seek that out in us....but there has to be a line drawn somewhere...

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Sat 08/16/08 10:00 AM



This makes me truly sad for youfrown Not sympathetic..and in no way am I condoning your lifestyle...but there is so much in the way you speak that is poetic and it makes me sad...because you are an intelligent woman and the answer is right in front of you.....but to be honest...if he's so far gone that he doesnt even "see" you anymore...its time to walk...even if it is the most painful thing you ever do in your life....even if your love for him exceeds any and all things.....your love for yourself...should be much greater....and the material things mean nothing....flowerforyou


a greed. material is not ALL THAT

hugs for you too angelface but perhaps acceptance and happy peaceful homes are

how do we make those for girls decided they're not objets d'art. sounds like material provides the options on lifestyle is the issue or non-issue.


Thanksflowerforyou ...I also think there is a lot of love involved as well...they have a history and part of her feels that need to stand beside him...although I think she will find herself standing behind him....and even if screaming his name...he may never turn and look at her..

We as women feel that need to nurture...and men seek that out in us....but there has to be a line drawn somewhere...


Yep. I've been around the block and that is why I post here. Women must light and guide the way for one another. Vocalists develop polyps.




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Sat 08/16/08 02:28 PM
Since polyps are at the other end of the spectrum:wink:
I suppose you are getting at the fact that we take it in the rear for each other...?bigsmile :wink: laugh

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Sat 08/16/08 08:38 PM

Since polyps are at the other end of the spectrum:wink:
I suppose you are getting at the fact that we take it in the rear for each other...?bigsmile :wink: laugh


Yes you could say we help one another make decisions and distinctions. So many to teach for some.

The question remains, who made who gay.

Now look, I think I've run sav a girl off. Which way did YOU go, hun?


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Sat 08/16/08 08:52 PM
Do I have to answer all &(*#&%es questions

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Sat 08/16/08 10:58 PM

Do I have to answer all &(*#&%es questions


WTF is this?ohwell


I hated that movie and the fact that David Bowie was in it...still makes me a little sick to think about him in tights...ewwsick

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Sat 08/16/08 11:18 PM


Do I have to answer all &(*#&%es questions


WTF is this?ohwell


I hated that movie and the fact that David Bowie was in it...still makes me a little sick to think about him in tights...ewwsick


David Bowie is STILL hot.

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Sat 08/16/08 11:23 PM



Do I have to answer all &(*#&%es questions


WTF is this?ohwell


I hated that movie and the fact that David Bowie was in it...still makes me a little sick to think about him in tights...ewwsick


David Bowie is STILL hot.


You must not have seen the tights and the eyeliner..

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Sat 08/16/08 11:24 PM


Do I have to answer all &(*#&%es questions


WTF is this?ohwell


I hated that movie and the fact that David Bowie was in it...still makes me a little sick to think about him in tights...ewwsick


I loved the movie..although I could have done without seeing Bowie in tights....lmao

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Sat 08/16/08 11:26 PM



Do I have to answer all &(*#&%es questions


WTF is this?ohwell


I hated that movie and the fact that David Bowie was in it...still makes me a little sick to think about him in tights...ewwsick


I loved the movie..although I could have done without seeing Bowie in tights....lmao


He ruined that movie....It would have been awesome if they had cast someone else.....jmo

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Sat 08/16/08 11:26 PM




Do I have to answer all &(*#&%es questions


WTF is this?ohwell


I hated that movie and the fact that David Bowie was in it...still makes me a little sick to think about him in tights...ewwsick


David Bowie is STILL hot.


You must not have seen the tights and the eyeliner..


Oh, I saw them alright! Not that I would date a dude who sported tights, Bowie can get away with that kind of thing.

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Sat 08/16/08 11:28 PM




Do I have to answer all &(*#&%es questions


WTF is this?ohwell


I hated that movie and the fact that David Bowie was in it...still makes me a little sick to think about him in tights...ewwsick


I loved the movie..although I could have done without seeing Bowie in tights....lmao


He ruined that movie....It would have been awesome if they had cast someone else.....jmo


I'll definitely admit that his acting wasn't exactly Oscar worthy.

Fortunately, the rest of the movie made up for it, IMO.

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Sat 08/16/08 11:31 PM
Dude Whitney Houston is right CRACK IS WACK.................

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Sat 08/16/08 11:31 PM

Dude Whitney Houston is right CRACK IS WACK.................


Haha! Take it from her!

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Sun 08/17/08 10:51 AM

This makes me truly sad for youfrown Not sympathetic..and in no way am I condoning your lifestyle...but there is so much in the way you speak that is poetic and it makes me sad...because you are an intelligent woman and the answer is right in front of you.....but to be honest...if he's so far gone that he doesnt even "see" you anymore...its time to walk...even if it is the most painful thing you ever do in your life....even if your love for him exceeds any and all things.....your love for yourself...should be much greater....and the material things mean nothing....flowerforyou


Thank you angelfaceflowerforyou Walking away is one thing, leaving is another. I think its a transformation every time we decide.

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Sun 08/17/08 10:54 AM

I just want to tell him, go be a real junkie. Hang with a band of users and do it the real way. No more hiding hypodermics under your granite countertop and your double door double seat name brand bathroom and gem inlaid coffee table, silk lampshade, you're like private practice.

If I'm going to join him in life until death do us part, we're going to pretend it's so elegant and savory to rattle and dive.

I'm telling him I want to be a full scale full blown addict. I will not care what we or our house looks like. Isn't that the point of living free? I tell you, that's his true insanity. Tea time and pretend.

I'm game for the high, the lulling to sleep whatever death we reap.

We've been perfect for one another since the day we met. Sweetheart childhood love. I just ask for some semblance of authenticity. I'm tired of dating all his friends.

He says we'll be clean by the time we're 48. I keep saying I'm ready to crash.




There's different types of addicts. There's functioning, which this person seems to be, and there's the non functional, which is what you want to be? I don't get it.

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Sun 08/17/08 10:58 AM


Since polyps are at the other end of the spectrum:wink:
I suppose you are getting at the fact that we take it in the rear for each other...?bigsmile :wink: laugh


Yes you could say we help one another make decisions and distinctions. So many to teach for some.

The question remains, who made who gay.

Now look, I think I've run sav a girl off. Which way did YOU go, hun?




I'm already well into it fire. I'm beginning to think relationships and family choices are all questions of whose delusion are you willing to buy into. I'm sorting and not ready to pick up his tab.

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Sun 08/17/08 11:01 AM


I just want to tell him, go be a real junkie. Hang with a band of users and do it the real way. No more hiding hypodermics under your granite countertop and your double door double seat name brand bathroom and gem inlaid coffee table, silk lampshade, you're like private practice.

If I'm going to join him in life until death do us part, we're going to pretend it's so elegant and savory to rattle and dive.

I'm telling him I want to be a full scale full blown addict. I will not care what we or our house looks like. Isn't that the point of living free? I tell you, that's his true insanity. Tea time and pretend.

I'm game for the high, the lulling to sleep whatever death we reap.

We've been perfect for one another since the day we met. Sweetheart childhood love. I just ask for some semblance of authenticity. I'm tired of dating all his friends.

He says we'll be clean by the time we're 48. I keep saying I'm ready to crash.




There's different types of addicts. There's functioning, which this person seems to be, and there's the non functional, which is what you want to be? I don't get it.


I agree that's where our difference lies to a certain extent. His life seem so full of possibilities if he can just continue on using. I find a life, even though one of less possibility still appealing.