You're with someone and you're in love. His ex comes back into the picture and you can tell he has feelings for her. He starts to go back with her and then she leaves again. So, he comes back to you. Do you stay with him?

kick him to the curb !

no way

I would say keep a distance until he shows he is over her.

Uhhh, no because he will always have feelings for his ex...

personally I wouldn't

But dont do what I do, do what's best for you

no

Hell no! If I wasn't good nuff then , I aint NOW!

i do not go threw the the recycle bin

Hell.....I'm IN that potential situation and I say...

NO!!!!!!!!

No...
If he can so easily leave me the first time.. what makes me think he will stay this next time??

No.

i did that and i totally messed up. there was this guy that i had known way before i got together with my daughter dad, and i got together with him about 15yrs ago we were together for 3yrs and we broke up for a yr and during that time i met someone else, and he gave me warmth and i felt really content with him. and he made me feel special. well i messed up and i went back to the x and yea i hurt the other guy feeling as i knew how he felt towards me we had awsome connection that i never felt before.. and over the yrs i had left him emails and no responds not sure if his gf is getting them and not letting him know.. im not chasing him im wanting him to know whats been going on in my life over the past few yrs..

Thats a loaded question.If he comes back because he wants to be w/you and made a mistake, go for it. If he comes back because he can't have her or to make her jealous...FORGET IT

It would all depend on the tone of the matter. It's natural to want to crave the security of what we know when it's an available option. If he thought he'd made the wrong choice, and came back? I would ask him to take some time to think about what he really wants before asking me to let him back into my life. Then I would have some time myself to decide if I were willing to take a chance on being hurt once more.

Good question...tough spot.

I might be considered harsh for saying it, but the answer is no.

I've had more than one person come knocking on my door again. I said the same thing every time. "Now is no good, you should have realized what you had then." The thing is, you know your worth it. This guy obviously overlooked that, and if he was willing to take you for granted once, he'll do it again.

I've always said I've never stopped loving anyone. That is true. But trust is a completely different thing. Once it's been voilated, it is very difficult to patch it back up. It'll always be in the back of your mind.

I could be way off base on this. I can only really give advice based on my own experiences, and your situation may be entirely different. In the end, it's always best to go with your gut. If it's telling you that this situation is no good, listen too it.