Topic: Does this happen to you?
MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/12/08 09:21 PM
smokin I get emails from lurkers and newbies on a regular basis.smokin

TheShadow's photo
Tue 08/12/08 09:22 PM

smokin I get emails from lurkers and newbies on a regular basis.smokin

Yeah, look at your pic, does it bitelaugh

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 08/12/08 09:23 PM
The only emails I get ( other than the ones from friends ) are the ones from the poor women who wound up with me on their list from Deb's Matchmaking Game thread....LMFAO

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/12/08 09:23 PM


smokin I get emails from lurkers and newbies on a regular basis.smokin

Yeah, look at your pic, does it bitelaugh
laugh

TheShadow's photo
Tue 08/12/08 09:27 PM

The only emails I get ( other than the ones from friends ) are the ones from the poor women who wound up with me on their list from Deb's Matchmaking Game thread....LMFAO


laugh laugh laugh

JulieMP's photo
Tue 08/12/08 09:35 PM

Alot of the time when i read profiles and, most likely if i like what i read ill send an email. Well alot of the time like most. There is no reply. Well, when i stop doing it for a while. Out of the blue i start getting all kinds of email from people i never met.


Does this happen to you?



it is different for girls. I get many emails and messages but they are in bulk and it makes me feel like I am a recieving some sort of form letter.
Most of the times they all read the same and I am sad because I long for interesting and compelling.

I rarely send out emails and have never accepted a "friend" because I do not like to use that term loosely.

I do think this website can offer friendship and perhaps romance but it is seems that it may be slim pickings.

Good luck!!

TheShadow's photo
Tue 08/12/08 09:49 PM
Edited by TheShadow on Tue 08/12/08 09:52 PM


Alot of the time when i read profiles and, most likely if i like what i read ill send an email. Well alot of the time like most. There is no reply. Well, when i stop doing it for a while. Out of the blue i start getting all kinds of email from people i never met.


Does this happen to you?



it is different for girls. I get many emails and messages but they are in bulk and it makes me feel like I am a recieving some sort of form letter.
Most of the times they all read the same and I am sad because I long for interesting and compelling.

I rarely send out emails and have never accepted a "friend" because I do not like to use that term loosely.

I do think this website can offer friendship and perhaps romance but it is seems that it may be slim pickings.

Good luck!!



Everyone has what there looking for. Alot of the time i think it's in how you persent yourself. As far as it being slim pickings, it might be for some,but for otheres it all in how not to be afraid to take chances.

no photo
Tue 08/12/08 09:51 PM
Yes, it happens. I think it has to do with going thru the Mutual Matches... if someone finds a profile interesting, they may put out the "feelers."

Amathyst2's photo
Tue 08/12/08 10:01 PM
I get emails all of the time. Some of them I do not particularly care for. Like emails from guys saying, "I'm a special man looking for a special woman like you!" Yeah.. Special ed... laugh Do people read anymore??

TheShadow's photo
Tue 08/12/08 10:56 PM

I get emails all of the time. Some of them I do not particularly care for. Like emails from guys saying, "I'm a special man looking for a special woman like you!" Yeah.. Special ed... laugh Do people read anymore??


LMAO

Wait! i'm a special man:tongue: laugh

Amathyst2's photo
Tue 08/12/08 11:04 PM


I get emails all of the time. Some of them I do not particularly care for. Like emails from guys saying, "I'm a special man looking for a special woman like you!" Yeah.. Special ed... laugh Do people read anymore??


LMAO

Wait! i'm a special man:tongue: laugh


You're very special Shadow.. You're my SB.. Shadow buddy. :wink: :tongue:

no photo
Wed 08/13/08 01:16 AM

Alot of the time when i read profiles and, most likely if i like what i read ill send an email. Well alot of the time like most. There is no reply. Well, when i stop doing it for a while. Out of the blue i start getting all kinds of email from people i never met.


Does this happen to you?
Shadow......you know Ive played around on here with pics.....and Ive tested the theory that sex sells!!!noway laugh noway But nothing gave me more views that the crack whore pic I put up......I think she may have been half monkey!!!noway laugh laugh laugh Man counter went up 89032478942378923%!!!laugh laugh laugh Oh and the yellow bathing suit pic the emails go nuts.......its funny.......human nature.....men/women.........noway

Amathyst2's photo
Wed 08/13/08 01:21 AM


Alot of the time when i read profiles and, most likely if i like what i read ill send an email. Well alot of the time like most. There is no reply. Well, when i stop doing it for a while. Out of the blue i start getting all kinds of email from people i never met.


Does this happen to you?
Shadow......you know Ive played around on here with pics.....and Ive tested the theory that sex sells!!!noway laugh noway But nothing gave me more views that the crack whore pic I put up......I think she may have been half monkey!!!noway laugh laugh laugh Man counter went up 89032478942378923%!!!laugh laugh laugh Oh and the yellow bathing suit pic the emails go nuts.......its funny.......human nature.....men/women.........noway


You and them ass shots! drool :laughing: frustrated

But seriously, it's sooo true. And some of the photos you put up crack me the hell up! laugh Where do you find all of them??

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Wed 08/13/08 04:24 AM

Yes, it does....

And the heading will start out as....." Hey baby"sick ill



LMAO!!!

Even though I told them on my profile that I wasn't searching for mr. write, they still email me ...... frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Wed 08/13/08 04:29 AM

Alot of the time when i read profiles and, most likely if i like what i read ill send an email. Well alot of the time like most. There is no reply. Well, when i stop doing it for a while. Out of the blue i start getting all kinds of email from people i never met.


Does this happen to you?


Well daing Shadow!!!! I just checked out your profile! To heck with reading it ..... I can't stop lookin at your pic without your shirt on.

So thats why I don't email you.... I am beside myself with your sexiness!

I said I wasn't lookin... but I peeked.
lol

blushing blushing blushing pitchfork

:angel:

no photo
Wed 08/13/08 06:06 AM

Alot of the time when i read profiles and, most likely if i like what i read ill send an email. Well alot of the time like most. There is no reply. Well, when i stop doing it for a while. Out of the blue i start getting all kinds of email from people i never met.


Does this happen to you?


When I first signed up, I sent out a few random unsolicited e-mails to locals -- mainly talking about things in their profiles, the area, and such -- and never got a reply.

After I had been here for awhile, I started getting lots of e-mail from people who saw something I had written in the forums, or who wanted to argue about something in my profile, or whatever.

I quit writing first e-mails ages ago. It does no good, and I do better by just writing stuff in the forums and waiting for people to react. It's not a perfect system -- in a perfect system, people would have the common courtesy to reply -- but it's probably as good as we're going to get.

RoamingOrator's photo
Wed 08/13/08 06:08 AM

Alot of the time when i read profiles and, most likely if i like what i read ill send an email. Well alot of the time like most. There is no reply. Well, when i stop doing it for a while. Out of the blue i start getting all kinds of email from people i never met.


Does this happen to you?


Well, I can agree about the first part: sending mail with no replies. I can't seem to agree about the second part getting mail out of the blue.

It's a good theory, I think you should explore it more. Do massive emails today, and see if you get responses next week.

dawnyhi's photo
Wed 08/13/08 06:09 AM
i write random emails just cuz i am bored and i like to make friends....

why analyze every thing HAVE FUN

LIGHTEN UP peeps...

you dont have to respond just say hi aint that the site name....


Dawny....

watch out for random emails

woooooooooooooooooooo
scarey...shades

dawnyhi's photo
Wed 08/13/08 06:11 AM
if ya keep whining about it maybe ya wont get no more....oh oh

no photo
Wed 08/13/08 06:15 AM
Seems like I don't have to worry about this problem at all!!!!